When you love older women, attract them in any number of ways! Older women have always had an appeal for younger men, whether the age gap is by a few years or by a few decades, but if you feel a little bit shy about it, you should definitely be aware that you are by no means alone! Older women have a lot to offer, from experience to a real sense of humor, to just being done playing games the way younger women aren't, and if you're looking for a way to seduce the older women of your dreams, there are a few things to keep in mind. 1.Be respectful. This advice holds true for any woman, but it is particularly true for older women. Older women have already seen a lot of the strutting and bragging that men might do, and chances are, whether they have remained single or have recently become such, they are not impressed. Don't be deferential but be polite. Politeness that is combined with a really honest admiration is a great formula that might change her mind about getting involved with a younger man. 2.Remind her that she's gorgeous Any woman likes to be told that she's beautiful, if the compliment is sincere, so don't overdo it. Telling the truth however, is not overdoing it! Be honest about what you think is attractive, whether it's how beautiful her hair is or how wonderful her legs look. Women, as they age, can become quite insecure about their appearance, and even if she's not interested in a relationship, a simple compliment could really make her day. 3.Be worldly If you are interested in an older woman, chances are, you are drawn to experience and sophistication. If you are drawn to these things, you should be willing to supply them yourself! You don't need to have attended Harvard or Yale, just remember that to read the newspaper. More than just being familiar with the day's events, have an opinion about them and be willing to explain them. A certain amount of sophistication is relatively easy to get, just start by reading anything you can get your hands on! 4.Keep talking about yourself to a minimum One thing that an older woman will find delightful is a man who is interested in her. Depending on how old your ladylove is, there might be a chance that she is from a different generation, where the men were a lot more interested in a quiet girl. If you can give her a real change of pace, a man who is genuinely interested in hearing what she has to say, you'll be head and shoulders ahead o the competition that is her age, and to be honest, yours too! 5.Good grooming This probably can go without saying, but it's always good to emphasize. Women, no matter the age, appreciate a bit of formality. If you love it when a woman dresses up for you, return the favor and do your best for her. It doesn't have to be a tuxedo, but a fresh haircut, a nice suit of clothing, and a shave can do wonders. FlirtJerk is an Expert Pickup Artist who show Men on how to Approach, Attract, Seduce and Date Any Women that you want and skyrocket your Sex Life. Download your FREE Exclusive Report by visiting http://www.FlirtJerk.com
February 5, 2008
Problems that can Affect Dating
The technology explosion and the number of gadgets that are commonplace with everyone has given rise to a number of ways to communicate. But too much of a good thing can be bad , because with the myriad of ways to communicate, you have to decide about the best way to do so and [
Are Open Relationships Healthy?
Via Wikipedia: An open relationship denotes a relationship (usually between two people) in which participants are free to take other partners; if the couple making this agreement are married, it is an open marriage. The “open” in “open relationship” usually refers to the sexual aspect of a non-closed relationship, whereas “polyamory” refers to the extension [
February 4, 2008
Tips To Attract Women Like A Magnet
Whether you are just looking for some fun or you are looking to attract a partner for life, many men often feel ill at ease around beautiful women. Women can seem unattainable, sophisticated and hard to reach, but really, nothing is further from the truth. When you are looking for some lovely female company, there are many things that you can do to make sure that you are not spending the evening alone. There are many tips to attract women like a magnet, but check out some of the more powerful ones below. 1.Remember that she is not the enemy! Most women, if they are available, are perfectly willing to step out and see what the evening brings. Remember that when you are trying to seduce a woman that you are not her enemy or her adversary. Think about yourself as her accomplice in getting together a really great time. You are not working against each other; you are working with each other to have some great fun. 2.Be confident! If you have no faith in yourself, why should she? One of the most attractive qualities that a man can have is confidence, and you'll find that if you have it, you'll have plenty of company. It doesn't matter what you really do, or how you really feel, confidence can be faked. A person who is happy and confident is very attractive, so walk around as if you own the place and many people will just assume that you do! 3.Make the first move Don't be surprised if she sends over a drink, but you should feel comfortable moving first as well. It doesn't have to be big or dramatic, but simply giving her an honest compliment or holding the door open and saying hello as she walks in can help you out a great deal. It's a way to break the ice, and if she's a bit more shy, she'll be grateful for the opening. You don't have to be smooth or slick, but a willingness to chance talking to a stranger can be very attractive. 