Anger and Divorce

When anger becomes consuming and prevents us from finding peace and serenity over time, then it no longer serves us. Here are 4 steps for letting go of anger from a divorce, and clearing the deck for happiness, fulfillment, and joy moving forward.

Why it is Fun to Date a Live California Girl

At least once in your life, do try to go out with a California girl. They have so many great characteristics that you will surely find appealing. Luckily for you, you can go on an online date with a live California girl. You might think it to be unorthodox, but it surely is a fun way to pass time and meet a great girl while you are at it. So what makes a live California girl better than the rest of those girls you meet online? Read on to find out.

Learn the Skills for Kissing With Confidence

The level of confidence inside you can decide the significance of your first kiss. You don’t have to do any exercise or planning to bring in confidence inside you. There are few little things, which if taken into consideration, can allow you kissing with confidence. In the end, your confidence can bring smile on two pairs of lips.

Best Moment to Call After First Date

This article discusses when is the best time to call after your first date with someone you are interested. This article also shares some of the useful dating tips.

Is Your Husband a Narcissist? 8 Signs of Narcissism

A personality disorder that is commonly very destructive in relationships is narcissism, and it is more commonly diagnosed in men. If you find yourself often bewildered or hurt by your husband's actions and nothing seems to change, it is possible that the explanation could be narcissism. Here are 8 signs of narcissism.

Online Dating Store Opens

(Online Dating News Blog) Ann and Jeff met on an online dating service and after a few dates together it looked like true love could be in the making. Only three weeks after first meeting in person, Ann’s 24th birthday arrived and Jeff (28 years old) wanted to do something that would impress her and.

Meeting Women Through Personals

Women that run personal ads get piles of responses. If you're going to try to meet women with personals, you should get good at it and stay current with them. Contact women as soon as their ads are listed. This way you'll be one of the first to interact with them when the ad is posted. Here's why it's important. If you are the 72nd guy to respond to her classified you risk her already having hooked up with one or more of numbers 1-71 and there is also the chance that she might be frustrated by the horde of clumsy "nicers" that preceded you, souring her on the whole idea of meeting great guys with classifieds. At some point, all the men that are responding to a woman's personal ad will run together into a heap of desperate men. Get involved with her before she becomes jaded with the entire process. Next, and probably more important than anything else, DON'T respond to a woman's personal by analyzing it and using her criteria to pattern your response thinking that you can sell yourself as a perfect image of the guy she's looking for. First of all, that's herd-think. Every guy that responds to her ad will be trying that. She will be getting an avalanche of responses tailored point-by-point to what she asked for in her personal ad. Secondly, what you won't read in any of these ads is what makes her feel ATTRACTION for a man. All that her personal ad will tell you is what she has been conditioned to think of as the ideal characteristics for a guy. She's never met this guy she's describing. It's only a notion for her. She's describing NICE! You know where NICE puts you. She doesn't realize that if this guy ever shows up, he'll bore the hell out of her. So, forget about trying to be the prince she is seeking in the ad. You can't measure up and you don't want to! With the proper MACKing philosophy, skills and strategies your task will be to show her that she doesn't want the prince either. Think about it. After being bored with all the guys she knows, this woman sat down and decided to put a personal ad online and describe the Prince Charming she THOUGHT would make her happy. "I'd like to be great friends first with a guy and eventually settle down with someone that respects me as a person and an equal." "I believe that the best relationships are based on friendship..." "My ideal match is a man of good character, high morals and loyal. He is thoughtful, considerate and knows how to treat a lady." Most guys write back ... "Hi, I'm a stable single guy who has a sense of humor, high morals, is honest, and believes that friendship is the foundation for a loving relationship." You KNOW that's how it is going to go down. But all those "princely" characteristics don't change anything about what is going to get her attention and make her feel ATTRACTION. Do you see why you should not try to figure out how to answer these personal ads with herd-think responses tailored to match her requirements? Don't do it. Ignore the ad details. Do NOT try to please her saying what you think she wants to hear. Here's what you know: When a woman is writing a PERSONAL ad, she's usually at a point in her life where she's down. Maybe she's been disappointed by or hurt in a recent relationship. She's looking for somebody different that can bring some fun and excitement into her life. So what do you do? I suggest a new twist of what I gave you already. 1) Tease her a bit, gently. Maybe something like "I can't trust your honesty in a PERSONAL AD. I need to know what kind of person you are." 2) Roll into a "remote" MACK Profiling explaining only the hows and whys (see BestInfoFound.com for MACK Profiling, one of the MACKnificient Strategies). 3) Suggest you meet for a cup of tea where you will explain her responses and tell her things about herself that even her friends don't know. 4) Promise her a "unique" and fun meeting in a safe setting with a lot of people. 5) Tell her the results of your meeting will be that you'll either pass like two ships in the night or maybe begin a lifelong journey together. She will be waiting with great anticipation for this very special guy that says he can look into her inner being. And if you really want to be prepared to dazzle her why not learn the MACK Predicting Strategy. She won't be able to forget you. To find out more about the MACKnificent Strategies and the Memorable MACKing philosophy, visit http://www.BestInfoFound.com Women won't be able to forget you.

