Making the Date is the hard part...So you were successful in getting her to say, "yes" but now the challenge becomes finding a fun activity for your first date. You don't want her to be bored so we have put together some suggestions of things you may consider for your first dating adventure together.
April 30, 2008
Great First Date Ideas
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April 29, 2008
Roses for my Online Date
(Online Dating News Blog) Ann and Jeff met on an online dating service and after a few dates together it looked like true love could be in the making. Only three weeks after first meeting in person, Ann’s 24th birthday arrived and Jeff (28 years old) wanted to do something that would impress her and.
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Free Relationship Quiz- Why Take One
Do you know why so many people take a relationship quiz? There are many reasons why these quizzes are taken every single day. Did you know that a free relationship quiz can tell you whether your relationship is in trouble or not? The one thing that most people don't realize is that the only way a test like this will work is if you are completely honest about every answer. If you plan on taking a free relationship quiz but you are not honest about your answers, then you are just wasting your time. No one has to see the relationship quiz except you if you don't want them to. Finding out if their relationship is in trouble or not is the number one reason that people everywhere take theses quizzes. So why would you not be honest with yourself? A good relationship quiz will be based on real, substantive issues. The questions will be about things that really matter and answers that will provide you with insight into your relationship. Most of the times they are done to determine where your relationship stands and whether it has a chance of lasting, but some of them are taken for fun. A lot of the quizzes that you find will be designed for fun but if you look hard enough you will find quizzes that were designed by a professional that is trained in behavioral sciences, psychology, or relationship counseling. These relationship quizzes are the serious ones that will help you determine how strong your relationship is and whether it is in trouble or not. Some of the questions that you may see in the free relationship quiz that can help you are: One: How important do you feel it is to have quality time away from your partner? Two: if you were partially to blame for it happening, could you forgive them if your partner was unfaithful? These are just some examples of the kinds of questions you could find in a relationship quiz. The quizzes that have these kinds of questions will be the one you want to take because they will attempt to identify core relationship issues that will tell you something about your partner and about yourself. These are obviously not all of the questions that will be asked but this does give you some idea about the type of free relationship quiz that you want to take if you want a serious quiz. You will have no problems finding all kinds of them if you want a fun quiz. Just remember that if you are going to take a relationship quiz, then you have to be honest with yourself and your answers if it is going to help you determine anything. KV Chaudhary invites you to visit his 100% free online dating site for singles. Find a date, love, romance, or take a free relationship quiz. Free Gold Membership. No credit card required. To learn more you can join free here!
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April 28, 2008
Dating websites - A brief look at life - Herald Journal
A rapist’s right to rebuild his life, time wasters at the Department of Motor Vehicles and the challenges of dating services are among the ideas explored by 10 original plays being performed at Utah State University this weekend. “The New Plays Read Me WASHINGTON — When Ivan Medina’s 22-year-old twin brother was [
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In The Bedroomâ€"What Women Want Men To Know
Some men, who are virgins, are so embarrassed that they try to hide it from a woman. After speaking to numerous females, I found out that they wouldn’t have a care in the world if their man actually was. In fact, it turns them on and even admires that quality of being able to hold it off until they meet Miss Right. If you have finally decided that you no longer want to just have a one night stand with your woman, then it’s a must that you add variety and romance into the bedroom. Women need flirtation. Unlike men, they don’t just jump for joy once you drop your trousers. They need to slowly get into the mood. Some men find it so hard to add romance into their relationship, yet it can be quite simple. We men just make it hard. Romance is actually so important in the relationship. Without it, the woman will never truly be in the mood and feel sexy. Romance enables the women to make the move on men into the bedroom. Examples of being romantic could be as easily as going to your local florist and grabbing a dozen of dark red roses and a box of chocolates. Or if you’re truly a romantic at heart, try buying rose petals and sprinkling them all over the floor leading from the door to the bedroom and bathroom. It acts like a path to where you want to lead her to go to. Why not add some scented candles around the home and light them up to create an ambient atmosphere into the night. Although most men expect women to be the cook, why not learn to cook up some simple dishes for the both of you. (Notice why so many chefs are actually males, we do have this talent in us). Create a three course meal and even add a printed menu of what’s being served for the night. Don’t go over board or else you two will ended up falling a sleep after a massive meal and just want to head for bed. However, make sure dessert is on the menu, it’s a must. First and foremost, what you need is a step by step plan. This includes making sure you clean up your home so the whole environment is welcoming to shopping and cooking as mentioned earlier. Having a plan leaves nothing to be accidentally missed and also relieves any final moment stress thinking there is something that you might have left out. Unlike men, women know how to communicate their needs very subtly. Men on the other hand, don’t know how. If you want something from a woman, just ask. Even ask her what she would like that turns her on. Women enjoy making both romantic and playful love. Most men just want to get right into it but it doesn’t work that way. At times it can, but the enjoyment from the woman’s side would die out very quickly so try to break off this habit. This will ensure that the both of you are enjoying it and it’s not just a one sided affair. To finalize, it all comes to being considerate of the woman’s needs. The true gentleman will ask. That is the way you can learn from each other as everybody is different. What one woman enjoys may not be another’s cup of tea. If you don’t ask, you won’t know. Lastly, compliment. This is where women are very similar to men. They want compliments to know that they also did a great job satisfying your needs as well because you had taken the time to satisfy her needs. Following the above will ensure that making love is both romantic and long lasting. If you have found my article interesting, I have come across a site which is at the moment giving away a massive free eBook titled “Secrets To Dating Beautiful Women”. I have personally found this one of the best books on the subject of Dating and Relationships and I highly recommend you read it. It’s a must read. Download it from; www.Secrets2DatingSuccess.com Terry Leslie is a successful and world renowned authority figure on creating and maintaining successful relationships. A much sought after global speaker in the areas of intimate relationships, self-improvement and human peak potential training. For more Secrets to Dating and Relationship success, check out!