4.Don't be pushy Confidence is one thing, aggression is an other. Just because you bought her a drink doesn't mean that she's yours forever. If she's not interested, simply say that you hope she'll take it as a compliment and withdraw gracefully. Don't be that guy who has to get kicked out of the bar for getting overly aggressive with a girl. If a girl turns you down, be as gracious as you can; you never know when her gorgeous friend is watching and will be impressed with your chivalry. 5.Be genuine If all you're after right now is a good time, be up front about that. If you are looking for a wife or steady girlfriend, be up front about that too. The right woman will appreciate honesty, and you don't want to be with one who doesn't. Think about what you really want, and make sure the girl of your choice knows it too. FlirtJerk is an Expert Pickup Artist who show Men on how to Approach, Attract, Seduce and Date Any Women that you want and skyrocket your Sex Life. Download your FREE Exclusive Copy Of "The Art Of PickUp Any Women You Want And Have Them Beg You to Date And Sleep With" Report by visiting http://www.FlirtJerk.com
First Date Impressions
First impressions are important make them count...Ladies this is where a lot of men fail the test. Men pay close attention to what we are about to say here. Do not let your eyes wander around the room as your date is spilling her heart out to you. This is a definite way to not get a second date. You have asked for her time and she generously agreed to share her time with you so do not waste her time. Spend the time with her and do not shop for a better model while your out.<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805560" height="1" width="1"/>
February 3, 2008
5 First Dating Tips of Places You Must Avoid
So you've met a girl. She's cute, she's flirty and she's agreed to go on a date with you. That's great news �" but where are you going to go? At this point, all you're thinking about is spending an evening in her company. Perhaps you're hoping to spend the night. You certainly haven't thought beyond the first few dates. But she has. Almost without exception, when a girl meets a guy she likes she starts imagining a rosy future with him. It's not that she necessarily believes you're The One, but she's mulling over the possibility. There's nothing you can do to prevent it �" but you can avoid encouraging her. Below are the five dates guaranteed to get a girl fantasizing about cakes and white dresses. If you want to keep things casual for now, steer well clear. <b>1. Romantic Comedies</b> The movie theater is a popular first date destination. The film negates the need for conversation, the darkened room creates a feeling of intimacy, and the plot gives you something easy to talk about afterwards. But do choose your movie carefully. Romantic comedies might seem like harmless fluff but avoid them at all costs. Far too many rom-coms involve grand romantic gestures, huge white weddings and tedious plots. Going to see one means risking giving your date unrealistic expectations and putting the pressure on you. <b>2. Her Place</b> Women are forever being told that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach; this is why so many of them are keen to cook for you. But going to a girl's apartment means giving her control. Cooking you a meal will make your date feel feminine, nurturing and intimate. She can fill the room with candles, play schmaltzy music and wait for you to praise her homemaking abilities. In short, she can act like your girlfriend. <b>3. Weddings</b> There's nothing like watching a happy couple celebrate their love for one another to put ideas in a woman's head. Accompany her to a wedding and you can guarantee that your hand will be squeezed throughout the vows, meaningful looks shot your way during the speeches, and excited giggles aimed in your direction whenever an elderly relative speculates about whether your date will be next down the aisle. <b>4. Taking a Walk</b> If you barely know your date, avoid taking a romantic stroll together. Going for a walk in the country means the two of you spending time alone together without any convenient distractions. Either you are going to bore each other into going home alone, or the chance to talk to you without interruptions will convince her that you share a special connection. Prepare to be described as “Mr. Right”. <b>5. Meeting her Friends</b> Meeting her friends, family or even just her colleagues will instantly elevate you from casual date to partner. Once you've met the important people in her life you will be an official couple. What's more, the future of your fledging relationship will no longer depend on whether your date likes you; it will depend on whether everybody else does, too. If you fail to impress them, you can forget seeing her again �" but, worse still, if her friends really like you, they're going to start telling your date to expect a surprise proposal. Your first few dates should be upbeat and enjoyable. The emphasis should not be on establishing a solid commitment to each other; it should on establishing whether or not you want to aim towards one. Forget intimate moments and aim instead for a few hours of fun. Want to learn 50 WAYS for approaching, attracting and seducing women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson's 50 WAYS for approaching, attracting and seducing women which provides 50 tips for instant dating success.
