Online Dating Profile-Ask a Friend to Help

Writing an online profile that captures the essence of who you are and what you have to offer is the most important thing you will do in online dating. This is your opportunity to sell yourself and distinguish your profile from the other singles on a dating site. The goal of an online dating site profile is to entice other singles to click onto your profile, read through it, and make the effort to contact you to find out more about you. You should not rush through this step. For a few fortunate people, writing is a very natural thing. They can sit down and look at a blank sheet of paper and within 15-20 minutes they are able to write a concise and well-written profile. These people are the exception. Most of us fall into the second category of people who struggle with writing in general, let alone writing personal information about ourselves. This will be the most time consuming process of setting up your dating profile. It can take people many hours, if not days, to develop a profile that they’re comfortable in posting. By nature, most people are not good at selling. Sales is a difficult process, and it takes a certain personality to succeed in sales. Yet every dating site you visit tells you that you need to develop a personal profile that “sells” yourself to other singles. This is a tough dilemma for many to deal with. Generally speaking, most people are modest about selling themselves. From an early age, our parents go to great lengths to tell us what an admirable personality trait humility is, and we are encouraged to praise and extol the virtues of others while at the same time downplaying our own actions. We are not comfortable with “bragging” to others about what our strengths are. Let’s take a look at this social trend we are taught, and let’s use it to our benefit to develop our online persona. This will require you to step outside your normal comfort zone, but the benefits you receive from it will be quite substantial in the long run. • Ask your closest personal confidents if they could take a few minutes of their own time to write down what it is that they like most about you. Explain to them why you’re asking them to do this, and you’ll find that they’ll be more than happy to help you out. Once you ask a few close friends, siblings, or even your parents to do this, you will find reoccurring themes that will continue to present themselves. This will be embarrassing process for a many because it requires you to put yourself out there a little bit. You’ll be letting others know that you’re planning to use an online dating site. This might stop a few people from following my advice, because the anonymity of using an online dating service is a big selling point of the process. Single people don’t like to have discussions on why they’re still single (again back to the issue of drawing attention to ourselves). If this describes you remember that you have little to lose. You’ve chosen a person who’s gotten to know you really well and they like what you have to offer. Remember, you are joining an online dating service because you want a change in your life. Your current model for meeting singles isn’t working as you would like. You are tired of being alone and you are looking for someone to share your day-to-day activities with. A few minutes of what you perceive to be “embarrassment” with a friend who values you for who you are is really a small inconvenience. The benefit of asking two or three people to do this for you is that the majority of your dating profile will be written for you. It will portray who you are and how people perceive you. It will be an honest representation of who you are, and research shows that honest online dating profiles tend to be the most successful. Jim McMenamin is the webmaster and creator of MacsDatingSite.com, a blog dedicated to the various issues of online dating. For a limited time, Jim is giving away two free eBooks, 10 Tips To Writing Your Online Dating Profile as well as 101 Steps To A Happy Relationship, when you sign up for his MacsDatingSite.com.

On Auras and Countenance

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Are You Crazy Enough for Online Blind Dates?

Los Angeles is full of thousands of single people. They are everywhere. Bars, clubs, coffee shops, bookstores and lecture halls are theoretically full of potential dates. But at UCLA, a campus where many students are juggling academic schedules with Learn More SYRACUSE, Ind. — A few weeks ago, I wrote an advice [

"I Love You" - How To Say It In Romanian

"I love you" translates into "Te iubesc" in Romanian. In fact, these are the words every Romanian girl yearns to hear from their sweetheart, ever since she hears them being said in a movie, or read about it in a book. Saying those magical words is a must for any relationship to bloom in Romania. Girls will rarely be the first to declare their love in a relationships. They would like the boy to do so before they reciprocate. The first time "Te iubesc" is uttered can be a very tender and emotional moment, perhaps even more than the first kiss. Now the question is, what is the right time to say "Te iubesc?" How do you say it, and to whom, for that matter? These are some vital matters you should ponder over if you are in love with a Romanian girl. Life is full of variety, and no uniform principle can be applied to it. It is the same with love. Human beings have unique personalities and distinctive thought patterns. So any generalization in matters of the heart would be a pointless exercise. On the other hand, if you are thinking of saying "te iubesc" to somebody, you use some handy tips while you are about it. It would be unwise to say "te iubesc" to someone you have just met. Love at first sight can be tricky business. In most cases, it can be just an infatuation, even plain sexual attraction. It generally involves burning passion rather than warm affection, and is like a tornado that leaves a trail of destruction in its trail. In Romania, "Te iubesc" does not signify an immediate or urgent passion. Rather it has a gentler and more mature connotation. It could mean "I want to be with you forever, to hold your hands and look deep into your eyes, to find you by my side when I wake up every morning." Romanians tend not to profess their love in a hurry. They would rather wait till get to know the object of their affection better. When you are absolutely certain that you are truly in love with this person, you are ready to say "I love you". Sometimes at this stage the ego may step in. Why sould I be the first to profess my love, and not the other person? This is the way some people might think, and the result is that love takes a back seat in the clash of egos. Again, a woman could feel insulted when she tells someone that she loves him, and receives no suitable reply. On the other hand, a man may sometimes want to say "I love you" from the bottom of his heart, but hold back due to a crisis of confidence. In such situation, it is advisable that you go by your intuition and encourage the other person to express their feelings or say it yourself. Exactly when you say "I love you" is important as well. If you are a girl, you definitely should not profess your love in the middle of a football match he is watching on television. He would be totally distracted, and might unintentionally hurt your feelings. So you should first find an appropriate setting, create a romantic atmosphere, and wait for the right moment to say "I love you". You must also say those magic words when you are face to face with your sweetheart, never in an e-mail or the instant messenger for the first time. Later on you can send as many love messages as you want. Again, more than love messages it is important to show that you care through small gestures, aimed at making the special person happy, for instance remembering what they like. Finally, let us talk about how to say "I love you" in Romanian. Well, it could go something like this - "te iubesc, m-ai vrajit tu cu ceva daca am spus-o" (I love you; you have somehow mesmerized me and I had to tell you). Romanian women are known to be amongst the most gorgeous, chic, immaculately dressed, well read & family orientated women on earth. Don't even think about searching for a Romanian bride, until you have read our hard hitting and honest reviews of the best Romanian bride web sites. Don't get scammed. Visit us now.