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Issues Connected to Individual Time While Dating
Given the nature of dating, that you both are new to each other and therefore don’t know much about each other, there are certain gray areas that will arise. There will be situations in which it may not be clear what the proper protocol or action should be. In those cases, it may be [
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April 27, 2008
Why You Need More Than One Watch
Watches are one of the most important accessories that any person can own. Our society runs on time, and it is very important to keep in touch with the hours and minutes of the day. Not only do people lead different lifestyles, but individuals perform a variety of different activities as well. Many people work during the day, go out for fun at night, and do sporting activities over the weekend. There are often special occasions in our lives as well. Each of these situations often require us to keep track of time, whether we are meeting people at a certain moment, or we need to get back home at a certain time. That is why it is important to have more than one watch. The casual watch. It is essential to have a casual watch. When dressed in denim and a tee-shirt for a night at the bar with friends, it is appropriate to wear a casual style watch. These types of watches are usually less expensive, and can match with most casual clothing. Not only does it make it easy to keep time, it makes a nice accessory to an outfit without outshining the rest of the wardrobe. You should wear a casual style watch whenever you wear casual clothes. The sports watch. If you are athletic and enjoy the rugged outdoors, you need a sports watch. A sports watch is appropriate for biking, hiking, running, and other similar sports. Many sports watches contain a stop watch feature that makes it convenient to track timed performance and set record breaking goals. If you enjoy water sports like water skiing, many brands offer waterproof watches so that you don't have to worry about ruining your watch. Sports watches tend to be made of more durable rubbers and plastic materials that can handle light impacts and keep internal parts protected when in contact with water. The dress watch. When you go out for a nice evening to see a show at the theater or eat at a fancy restaurant, nothing accessorizes quite like a lovely dress watch. High class band designs and elegant watch faces add sparkle and shine to a beautiful dress or an expensive suit. A casual watch just won't do, here. Fancy dress watches come in a variety of styles, so with a little shopping, you can find the unique style that catches your eye and fits your taste. These watches come in gold, silver, diamonds and other stones and elegant materials that tend to be on the more expensive side. It is worth it to invest in a dress watch, because, since you won't wear it everyday, it can last a very long time. Having more than one watch is like having more than one pair of shoes. Sneakers wouldn't look right with an evening gown, now would they? In the same way, a casual watch isn't appropriate for a tuxedo. Having more than one watch just makes perfect sense, doesn't it? Victor Epand is an expert consultant for used clothing, used watches, and vacuum food sealers. When shopping for used clothing, used watches, and vacuum food sealers, shop only at the best online stores for used clothing.
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Problems that can Affect Dating
The technology explosion and the number of gadgets that are commonplace with everyone has given rise to a number of ways to communicate. But too much of a good thing can be bad , because with the myriad of ways to communicate, you have to decide about the best way to do so and [
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First Date Impressions
First impressions are important make them count...Ladies this is where a lot of men fail the test. Men pay close attention to what we are about to say here. Do not let your eyes wander around the room as your date is spilling her heart out to you. This is a definite way to not get a second date. You have asked for her time and she generously agreed to share her time with you so do not waste her time. Spend the time with her and do not shop for a better model while your out.
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April 26, 2008
Breaking Up
(Online Dating News Blog) The creators of free online dating service OKcupid have created a new concept on online dating - blind dates. Last November the team launched a new service called Crazy Blind Date that allows people in select cities to meet up with others without seeing a picture or ever communicating with.
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Easter Baskets - Dating Advice From Casanova Pete
Casanova Pete has a reputation for being a real ladies bunny. In his earlier days, this rabbit was one that could chase any chick and land a date. That was until he met Penny, the love of his life, but that is another story. Although his heart only goes pitter patter for one sweetie now, good old Pete has agreed to share some of his best dating advice. Sit back and get ready guys, this is some good stuff, and it does work. Just ask the long line of hot bunnies who once had the pleasure of being swept off their feet by the one and only Casanova Pete. Pete offers his advice depending on where you are in a relationship.
Here are some of his best tips: ·
The initial ask out.
According to Pete, the ladies love sincere and not phony. Leave the lines for the guys and tell a sweetie what you really think. The best way to get attention from a cutie is to just go for it and ask her out for dinner, lunch or even coffee. Lilies, chocolates or a special gift basket can all help out, too.
· The first date.
While it is tempting to come on strong during a first date, Pete says that is never a good idea. Sweet and suave are the only ways to play it. Be yourself, but do not be a cad. For an extra special touch, make sure to open doors, greet her with flowers or a small gift and pay attention to her needs while you are out. End the date with a sweet kiss on the cheek and the promise for a second date if everything went well.
· Subsequent dates.
If all goes well on the first date, Pete recommends following up as soon as possible. It is still wise not to move forward too fast. Keep the pressure off, but start turning on the romance. Take her out for a candlelit dinner, a walk under the stars or even a night of slow dancing. Let things progress naturally. If the chemistry is right, Pete says nothing will get in your way. Now, if you have been in a relationship a while and want to turn up the heat once more, Pete has some advice on this front, as well. His secrets for keeping things fresh include:
· Never forget to be a gentleman.
Whether you have been dating for a long time or have been married for eons, if you want to keep the romance alive, be a gentleman. Open doors, whisper sweet nothings in her ear and even pull out chairs for your ladylove.
· Keep it spicy and keep her guessing.
Never let complacency get in your way. Surprise your lady with gifts, nights on the town and even spicy and romantic nights in. Pete is one suave rabbit. If you want to get an edge on dating, his advice is worth following. Chances are if you pay heed, you will have your ladylove swooning over you in no time. Randy Gardner is "Romeo". He is the exclusive writer of articles on dating, relationships and romantic gifts for Got To Have It Romantic Gift Creations website.
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Club 555 Best Places to Meet Singles?
If you're single and have had difficulty in the past meeting other singles you are not alone. The obvious meeting places may not be the best places to meet single people unless you are only looking for a one-night stand.
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Club 555 A Few Ways to Show Them You Love Them
Dating is exciting for both singles. You're busy meeting new people and exploring a lot of new firsts together. Your relationship begins as a list of firsts; first trip to an amusement park together, first kiss, first hiking trip, first road trip, first overnight vacation, and the list grows. At some point the newness will begin to wear off.
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April 25, 2008
Club 555 Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last?
Nice has the word "ice" in it and that's how she's going to feel toward you if you come off all nice and squishy. That is the fastest way to become a "friend" instead of a lover. Nice guys listen up because what we are about to clue you in on might change your dating life forever. Nature is an amazing force. All the animals in nature look for the strongest and most attractive mate to breed with. This assures the survival of the species by breeding out the weakest genes. This is the way that it is supposed to work so we don't want to reinvent the wheel but we do want to take advantage of what nature predicts the way that the female will react...