My Top 5 Heart Gifts
Here’s just a little something for the day of hearts. How cute is it to give Heart Totes on Valentine’s Day? Mind you, some ladies do find this adorable, whimsical tote to be a great accessory to have. Inspired by Erin Fetherston’s heart-shaped tote, Manila-based Tiramisu & Co. will be introducing their own version called, [
February 2, 2008
Tips on Finding Love through a Dating Website
Do you think finding love through a dating website occurs only in the movies? Think again! Here are some tips to help you find love in the Internet. If you have seen the movie "You've Got Mail" starred by Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan, you must've been day dreaming of one day you'll find love in the same way. Singles often find plenty of ways to meet people, but finding it in the Internet through a dating website is now widely used for its accessibility and convenience. Here are some tips and tricks to help you successfully find your true love: Find a good dating website If you use the internet to find love, you must first look for a good dating website in different search engines. Browse out for excellent ones. You can look for one through search engines. Find out how long the website has been going. If it has been around for quite some time, you may find more people compared with the new ones. Identify whether it provides means for email and chat just within the website for confidentiality, also surf around for feedbacks from other users. Determine how much it costs. You can try its free trial before signing up with a paid membership. In that way, you can try if the website suits you. Make an Irresistible Profile After choosing the dating website, you must then make your profile. Your profile pretty much shows who you are and what you are looking for. It is better if you are specific, using a little bit of humor. Do not write lengthy profiles. Rather, use a shorter one that has a punch. Do not reveal everything about you. Instead, give them facts that will leave them puzzled, and make them ask for more. In deciding your username, pick something that stands out. You wouldn't want your name to be disregarded along with other ordinary names. Then, post a picture of yourself with half and full body that best describes your personality, and your interests. How to get in touch When getting in touch, do not be scared to make the first move. Start with interesting headings that are short but catchy. Make it noticeable and interesting. Give cues that show you went through their profile, and that you are interested to get to know them more. Don't give lengthy messages, rather, have a flirty headline, and make it brief but sociable. It is best not to be too personal on your initial conversation. Rather than putting pressure on potential mate with all your questions, you can talk about the things that you two have in common. Do not focus on one person. Give out messages to other potential partners while still eyeing on the one you really like. This gives you more opportunities to find love. First Acquaintance after online dating website You have gotten to know each other well, and now both of you are ready to meet. In deciding the location to meet, it is advisable if you meet in a public place. You could also tell friends or family members that you are meeting a person you met through the internet for the first time. It protects you from uncertainties, and it can also be used as an emergency exit just in case. Dating website give you the opportunity to meet potential mates. However, always be cautious. It can be a pleasurable way to find love, but it can also be a risky medium that exposes you to harm. Do not let this put you off. Online dating sites are delightful means to find love that you have been waiting for. So, sit back and relax as you experience the thrills that only dating website can provide. Everyone else is hopping in and joining the online dating bandwagon. What are you waiting for? Visit Dating Website or get more Dating Website information now!