Uncertain Issues Related to Dating

Having a romantic relationship in the workplace is a common occurrence. Sometimes it happens in secret, without the knowledge of fellow co-workers, while at other times it inevitable becomes known. Deciding whether or not to disclose that you are dating someone at work to fellow colleagues may not be a choice that you can [

Fling Dating Update

I have had MUCH success finding flings using my Fling Dating techniques over at fling.com since my last post! I have averaged one new casual relationship per week. I realize not all of you are looking to get multiple partners out of your fling dating experience, But some of us like a variety. Fling.com has [

New Site - Online Dating Bookmarks - Launches

(Online Dating News Blog) Ann and Jeff met on an online dating service and after a few dates together it looked like true love could be in the making. Only three weeks after first meeting in person, Ann’s 24th birthday arrived and Jeff (28 years old) wanted to do something that would impress her and.

Why People Feel the Way They Do

Have you ever wondered why some people seem driven to make a lot of money while others honestly seem to be satisfied with just "getting by?" Have you known people who do so much for others they become enablers and you think that’s not a good thing? Or do you know people who seem so immersed in their own needs they don’t do enough to help others? If another person’s beliefs and attitudes are diametrically opposed to yours, you’ll have problems relating to that person and may have serious conflict because of your differences. Basically, the greater the gap between your values and someone else’s, the more difficulty you’ll have with that person. Here are some tips on how to understand your own and other people’s attitudes and improve your relationships with them. Know Your Values There are six values, first defined by psychologist Eduard Spranger, that we all have in varying degrees. They are: Theoretical (passion for knowledge) Utilitarian (passion for money and what is useful) Aesthetic (passion for beauty, balance, and harmony) Social (passion for service to others) Individualistic (passion for power and control) Traditional (passion for finding the highest meaning in life) Your top two values are what drive you and must be fulfilled for you to achieve happiness in life. The characteristics of people high in a particular values cluster go deep and are too numerous to mention here. But if you know and understand your own values, you’ll have more clarity as to what you want to do with your life. Know Other’s Values If your top value is someone else’s lowest value, you’re going to have misunderstandings and conflict with that person. I once had a client whose top two values were Social and Traditional. She and her daughter were having serious relationship problems. We discovered (with values assessments) that the daughter had her mother’s top two values as numbers five and six. It was like Mother Teresa and an atheist trying to see eye to eye. But once they understood where their conflict was coming from, they were able to improve their relationship considerably. Understand Your Differences Certain values clusters produce strong conflicts with others. For example, if you’re high in the Theoretical attitude, you value knowledge. You take an analytical approach to solving problems and believe decisions must be rationally justified. If the other person is high in the Aesthetic value, you’ll conflict with the way you see things. High Aesthetic people value the artistic episodes of life and tend to make emotional decisions, based on the way they feel. Whether we call this left brain vs. right brain or head vs. heart, the cause is differing values. Understanding values characteristics will take you a long way toward resolving your differences. Let People Be Who They Are Understand people have different passions that drive them to get what they want. As Anais Nin said, "We don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are." If you can appreciate that values are neither good nor bad - just different, it can help you appreciate other’s point of view and be less judgmental toward them. Set Clear Boundaries Of course, in your efforts to improve relationships, you should never let people criticize you for being who you are, either. Generally, when people know you understand where they’re "coming from," most will be more understanding with you. It’s important to make it clear to others how they may and may not treat you. I had a friend once who was high in the Theoretical value. She used to roll her eyes and get irritated with my "stupidity" for not knowing something she thought I should know. When I explained that I’m not stupid, that I graduated magna cum laude, second in my class in college and was uncomfortable with her attitude, she stopped treating me with disdain. It’s all about having self respect and respect for others. When you and another person know and understand your differing attitudes and why, communication improves and you can develop more relationship compatibility. To improve your relationships, order the ebook "Why Can’t You See it My Way? Resolving Values Conflicts at Work and Home" at http://www.resolveconflictnow.com Annette Estes is a Certified Professional Behavioral and Values Analyst, life coach and Managing Director of The Estes Group. Contact her through her website at http://www.resolveconflictnow.com