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Singles Choose Love Over Money
With the U.S. being on the brink of a recession - True.com took advantage of the opportunity to tap into the minds of singles on this very topic. TRUE.com, the leading scientifically based online relationship service, shows that singles choose love over money even in tough economic times. Some of the results from 2,286 [
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April 24, 2008
Adult dating sites - Chemistry a new online dating site from Match.com for singles
Chemistry is an online dating site, based on revolutionary science, for singles who are actively seeking a long-term relationship. Our free personality test, created by Dr. Learn More Start meeting singles near you with a free personals trial. Find single men and women online for dating, long-lasting relationships or just to chat. Learn More Contact [
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Finding Your God Approved Mate
Beginning Is Half Done, is one of the most powerful keys to success that you will ever need during your entire lifetime. More good news, you already have this key. It was given to you at birth for free. All you need to do is activate it for any good or worthwhile purpose that you wish. Here is another super powerful success key that will enormously accelerate your learning curve: Learn from a Mentor NOT from experience. Why? Experience is the most time consuming and costly way to learn anything. Learning from a Mentor is the most profitable and fastest way to learn anything. When you apply the above two success keys to the subject matter of this Article, you will begin to see how they will start producing benefits for you right away. There is more good news too. You can apply these two keys to all of the new and creative ideas that you get throughout your lifetime. Just a quick note here; keep a pen and note pad with you wherever you are so that you can record these ideas when you get them. Believe me, if you don't write them down as soon as you think of them, they will vanish from your memory never to be recaptured again. I'm sure yo have had this happen to you. About an hour before you normally get up in the morning, your mental Opportunity Clock wakes you with a great new idea. You think to yourself, I should get up and write this down before I forget it. Instead, you sleep in and get up when your Alarm Clock goes off. After about two hours, you think, hey, what was that great idea I had earlier this morning? Sadly, it never comes back. If you did not catch that, let me say it another way. Never turn off your Opportunity Clock without first writing down a brief overview of that idea or opportunity. Let's see how well the above success keys work for you in this article: First of all it is very important to remember that the wisdom you already have and are learning will remain powerless in you life unless you activate, apply, and use that wisdom daily. There is an excellent paperback book entitled The Law of Recognition; B-114, that contains 31 areas of a person's life that are covered in detail by this powerful law. It is a must read for people of all ages, including teens, who are seeking a worthwhile, productive, happy, joyful life. Get it at http://www.mikemurdock.com. In that book you will find the subject of finding your God approved mate explained. Here are just a few of the many areas that are covered: THINK TWICE IF THEY HAVE NOT BEEN CAPTIVATED BY WHAT HAS CAPTIVATED YOU; THINK TWICE IF THEIR PARENTS HAVE CONTEMPT FOR YOU OR YOUR ASSIGNMENT IN LIFE THINK TWICE IF THEY REFUSE TO FIND A JOB THINK TWICE IF THEIR OWN DREAMS ARE NOT BIG ENOUGH TO MOTIVATE THEM THINK TWICE IF YOU ARE NOT EXCITED ABOUT INTRODUCING THEM TO THOSE YOU LOVE THINK TWICE IF YOU CANNOT TRUST THEM WITH YOUR FINANCES THINK TWICE IF YOU CANNOT TRUST THEM IN YOUR ABSENCE NOTE: One of the biggest reasons for people getting divorced is money related. For that reason, if you would like information on how to activate, apply, and use The Law of Recognition to begin your own worthwhile, successful, Online, fun to run, home-based business, just click on the Website below and enter your name and email address where it is requested. God bless you with an overflowing abundance of good health, love, happiness, success, prosperity, and a bright new future and lifestyle that you will allow yourself to have. P.S. Remember to watch the Free movie about How The Money Works For You at Step 2 of the Website shown at: Author Bio We are helping people across the USA & Canada to activate their new lifestyle of Fun, Wealth, Travel, & Bright Future. Tens of thousands of happy people are already enjoying these benefits; you can too. FREE details & help to Activate your New Fun Lifestyle & Bright Future now at: http://www.mikemurdock.com ; Harry and Donna Becker, Co-Founders. 817-491-9834;
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Issues Connected to Individual Time While Dating
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April 23, 2008
Dating services - Free Christian Dating | Online Dating, True Friendship, Love, Marriage
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Why You Need More Than One Watch
Watches are one of the most important accessories that any person can own. Our society runs on time, and it is very important to keep in touch with the hours and minutes of the day. Not only do people lead different lifestyles, but individuals perform a variety of different activities as well. Many people work during the day, go out for fun at night, and do sporting activities over the weekend. There are often special occasions in our lives as well. Each of these situations often require us to keep track of time, whether we are meeting people at a certain moment, or we need to get back home at a certain time. That is why it is important to have more than one watch. The casual watch. It is essential to have a casual watch. When dressed in denim and a tee-shirt for a night at the bar with friends, it is appropriate to wear a casual style watch. These types of watches are usually less expensive, and can match with most casual clothing. Not only does it make it easy to keep time, it makes a nice accessory to an outfit without outshining the rest of the wardrobe. You should wear a casual style watch whenever you wear casual clothes. The sports watch. If you are athletic and enjoy the rugged outdoors, you need a sports watch. A sports watch is appropriate for biking, hiking, running, and other similar sports. Many sports watches contain a stop watch feature that makes it convenient to track timed performance and set record breaking goals. If you enjoy water sports like water skiing, many brands offer waterproof watches so that you don't have to worry about ruining your watch. Sports watches tend to be made of more durable rubbers and plastic materials that can handle light impacts and keep internal parts protected when in contact with water. The dress watch. When you go out for a nice evening to see a show at the theater or eat at a fancy restaurant, nothing accessorizes quite like a lovely dress watch. High class band designs and elegant watch faces add sparkle and shine to a beautiful dress or an expensive suit. A casual watch just won't do, here. Fancy dress watches come in a variety of styles, so with a little shopping, you can find the unique style that catches your eye and fits your taste. These watches come in gold, silver, diamonds and other stones and elegant materials that tend to be on the more expensive side. It is worth it to invest in a dress watch, because, since you won't wear it everyday, it can last a very long time. Having more than one watch is like having more than one pair of shoes. Sneakers wouldn't look right with an evening gown, now would they? In the same way, a casual watch isn't appropriate for a tuxedo. Having more than one watch just makes perfect sense, doesn't it? Victor Epand is an expert consultant for used clothing, used watches, and vacuum food sealers. When shopping for used clothing, used watches, and vacuum food sealers, shop only at the best online stores for used clothing, used clothing, <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.vacuumfoodsealer.info/"> </a>
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Problems that can Affect Dating
The technology explosion and the number of gadgets that are commonplace with everyone has given rise to a number of ways to communicate. But too much of a good thing can be bad , because with the myriad of ways to communicate, you have to decide about the best way to do so and [
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Fling.com Dating
Wow! What a fucking weekend this has been. It’s like ever since I joined Fling Dating it has been basically impossible for me not to get laid whenever I feel like it. Last week I met a very interesting babe on Fling.com, she was so cool and down to earth. She was so funny and [
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April 22, 2008
New Dating Articles by Jennifer Brown Banks
These days, cats are among the most popular pet you can own. There are several breeds available, with the most popular being Persian and Siamese. Cats are a domesticated animal, with origins dating … Learn More… Once you begin shopping for an online dating site to join you [
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How to be an Alpha Male
It is said by many dating gurus that being a cocky and funny male attracts women. These are known as alpha males. It is a known fact that both men and women are attracted to leadership. No one really likes a follower that can’t think for themselves. So how can being an alpha male benefit your dating life? Well, you will have to balance out your leadership. By being the strongly guided male with a strong set direction, you must also have a side to you that listens to the other person and connecting with them. Boasting about yourself and being comedic will only get you but so far. If you take time to listen to the girl, you will be able to figure out what she is about and how you can move on that. The combo of being the cocky/funny guy who listens will earn you major points with the ladies. This shows them that you are confident, yet easy going. Power attracts women, it is a known fact. Another option you will need to make is whether you want to be the nice guy or the jerk. By being too much of one of the above combos can leave you on either side. By being cocky and somewhat mean, you will be portrayed as the jerk and if you are quieter and listen often, you will be known as the nice guy. There is a problem with both scenarios. Being the nice guy can be a problem because while listening to the woman’s problems, you may get caught up in the woman’s emotions. When she is angry, you will be so as well and if she is sad, it will rub off on you. When she shows anxiety about becoming sexually involved with you, you will become anxious as well. This can make your romance with her a complete bust. Now, by being the jerk, you will be the headstrong guy that steps all over any and everybody to get where you’re trying to go, no matter who you hurt in the process; even the woman you’re trying to court. For a jerk to win others have to lose and no one wants to be a part of that option. It is important that you remain confident and strong about your decisions, but you must also take heart to what others are feeling and what they have to say. This will make you the ultimate guy to be around. You will be admired and desired by the lady you are dating or trying to date. By listening to the women you are trying to attract, you will earn points for being a nice guy and by staying strong and confident throughout the conversation will boost you up there with the jerk category, but they simply cancel each other out; making you the alpha male. Being a little of both is the way to go. You can be the joker and cocky guy, but you need to know when the joking stops and when the substance begins. You should also be open-minded at trying new things. Guys that aren’t afraid of taking risks attract even the hottest of women. This also goes for taking risks with women. Put yourself out there and women will surely scoop you up. Want to learn 50 WAYS for approaching, attracting and seducing women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson's 50 WAYS for approaching, attracting and seducing women which provides 50 tips for instant dating success.