Fling Dating Update
I have had MUCH success finding flings using my Fling Dating techniques over at fling.com since my last post! I have averaged one new casual relationship per week. I realize not all of you are looking to get multiple partners out of your fling dating experience, But some of us like a variety. Fling.com has [
Valentine Gift Idea: Heart Totes
Here’s just a little something for the day of hearts. How cute is it to give Heart Totes on Valentine’s Day? Mind you, some ladies do find this adorable, whimsical tote to be a great accessory to have. Inspired by Erin Fetherston’s heart-shaped tote, Manila-based Tiramisu & Co. will be introducing their own version called, [
February 1, 2008
You can find a beautiful and young wife
How to find love and happiness with a Russian, Ukrainian lady. There are 101 different reasons as to why you might be online and searching a partner, but if you are a man, sooner or later you will stumble upon Russian & Ukrainian ladies, why? So many of these ladies share an indefinable and yet undeniable attraction. It is not so easy to actually pinpoint the reasons, but it is very striking and needs to be experienced personally and by western standards these ladies mature at a very young age. Ok, let's assume you have seen someplace online some of these ladies. What do you think? Can you imagine having such a lady in your life and at your side? Would you like a little insider advice on how to find and win the heart and respect of one of these ladies? Whilst some of these ladies can speak a foreign language, not many have computers of their own and many do not have access to the internet, or a personal internet address. So the chances are you will have to find your lady through an agency. Very important! Choose carefully and Find a good one. The next stage is to begin the search. Whilst most of us have some idea of what we seek in a woman with online dating we can actually write it down. Define the characteristics we like and those we not. One of the beauties of online dating is the ability to narrow the search. It is really the complete reverse of conventional pickups. With online dating you find out before any meeting whether you think this might be the partner for you, neat yes? What is the attraction of these Russian and Ukrainian ladies? Obviously many of them are physically beautiful, but actually there is something more than this. It is not easy to define this inner beauty. Is it their seemingly inner stillness? Is it the openness and direct and honest approach to life they seem to share? Their intelligence, or all of these attributes combined? It can be part of the joy for each man meeting these ladies to discover personally. You will find that many of the young ladies actively seek older men. Why is this? Ukraine and Russian ladies mature, at what is by western standards, a very young age. Also a huge percentage of them have both studied at university and embarked on a profession by the age of 22-23. Whilst having a very young girlfriend or wife can seem very appealing, it is worth considering the age gap with some care. Really this is a very individual choice and decision and as more and more men in the west take more care of themselves, workout, improve their diet and keep fit, the age gap can be of less importance. Once you have narrowed your search and choosen the lady or ladies you wish to try for it is time to make contact,time to begin your romantic adventure,time to write to them. As with most women these ladies love compliments, if sincere and kind and thoughtful words. An interesting Russian Phrase, "men think with their eyes, women with their ears". They really are less concerned with how you look, than how you are. It is fair to say that physical appearance is not top of the list for many of thse ladies in choosing their partner. What is commonly disliked? Greed, meanness and dishonesty is generally at the top of many of these ladies hate lists, any display of these traits is a very good way to lose the interest of your lady. To be clear by greed and meanness, it is not the material. They love in general a warm and generous nature and a kind and giving heart. It is how so many of them are themselves. By western standards they are short of money and live without so many of the comforts and technological toys that are enjoyed in the west, but they usually share freely of what they have. It is another of the very endearing and common traits of these ladies. One final thing, be attentive, these ladies share in general an admirable intelligence, so try to understand what they are saying, try to hear beyond the words. The above advice is intended as a guide, a roadmap to the heart of one of these ladies. Do all of these ladies share these qualities? No of course not as with all nations, all countries, there are the not so nice ladies and even bad or dishonest ladies, but they are a minority, a very small minority. Good luck. Through his own personal experiences Terrence Aubrey has gained valuable insight of Russian, Ukrainian ladies. He has travelled Ukrainia extensively and is the CEO of:- http://confidentialmatchmakers.com
5 Reasons Why Courtship is Important
Two titles bestowed on women. Some claimed, some labeled. Of course, these titles don’t apply to women in general; they’ve simply become widely used by both men and women in reference to the women of their acquaintance and/or themselves, respectively. You can’t help but ask questions: What makes one a man-eater? What makes the other [