Communicating while Dating

So how many times, or have you ever been in the supermarket, out doing grocery shopping or just making a stop at a shopping plaza and someone comes up and starts small talk. The conversation is light and friendly, and then the question is asked, “So, are you single?” And then you know where [

Fling Dating: How To

Ever wanted to find a casual partner for nothing more than sex but were afraid of being blunt? Well I have found a solution - Fling Dating ! Relationships are drama as we all know, So check out Fling.com and browse tons of horny locals who want to fuck! There are MILLIONS of members so [

Why Women Dump Men - 3 Very Good Reasons And A Hot Tip

Having been on the receiving end in the past and having just witnessed my unfortunate twin brother getting 'dumped', at the ripe age of 40, will some of us ever learn why women dump men? Or are we doomed to forever try and unravel this great mystery in the hope of one day steering joyfully through calm, clear waters as some lucky ladys faithful partner. I would strongly suggest that the reasons why women dump men are not what most men would expect. Reason number 1: A woman deserves to be appreciated for the delightfully loyal and passionate partner she is. Men must never become complacent in the relationship and stop showing their partner just how valuable they are. Even just the little things we so easily get out of the habit of, appreciating her input to our important project for example, allowing her to relax while we make her a hot drink. It's so cliche to say 'she's so high maintenance' without stopping and looking at the simple fact that we just need to show our ladies some appreciation. 'High maintenance' will instantly change to happy and confident in the fact that their love for you is being reciprocated. A lack of appreciation is a common reason why women dump men. Reason number 2: If you forget to let her know that you need her and want her she will feel insignificant. So in contrast to the first reason (nobody said this was easy!) you must also allow your partner to do things for you, to spoil you and show you that she is interested. Never dismiss or take for granted all the chores and day to day tasks that your partner performs. Make sure she knows you value her contribution to the relationship and the partnership the two of you have. Reason number 3: You have simply drifted apart allowing those common interests and the spark that set the two of you alight in the beginning to fade. Make sure, especially if you have been together for a while that you take some time to think about the magic that brought you together. Keep the spark alive, think back to all the positive elements from when you first met. You don't have to let all that amazing energy fade out. It's too easy to become lazy and complacent as time passes. This is another simple reason why women dump men. You and your partner shared common interests and desires, music, hobbies, lifestyle and more that can easily be revisited with just a little effort. Write a list together of all the positives in your relationship, both active and neglected! Then make it your goal to act upon these common elements to bring the two of you together again. Now for a red hot tip that will make you instantly attractive to your partner again, if that is the desired result. A major reason why women dump men can be avoided with a simple effort on your part to take pride in your appearance. Nothing makes a woman take notice of her man more than an effort to be well groomed or even just a slight change from your current look to indicate you are taking pride in your appearance, for her offcourse! Want some more red hot tips? For more detail about why women dump men and a complete, proven and comprehensive guide to rescuing a troubled or even finished relationship, for men and women http://www.themagicofmakinup.com

Reality show star finds true love and support all over her world.

Sex is an important part of being human. Not only does it feel good and reinforce a strong relationship, but it also has health benefits well beyond other forms of exercise. AOL Health reports that it can actually slow the aging process. During an appearance on the Oprah show, Dr. Mehmet Oz asked a series of questions to help [

Fling Dating Success

Fling dating has brought us even more sluts in our local area who were looking for a wild time just like us. I found two sluts that loved to fuck guys together and I knew that I had to meet them. So, around 7pm I called them like we discussed on [

Sexual Zen Slows the Aging Process

Sex is an important part of being human. Not only does it feel good and reinforce a strong relationship, but it also has health benefits well beyond other forms of exercise. AOL Health reports that it can actually slow the aging process. During an appearance on the Oprah show, Dr. Mehmet Oz asked a series of questions to help [