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Uncertain Issues Related to Dating
Having a romantic relationship in the workplace is a common occurrence. Sometimes it happens in secret, without the knowledge of fellow co-workers, while at other times it inevitable becomes known. Deciding whether or not to disclose that you are dating someone at work to fellow colleagues may not be a choice that you can [
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Fling Dating Success
Fling dating has brought us even more sluts in our local area who were looking for a wild time just like us. I found two sluts that loved to fuck guys together and I knew that I had to meet them. So, around 7pm I called them like we discussed on [
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April 21, 2008
Why You Need More Than One Watch
Watches are one of the most important accessories that any person can own. Our society runs on time, and it is very important to keep in touch with the hours and minutes of the day. Not only do people lead different lifestyles, but individuals perform a variety of different activities as well. Many people work during the day, go out for fun at night, and do sporting activities over the weekend. There are often special occasions in our lives as well. Each of these situations often require us to keep track of time, whether we are meeting people at a certain moment, or we need to get back home at a certain time. That is why it is important to have more than one watch. The casual watch. It is essential to have a casual watch. When dressed in denim and a tee-shirt for a night at the bar with friends, it is appropriate to wear a casual style watch. These types of watches are usually less expensive, and can match with most casual clothing. Not only does it make it easy to keep time, it makes a nice accessory to an outfit without outshining the rest of the wardrobe. You should wear a casual style watch whenever you wear casual clothes. The sports watch. If you are athletic and enjoy the rugged outdoors, you need a sports watch. A sports watch is appropriate for biking, hiking, running, and other similar sports. Many sports watches contain a stop watch feature that makes it convenient to track timed performance and set record breaking goals. If you enjoy water sports like water skiing, many brands offer waterproof watches so that you don't have to worry about ruining your watch. Sports watches tend to be made of more durable rubbers and plastic materials that can handle light impacts and keep internal parts protected when in contact with water. The dress watch. When you go out for a nice evening to see a show at the theater or eat at a fancy restaurant, nothing accessorizes quite like a lovely dress watch. High class band designs and elegant watch faces add sparkle and shine to a beautiful dress or an expensive suit. A casual watch just won't do, here. Fancy dress watches come in a variety of styles, so with a little shopping, you can find the unique style that catches your eye and fits your taste. These watches come in gold, silver, diamonds and other stones and elegant materials that tend to be on the more expensive side. It is worth it to invest in a dress watch, because, since you won't wear it everyday, it can last a very long time. Having more than one watch is like having more than one pair of shoes. Sneakers wouldn't look right with an evening gown, now would they? In the same way, a casual watch isn't appropriate for a tuxedo. Having more than one watch just makes perfect sense, doesn't it? Victor Epand is an expert consultant for used clothing, used watches, and vacuum food sealers. When shopping for used clothing, used watches, and vacuum food sealers, shop only at the best online stores for used clothing, used clothing.
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Club 555 Best Places to Meet Singles?
If you're single and have had difficulty in the past meeting other singles you are not alone. The obvious meeting places may not be the best places to meet single people unless you are only looking for a one-night stand.
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Communicating while Dating
So how many times, or have you ever been in the supermarket, out doing grocery shopping or just making a stop at a shopping plaza and someone comes up and starts small talk. The conversation is light and friendly, and then the question is asked, “So, are you single?” And then you know where [
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April 20, 2008
Dating agency - Internet Dating Site - Online Adult Dating Personals Services
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Individuality In A Relationship
There are three common factors all relationships should have. These factors are religion, finances, and a common lifestyle. Having these three beliefs in common are very important when the survival to a relationship is concerned. These major factors help a relationship survive, but having small differences in interest keeps a relationship from going stale. You don't want to get bored with each other. For instance, say you and him go every place side by side, you hear all the same jokes at the same time, you hang out with the same people, basically experiencing everything together. Now, you and him are home alone, and you have nothing to talk about. He's heard all the stories, and jokes. I mean, he was there too. Now, what are you two ever going to talk about? Now imagine you have the same interests, so you go and do the same activities together. You have the same hobbies. See where I'm going with this? If you and your man think, act, react, and know everything about each other, plus you know everything about each others lives, because you did it together. You can't possibly have an interest in each others lives. You're taking the surprises and excitement out of the relationship. You are now your partner, and your partner is you. It may seem like you are just trying to get away from your partner at first and it may hurt his feelings. In fact, it may hurt your feelings when he wants to go out without you, but let him. Stop being polite! Don't get me wrong, you always need to respect your partner, but it's OK to let both him and you have time to do your own things. If you trust your man, this shouldn't be a problem. If you don't trust your man, you should take a second look, and reevaluate your relationship before continuing on with this charade. It will be difficult at first, but you will thank me later. You and your man won't feel suffocated by each other, which is a major reason men opt out. You two need to be yourselves. If you're not yourselves, you can't possibly be happy. He and you will be much happier knowing you can still be yourself, and he'll respect you, and even love you more for it. However, it's never OK to do things that you couldn't tell him about later. BE TRUSTWORTHY! Don't take advantage of the situation. Oh, and always make sure you and him still have time as a couple. Especially, alone time so you and him can reconnect. You're going to need time to share all the interesting individual stuff you do when your apart. Plus, time to be in a relationship. You can't be a couple if you're never together. Respect you partner, and having your own lives as individuals will be pleasant and even healthy for your relationship. Now, go and sign up for my exclusive e-newsletter at www.abetterwaytolove.com so you don't miss out on "Keeping Your Individuality" coming soon. Along with more crucial relationship advice.