Fling Dating: How To

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Can You Really Find Love Online?

I travel to Thailand 3 or 4 times every year for a vacation. I usually go a little south of Bangkok to Pattaya and spend 3 weeks bar hopping and looking for "the one". I have been doing this for years and even though it is a lot of fun, I have never really found a lady to love. There will be many out there that will say that this is not the place to look for someone to marry. It is just a place to have the time of your life. So, after a trip to Pattaya, I was at home and had the "Pattaya Blues". I so wanted to be back in the Land of Smiles and not back at work. I decided to try one of the online dating sites. After searching around a bit, I found one that catered to Thai ladies and foreign men. I registered at thailovelinks and started going there every night to chat with the ladies. Initially, I was looking for someone just to chat with and to practice my Thai language skills (difficult phonetically though). I had a hope to find the right lady but didn't get my hopes up too high. About one week after I paid my annual fee, I found a sweet, young lady. She is a school teacher at a technical college with limited English skills. Still, we were able to chat and email each other and eventually call each other on the phone. Unlike other girls that I met at the site, this one was there every day, chatted daily, and sent me email and pictures 3 or 4 times every week. Then I started getting almost daily phone calls. No she wasn't stalking me. She would just call for a minute or two to say "Good Morning" or "Good Night". Well, there was only one thing left to do. I would have to meet her in person. Chatting online is not the same as a face-to-face meeting. So, I made earlier plans to visit Thailand again. I was excited but a bit hesitant to meet her. I hoped that we would get along as well in person as we did online and on the phone. I wound up more than happy. It did start out a little slow but that was OK. We got to know each other better going out to dinners, sightseeing at temples, and going shopping at the mall and the market. We were definitely made for each other despite an almost 30 year age difference. It certainly didn't matter to me and she assured me that age was no problem to her. I have just returned from a second visit with this sweet young lady and things are still going very well. I will most likely marry her on the next visit in about 6 months, buy a house and then retire in northeastern Thailand in about two years. Yes, you can find love online. You have to be patient, persistent and meet in person to make sure. Try it. You may just find the one you are looking for. Cute Thai Girls Submitted by: Cute Thai Girls

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(Online Dating News Blog) A patent filed by Microsoft shows that the company is interested in getting into the online dating service industry. The patent outlines plans for a photo-based online dating services where matches are created by looks. The way it works is that a person uploads a picture of a man or woman.

Magic Of Making Up - 7 Deadly Mistakes Spurned Lovers Make When They Get Dumped!