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Fling Dating Personals
I know I keep saying it over and over again, but Fling Dating is the way to find thousands of local hotties who are looking for no emotional attachment when they meet and only want to fuck and leave. It’s the perfect way to meet a hot chick in your local area to fulfill your [
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Fling Dating Score
Fling Dating has paid off once again! I have used Fling.com to get me a new fling every single week since becoming a member. I am simply amazed at how well the fling dating services work. Most of the chicks I picked up at local bars and shit throughout the years wanted some sort of [
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April 19, 2008
In The Bedroomâ€"What Women Want Men To Know
Some men, who are virgins, are so embarrassed that they try to hide it from a woman. After speaking to numerous females, I found out that they wouldn’t have a care in the world if their man actually was. In fact, it turns them on and even admires that quality of being able to hold it off until they meet Miss Right. If you have finally decided that you no longer want to just have a one night stand with your woman, then it’s a must that you add variety and romance into the bedroom. Women need flirtation. Unlike men, they don’t just jump for joy once you drop your trousers. They need to slowly get into the mood. Some men find it so hard to add romance into their relationship, yet it can be quite simple. We men just make it hard. Romance is actually so important in the relationship. Without it, the woman will never truly be in the mood and feel sexy. Romance enables the women to make the move on men into the bedroom. Examples of being romantic could be as easily as going to your local florist and grabbing a dozen of dark red roses and a box of chocolates. Or if you’re truly a romantic at heart, try buying rose petals and sprinkling them all over the floor leading from the door to the bedroom and bathroom. It acts like a path to where you want to lead her to go to. Why not add some scented candles around the home and light them up to create an ambient atmosphere into the night. Although most men expect women to be the cook, why not learn to cook up some simple dishes for the both of you. (Notice why so many chefs are actually males, we do have this talent in us). Create a three course meal and even add a printed menu of what’s being served for the night. Don’t go over board or else you two will ended up falling a sleep after a massive meal and just want to head for bed. However, make sure dessert is on the menu, it’s a must. First and foremost, what you need is a step by step plan. This includes making sure you clean up your home so the whole environment is welcoming to shopping and cooking as mentioned earlier. Having a plan leaves nothing to be accidentally missed and also relieves any final moment stress thinking there is something that you might have left out. Unlike men, women know how to communicate their needs very subtly. Men on the other hand, don’t know how. If you want something from a woman, just ask. Even ask her what she would like that turns her on. Women enjoy making both romantic and playful love. Most men just want to get right into it but it doesn’t work that way. At times it can, but the enjoyment from the woman’s side would die out very quickly so try to break off this habit. This will ensure that the both of you are enjoying it and it’s not just a one sided affair. To finalize, it all comes to being considerate of the woman’s needs. The true gentleman will ask. That is the way you can learn from each other as everybody is different. What one woman enjoys may not be another’s cup of tea. If you don’t ask, you won’t know. Lastly, compliment. This is where women are very similar to men. They want compliments to know that they also did a great job satisfying your needs as well because you had taken the time to satisfy her needs. Following the above will ensure that making love is both romantic and long lasting. If you have found my article interesting, I have come across a site which is at the moment giving away a massive free eBook titled “Secrets To Dating Beautiful Women”. I have personally found this one of the best books on the subject of Dating and Relationships and I highly recommend you read it. It’s a must read. Download it from; www.Secrets2DatingSuccess.com Terry Leslie is a successful and world renowned authority figure on creating and maintaining successful relationships. A much sought after global speaker in the areas of intimate relationships, self-improvement and human peak potential training. For more Secrets to Dating and Relationship success, check out www.secrets2datingsuccess.com
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April 18, 2008
40 proven ways to Romance a partner with little or no money
Inexpensive ways to be romantic, and it will pay off for your relationship in innumerable ways. Why inexpensive? Well, you could rent a limo and take your love to a snooty French restaurant, or whisk him or her off to a trip to the Grand Canyon. I don’t know about you, but I can’t afford to do that kind of stuff more than a few times a year. The rest of the time, I have to resort to cheaposity. Before we get into the list, let’s look at a few notes on how to use the list: 1. Weekly dates. I recommend you have a date at least once a week with your partner. It doesn’t have to be an expensive one, but at least find some way to spend a couple hours time together. If you’ve got kids, like I do, find a babysitter. 2. Communicate. Romantic gestures don’t take the place of real communication. Take time to talk about your goals, your dreams, your plans for the future, your current lives, things you’re happy about, things you love about the other person, things you’d like to work on, things you’re grateful for. 3. Inspiration. This list contains a lot of obvious stuff �" you could probably come up with twice as many good ideas yourself. But the list doesn’t aim for originality �" it aims to be an inspiration. Pick and choose some good ideas, or use it to spark some of your own. Sometimes we just need a little reminder. 4. Forget Valentines. Boycott Valentine’s Day, as it makes people think they should be romantic on special occasions. Instead, pick one of these ideas and do it any day of the week �" no need for a special occasion. OK, enough talk. Let’s look at some ways to be romantic without breaking your budget 1. Write a poem. 2. Cook a romantic dinner. 3. Give a full-body massage. 4. Pack a sunset picnic. 5. Burn a CD with love songs. 6. Give her dark chocolates. 7. Prepare strawberries with fondue chocolate. 8. Snuggle up together on a rainy day. 9. Leave little love notes around the house. 10. Take a moonlit walk on the beach. 11. Snuggle together while watching romantic movies (Sleepless in Seatle maybe). 12. Get good wine, watch shooting stars. 13. Take a bath together (use bubbles!). 14. Bring home good coffee or a decadent sweet. 15. Take a walk down memory lane �" visit some of the special places from your early days of dating. 16. Make warm chocolate cake for dessert. 17. Make a scrapbook with photos, mementos, and little notes from you lives together. 18. Kiss in the rain. 19. Sneak away from a party and make out. 20. Bring home great take-out, and light some candles. 21. Fix something or fix up the house just to make your partner happy. 22. Slow dance to romantic music. 23. Take a nap together. 24. Kiss slowly, touching his or her back and neck and nape �" slowly. 25. Make a list of everything you love about him or her. 26. Go to a movie, ignore the movie, and make out like teen-agers. 27. Groom yourself, and try to look good for your partner. 28. Take some quiet time and talk about your day. 29. Write little notes, one for each way he or she drives you crazy. 30. Recreate your partner’s favorite romantic movie scene. 31. Pretend you’re going on a first date �" show up at the door with flowers, all dressed up, with your car washed and cleaned, looking spiffy. Recreate the first time. 32. Create a little box with a bunch of your partner’s favorite things inside. 33. Paint each other with flavored body paint. Be creative! 34. Try some sexy role-playing. Get dressed up, be daring, have fun. 35. Give a little token to your partner to wear, and say it’s to remind him or her all day that you love them. 36. Sing a favorite song to him or her. Only do this if you can sing fairly well. 37. Have dinner on the roof, with some candles. This doesn’t work if your roof slopes sharply. 38. Hold hands, and walk somewhere with lots of pretty lights. 39. Blindfold your partner. Use a feather. Slowly. 40. Declare your love, very publicly. Burn the fat feed the muscle Burn the fat feed the muscle Burn the fat feed the muscle
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The Subconscious
There are certain things inside my head that I initially wanted to write in this post but decided against it since I know I’m not allowed to divulge anymore than I have to so I guess I’m sticking to talking about the subconscious and how it surfaces (sometimes) and affects our actions. I’m in no [
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Fling.com Dating
Wow! What a fucking weekend this has been. It’s like ever since I joined Fling Dating it has been basically impossible for me not to get laid whenever I feel like it. Last week I met a very interesting babe on Fling.com, she was so cool and down to earth. She was so funny and [
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April 17, 2008
Are You Crazy Enough for Online Blind Dates?
(Online Dating News Blog) A patent filed by Microsoft shows that the company is interested in getting into the online dating service industry. The patent outlines plans for a photo-based online dating services where matches are created by looks. The way it works is that a person uploads a picture of a man or woman.
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Ways to Seduce a Man - What Does He Want to Hear?
In the first two articles of this series: Smell Right, or Fail Miserably! and Dress for Success, we discussed the importance of stimulating the senses of smell and sight to attract the man you want. Now it's time to discuss the third element in the seduction game. What does he need to hear to be seduced?
Humor: Introducing humor is tricky but helps. Witty humor is best. Refrain from long jokes unless you're really good at telling them especially at the beginning of the date. Laughing is a good therapy and helps to break the ice and loosen both of you up.
Tone of Voice: Your tone of voice should be warm and care-free. Try not to raise your voice, because it will ruin the mood. Don't speak under your breath either. It's annoying to have to be repeating yourself because he didn't hear you.
Eye contact: Observe him while you're talking. If you notice that he starts fidgeting and looking away, he's either nervous or bored with the topic. Shifty-eyed people tend to cause distrust. Make eye contact as much as possible when he's talking to you. This will make him feel special.
A Little Vulnerability Goes a Long Way I'm running the risk of sounding chauvanistic here, but men like to think that you want their protection. Strong, independent women tend to be a turn off for men. You can be strong and independent without having to remind him of it. He needs to have a sense of purpose and feel important for you. If you give off the impression that you don't need anyone's help, then what's his role in your life? (Being the henpecked husband?)
Forbidden topics (The best ways to turn a man off!): -ex-boyfriends (any details about them) -other men (Come on! you're talking about his competition! He's supposed to be number one for you right now.) -penis size (yes, a lot of men are insecure about this) -obsessive conversation about diets (have him accept you as you are, not as you would like to be. A lot of men out there still prefer plump women, as opposed to bone racks) -details about your day at work (you're out to seduce him, remember? Would you feel seduced hearing about his day?) -clothes and accessories you are thinking of buying (this conversation goes down well with friends, but not with most men unless they're fashion designers) -forcing him to give you an honest opinion about what you're wearing (Believe me, if he likes what he sees, he will tell you straight out. Don't hound him for his opinions. Men don't like to have to tell a woman what looks best on them. They just limit their opinions to: 'you look great', or 'not bad'. Don't force an uncomfortable situation for the both of you.) -problems with your female friends. (men in general can't understand women's problems with other women any better than women can understand a man's obsession for sports or auto mechanics)
What Does He Want to Hear?/ Suggestions for conversation: (make him the center of your attention) -You are unlike anyone I have ever met! (Great lead in. ...The rest is up to you!) -I accept you as you are (Don't say it straight out, use your imagination to tell him a few things you like about him. If he really likes you, he will most likely start telling you what he thinks of you) -you can introduce innocent hypothetical situations like: what would you do if you had all the money in the world?, What would be your perfect holiday? (Never: What would your mother say if she saw us now?)
If the Right Mood Is Set: -fantasies including him. (only if he has earned your trust and you feel he will enjoy what he hears and maybe share some of his own fantasies with you) -"Let me tell you a little secret" will get his attention, especially if you tell him what would turn you on if he did it -this really spices up the evening. Make sure there's something in it for him.
Avoid Distractions: Leave your cell phone at home or turn it off. Make a point of telling him that you've done so, to make him feel special. This way you also give him the subliminal message to do the same. This distraction can ruin an otherwise well-planned evening. And Most Importantly, Be yourself! The above points are just some general guidelines to help you -not a set of strict rules as every person is different. Make sure he gets to know the real you, so there are no surprizes later on. Yes, you may be risking not seeing him again, but do you really want to spend your life with someone who doesn't accept you as you are?
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Club 555 A Few Ways to Show Them You Love Them
Dating is exciting for both singles. You're busy meeting new people and exploring a lot of new firsts together. Your relationship begins as a list of firsts; first trip to an amusement park together, first kiss, first hiking trip, first road trip, first overnight vacation, and the list grows. At some point the newness will begin to wear off...