The biggest mistake you can make when trying to get your ex back is to get into panic mode. Panic will only drive you to doing things which are not deemed as natural especially when you've been given your marching orders. So how do you get your ex back? First of all, you need to respect his/her wishes and simply walk away. Yes, this goes against everything you're feeling at the moment but in order to create an atmosphere where you'll be in a position to be accepted back, then it's got to be done. In this article, let's look at the seven deadly sins a spurned lover will make when they are in the early stages of being ejected from a relationship. If you want half a chance of experiencing the magic of making up then eliminating these seven actions from your repertoire will be a great start. 7 Mistakes People Make When They Get Dumped! 1. The number one mistake is calling too soon after being dumped. A person's ego takes a hit and the natural inclination is to want to rectify things if only to massage their own ego. In actual fact, you'll only be pushing your ex further away. 2. Like calling, sending a barrage of text messages and emails is not a good idea. You need to understand a breaking point was reached where right now, you're the last person they want or need to hear from. By continually contacting them you're not giving them the space they need to assess their own emotions. 3. Trying to convince them that they are making a big mistake is considered a no-no. Honestly, they don't really care what you think. Right now, they want you out of their lives. 4. Avoid like the plague in confronting your ex and starting an argument. Have you ever noticed in a situation like this the spurned person is usually the one doing the arguing while their ex seems to absorb it just waiting for it to end so they'll leave. Again, right now, they really don't care what you have to say. More importantly, don't dredge up things from the past and point out the mistakes they've made. 5. Acting wimpy. In other words, telling them how much you've been depressed, lonely, sad and just about any other emotion on the wrong side of happiness you can think of. Also, avoid telling them over and over how much you love them or apologize continuously. It's needy behavior and to most, it's unattractive. 6. Don't talk to his/her family or friends. This alone can kill any chance of getting your ex back. Many make the mistake of trying to convince the family and friends of their ex that they have been hard done by but in reality, whose side do you think they are going to take? 7. Avoid the temptation of showing up unannounced anywhere your ex likes to hang out. Many will do this and act dumb as if it's a co-incidence but in the main, people aren't going to buy it and you'll probably earn the "stalker" tag. Want to shortcut the making up process and get back into the arms of your ex? Here's a quick way to experience making up .

Problems that can Affect Dating

The technology explosion and the number of gadgets that are commonplace with everyone has given rise to a number of ways to communicate. But too much of a good thing can be bad , because with the myriad of ways to communicate, you have to decide about the best way to do so and [

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(Online Dating News Blog) The creators of free online dating service OKcupid have created a new concept on online dating - blind dates. Last November the team launched a new service called Crazy Blind Date that allows people in select cities to meet up with others without seeing a picture or ever communicating with.

How to your sale tactics in Life, dating or your business

A big question. I am sure that everybody on this planet would like to know the answer to that. A few years ago, I worked for a British time share company. I am sure that right now there are many people twisting their faces: “time share? Oh. No! “. I agree �" But this is not the point of this article. While I was working there, I took some intern course in body language and “The art of sales.” Since then I manage to “sell” everything I want to. By saying everything, I mean business, things that I want from my wife, from my kids, from my friends and family and so on. How do I do that, you ask? Well, here it is. You can try to use this method in every field, and I promise you it will work: As an example, I will use my first date with my wife which eventually leaded to our marriage. Picture this �" My first date with her, nice restaurant, candle lights, wine and music (you do need to set the scene first). She came; we said hello to each other, ordered some wine and then the “sale” started. 1. KISS �" This means: Keep It Simple and Stupid. This is a very important point in the whole conversation. The more info you give freely, the more they need to think about. You should give info about yourself, but try to think about what you say as you can talk too much and give up some info that should not be given…at least not right now. 2. WH questions �" As the conversation roles, try to ask as many WH question as you can: why, where, how, what…You need to gather as much info about them as you can to understand who is sitting right now and talking to you, what is his/her type, what does she/he likes…Why is that so important? As I asked my future wife on that first date all the WH question, I found at that she is a “homey” type, love romance, love to coddle…If I would right away start talking about me and my “wild” life, I would probably missed her interest in me. I do not say you need to be someone else just to get their attention, but trying to “win” this meeting. 3. Tea or Coffee �" Now you have gathered all the info you need, and it is time to start closing this deal. You are not about to close it now, but we need to get closer to the goal of our “sale.” Tea or Coffee questions are BASED on the info you got earlier and now you try to focus on the points. For example: “so what you are trying to say is that you rather be at home then go out to wild parties?” or “so… what do you prefer, Madonna or Jimmy Hendricks?” With this type of question you are now minimizing the info you got to more focused answers. 4. The Closing �" You have now got the info, got the focused answers, it is time to “close” this “Sale.” What you want to do is to get a yes or no answer (depends on you) from them. If you will get that answer �" You have just reached your goal. Who do you do that? Very simple. Use ALL the info from the entire evening/meeting and concentrate on the particular questions you want to get yes or no answers to. For example: “so what you are saying is that if I could make some nice dinner for you, just as you like, with candle and wine, could we meet again?” Of course, you are waiting for a “yes” here. It is EXTREMELY important to use finishing statements at the end of your questions, like: “so you do like coddling, don’t you?” Use your head to nod as you ask it.It gives a “mirror effect” on people and they can’t help not nodding back. As I mentioned at the beginning, you can use this technique ANYWHERE on EVERYBODY…trust me it works, but as everything in life, you need to practice and a lot. Hope you can and will use it in your life. Did you find this article useful? For more useful tips and hints, points to ponder and keep in mind, techniques, and insights pertaining to guides on romance, do please browse for more information at our websites. www.infozabout.com

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Former ‘Friends’ star Jennifer Aniston is reported to be dating singer John Mayer after the pair were spotted dining together recently. Image details: Party To Celebrate Laura Day At One Sunset served by picapp.com According to People magazine, the pair had lunch together at a Miami restaurant on Friday and then dined [