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Issues Connected to Individual Time While Dating
Given the nature of dating, that you both are new to each other and therefore don’t know much about each other, there are certain gray areas that will arise. There will be situations in which it may not be clear what the proper protocol or action should be. In those cases, it may be [
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April 16, 2008
Dating websites - Online Dating-How To Know If Online Dating Is Not For You
Interracial dating and romance is becoming easier as like-minded people flock to specialized dating sites. Read Me
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Divorced Singles and Online Dating
I'm sure that you've heard countless times that over 50% of all marriages end in divorce. This is an overwhelming statistic, and it just goes to show how difficult relationships with the other sex can be. Each person has a different time table for getting over a divorce, and it's important not to rush from one bad relationship into another. Before getting ready to date again, it's wise to make sure that you've had a chance to work through your issues before jumping into the next relationship. You need to be honest with yourself, and ask yourself if you are prepared mentally, physically, and spiritually to commit yourself to finding a new relationship. Some people are ready the moment their previous relationship ends and others can take months or years until they reach that point. The longer you were married, the more difficult it becomes to find other singles. Married couples tend to develop and foster relationships with other married couples. Once a divorce is finalized, one of the divorced couple tends to lose this base of friends. Where are the best places to meet other singes? This is an age old question, and there is a variety of old stand bys: the local bar or pub, night clubs, social clubs, and church to name a few. Many singles rely on friends or people they already know to help them find someone (i.e. a blind date or prearranged meeting). Finally many singles cling to the hope of a chance encounter (i.e. bumping into someone while shopping, etc.) leading to finding Mrs. Right. The internet becomes a great source for meeting other singles. It's an ever increasing pool with more and more people getting connected to the internet. For seasoned internet veterans, it's hard to believe that tens of thousands of people use the internet for the first time each and every day, and this trend won't be ending any time soon. Where is the best place for these people to find other singles? I'm sure you've read countless stories about free social networking sites like Facebook and MySpace. These sites are great for keeping in touch with people that you already are familiar with, but finding quality singles is not something these sites are renowned for. For older singles, these sites also seem quite intimidating to use. They tend to be oriented towards younger web surfers, with the majority of users under the age of 35. Online dating sites provide a great service for divorced men and women. They provide a large pool of qualified singles that are also looking to find someone else. Technology has gotten to the point where anyone is able to use one of these sites. If you know how to type out an email, then you're more than qualified to navigate your way through an online dating site. There are countless sites out there, and the service they offer cover a wide gamut. There are sites for divorced singles, single parents, disabled singles, interracial, ethnic (i.e. Italian, German, Asian, Arab, Indian, Russian, etc.), mail order brides, seniors, gay and lesbian, as well as various sites set up for singles just looking for sexual experiences either online or in person. Most paid sites will offer a free trial membership so you can get a chance to look around a site and see what it has to offer before making a decision on whether or not to join. See what the pool of singles look like in your local area and take the time to investigate the various options out there. The world is a really big place, and the task of finding someone can become overwhelming, but online dating sites do a really good job of helping you narrow down your search. Jim McMenamin is the webmaster and creator of MacsDatingSite.com, a blog dedicated to the various issues of online dating. For a limited time, Jim is giving away two free eBooks, 10 Tips To Writing Your Online Dating Profile as well as 101 Steps To A Happy Relationship, when you sign up for his MacsDatingSite.com.
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Problems that can Affect Dating
The technology explosion and the number of gadgets that are commonplace with everyone has given rise to a number of ways to communicate. But too much of a good thing can be bad , because with the myriad of ways to communicate, you have to decide about the best way to do so and [
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Club 555 Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last?
Nice has the word "ice" in it and that's how she's going to feel toward you if you come off all nice and squishy. That is the fastest way to become a "friend" instead of a lover. Nice guys listen up because what we are about to clue you in on might change your dating life forever. Nature is an amazing force. All the animals in nature look for the strongest and most attractive mate to breed with. This assures the survival of the species by breeding out the weakest genes. This is the way that it is supposed to work so we don't want to reinvent the wheel but we do want to take advantage of what nature predicts the way that the female will react...
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April 15, 2008
Breaking Up
- (Online Dating News Blog) The creators of free online dating service OKcupid have created a new concept on online dating - blind dates. Last November the team launched a new service called Crazy Blind Date that allows people in select cities to meet up with others without seeing a picture or ever communicating with.
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Individuality In A Relationship
There are three common factors all relationships should have. These factors are religion, finances, and a common lifestyle. Having these three beliefs in common are very important when the survival to a relationship is concerned. These major factors help a relationship survive, but having small differences in interest keeps a relationship from going stale. You don't want to get bored with each other. For instance, say you and him go every place side by side, you hear all the same jokes at the same time, you hang out with the same people, basically experiencing everything together. Now, you and him are home alone, and you have nothing to talk about. He's heard all the stories, and jokes. I mean, he was there too. Now, what are you two ever going to talk about? Now imagine you have the same interests, so you go and do the same activities together. You have the same hobbies. See where I'm going with this? If you and your man think, act, react, and know everything about each other, plus you know everything about each others lives, because you did it together. You can't possibly have an interest in each others lives. You're taking the surprises and excitement out of the relationship. You are now your partner, and your partner is you. It may seem like you are just trying to get away from your partner at first and it may hurt his feelings. In fact, it may hurt your feelings when he wants to go out without you, but let him. Stop being polite! Don't get me wrong, you always need to respect your partner, but it's OK to let both him and you have time to do your own things. If you trust your man, this shouldn't be a problem. If you don't trust your man, you should take a second look, and reevaluate your relationship before continuing on with this charade. It will be difficult at first, but you will thank me later. You and your man won't feel suffocated by each other, which is a major reason men opt out. You two need to be yourselves. If you're not yourselves, you can't possibly be happy. He and you will be much happier knowing you can still be yourself, and he'll respect you, and even love you more for it. However, it's never OK to do things that you couldn't tell him about later. BE TRUSTWORTHY! Don't take advantage of the situation. Oh, and always make sure you and him still have time as a couple. Especially, alone time so you and him can reconnect. You're going to need time to share all the interesting individual stuff you do when your apart. Plus, time to be in a relationship. You can't be a couple if you're never together. Respect you partner, and having your own lives as individuals will be pleasant and even healthy for your relationship. Now, go and sign up for my exclusive e-newsletter at www.abetterwaytolove.com so you don't miss out on "Keeping Your Individuality" coming soon. Along with more crucial relationship advice.
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Get paid to meet for coffee
With the modern age of computers and the internet, one of the accepted mediums of finding a mate is a dating website. It progressed from your typical personal ad on a local paper publication to a more accessible online profile set up in one of the dating sites. However, as more and more social networking [
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April 14, 2008
40 proven ways to Romance a partner with little or no money
Inexpensive ways to be romantic, and it will pay off for your relationship in innumerable ways. Why inexpensive? Well, you could rent a limo and take your love to a snooty French restaurant, or whisk him or her off to a trip to the Grand Canyon. I don’t know about you, but I can’t afford to do that kind of stuff more than a few times a year. The rest of the time, I have to resort to cheaposity. Before we get into the list, let’s look at a few notes on how to use the list: 1. Weekly dates. I recommend you have a date at least once a week with your partner. It doesn’t have to be an expensive one, but at least find some way to spend a couple hours time together. If you’ve got kids, like I do, find a babysitter. 2. Communicate. Romantic gestures don’t take the place of real communication. Take time to talk about your goals, your dreams, your plans for the future, your current lives, things you’re happy about, things you love about the other person, things you’d like to work on, things you’re grateful for. 3. Inspiration. This list contains a lot of obvious stuff �" you could probably come up with twice as many good ideas yourself. But the list doesn’t aim for originality �" it aims to be an inspiration. Pick and choose some good ideas, or use it to spark some of your own. Sometimes we just need a little reminder. 4. Forget Valentines. Boycott Valentine’s Day, as it makes people think they should be romantic on special occasions. Instead, pick one of these ideas and do it any day of the week �" no need for a special occasion. OK, enough talk. Let’s look at some ways to be romantic without breaking your budget 1. Write a poem. 2. Cook a romantic dinner. 3. Give a full-body massage. 4. Pack a sunset picnic. 5. Burn a CD with love songs. 6. Give her dark chocolates. 7. Prepare strawberries with fondue chocolate. 8. Snuggle up together on a rainy day. 9. Leave little love notes around the house. 10. Take a moonlit walk on the beach. 11. Snuggle together while watching romantic movies (Sleepless in Seatle maybe). 12. Get good wine, watch shooting stars. 13. Take a bath together (use bubbles!). 14. Bring home good coffee or a decadent sweet. 15. Take a walk down memory lane �" visit some of the special places from your early days of dating. 16. Make warm chocolate cake for dessert. 17. Make a scrapbook with photos, mementos, and little notes from you lives together. 18. Kiss in the rain. 19. Sneak away from a party and make out. 20. Bring home great take-out, and light some candles. 21. Fix something or fix up the house just to make your partner happy. 22. Slow dance to romantic music. 23. Take a nap together. 24. Kiss slowly, touching his or her back and neck and nape �" slowly. 25. Make a list of everything you love about him or her. 26. Go to a movie, ignore the movie, and make out like teen-agers. 27. Groom yourself, and try to look good for your partner. 28. Take some quiet time and talk about your day. 29. Write little notes, one for each way he or she drives you crazy. 30. Recreate your partner’s favorite romantic movie scene. 31. Pretend you’re going on a first date �" show up at the door with flowers, all dressed up, with your car washed and cleaned, looking spiffy. Recreate the first time. 32. Create a little box with a bunch of your partner’s favorite things inside. 33. Paint each other with flavored body paint. Be creative! 34. Try some sexy role-playing. Get dressed up, be daring, have fun. 35. Give a little token to your partner to wear, and say it’s to remind him or her all day that you love them. 36. Sing a favorite song to him or her. Only do this if you can sing fairly well. 37. Have dinner on the roof, with some candles. This doesn’t work if your roof slopes sharply. 38. Hold hands, and walk somewhere with lots of pretty lights. 39. Blindfold your partner. Use a feather. Slowly. 40. Declare your love, very publicly. Burn the fat feed the muscle Burn the fat feed the muscle Burn the fat feed the muscle
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April 13, 2008
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Ways to Seduce a Man - What Does He Want to Hear?
In the first two articles of this series: Smell Right, or Fail Miserably! and Dress for Success, we discussed the importance of stimulating the senses of smell and sight to attract the man you want. Now it's time to discuss the third element in the seduction game. What does he need to hear to be seduced? <b>Humor:</b> Introducing humor is tricky but helps. Witty humor is best. Refrain from long jokes unless you're really good at telling them especially at the beginning of the date. Laughing is a good therapy and helps to break the ice and loosen both of you up. <b>Tone of Voice:</b> Your tone of voice should be warm and care-free. Try not to raise your voice, because it will ruin the mood. Don't speak under your breath either. It's annoying to have to be repeating yourself because he didn't hear you. <b>Eye contact:</b> Observe him while you're talking. If you notice that he starts fidgeting and looking away, he's either nervous or bored with the topic. Shifty-eyed people tend to cause distrust. Make eye contact as much as possible when he's talking to you. This will make him feel special. <b>A Little Vulnerability Goes a Long Way</b> I'm running the risk of sounding chauvanistic here, but men like to think that you want their protection. Strong, independent women tend to be a turn off for men. You can be strong and independent without having to remind him of it. He needs to have a sense of purpose and feel important for you. If you give off the impression that you don't need anyone's help, then what's his role in your life? (Being the henpecked husband?) <b>Forbidden topics</b> (The best ways to turn a man off!): -ex-boyfriends (any details about them) -other men (Come on! you're talking about his competition! He's supposed to be number one for you right now.) -penis size (yes, a lot of men are insecure about this) -obsessive conversation about diets (have him accept you as you are, not as you would like to be. A lot of men out there still prefer plump women, as opposed to bone racks) -details about your day at work (you're out to seduce him, remember? Would you feel seduced hearing about his day?) -clothes and accessories you are thinking of buying (this conversation goes down well with friends, but not with most men unless they're fashion designers) -forcing him to give you an honest opinion about what you're wearing (Believe me, if he likes what he sees, he will tell you straight out. Don't hound him for his opinions. Men don't like to have to tell a woman what looks best on them. They just limit their opinions to: 'you look great', or 'not bad'. Don't force an uncomfortable situation for the both of you.) -problems with your female friends. (men in general can't understand women's problems with other women any better than women can understand a man's obsession for sports or auto mechanics) <b>What Does He Want to Hear?/ Suggestions for conversation:</b> (make him the center of your attention) -You are unlike anyone I have ever met! (Great lead in. ...The rest is up to you!) -I accept you as you are (Don't say it straight out, use your imagination to tell him a few things you like about him. If he really likes you, he will most likely start telling you what he thinks of you) -you can introduce innocent hypothetical situations like: what would you do if you had all the money in the world?, What would be your perfect holiday? (Never: What would your mother say if she saw us now?) <b>If the Right Mood Is Set:</b> -fantasies including him. (only if he has earned your trust and you feel he will enjoy what he hears and maybe share some of his own fantasies with you) -"Let me tell you a little secret" will get his attention, especially if you tell him what would turn you on if he did it -this really spices up the evening. Make sure there's something in it for him. <b>Avoid Distractions:</b> Leave your cell phone at home or turn it off. Make a point of telling him that you've done so, to make him feel special. This way you also give him the subliminal message to do the same. This distraction can ruin an otherwise well-planned evening. And Most Importantly, <b>Be yourself!</b> The above points are just some general guidelines to help you -not a set of strict rules as every person is different. Make sure he gets to know the real you, so there are no surprizes later on. Yes, you may be risking not seeing him again, but do you really want to spend your life with someone who doesn't accept you as you are? <b>Tired of dating losers? How to Find the Man of your dreams How to Find the Man of your dreams</b>
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April 12, 2008
Adult dating - Online dating service and personals ads for people at Texas A
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40 proven ways to Romance a partner with little or no money
Inexpensive ways to be romantic, and it will pay off for your relationship in innumerable ways. Why inexpensive? Well, you could rent a limo and take your love to a snooty French restaurant, or whisk him or her off to a trip to the Grand Canyon. I don’t know about you, but I can’t afford to do that kind of stuff more than a few times a year. The rest of the time, I have to resort to cheaposity. Before we get into the list, let’s look at a few notes on how to use the list: 1. Weekly dates. I recommend you have a date at least once a week with your partner. It doesn’t have to be an expensive one, but at least find some way to spend a couple hours time together. If you’ve got kids, like I do, find a babysitter. 2. Communicate. Romantic gestures don’t take the place of real communication. Take time to talk about your goals, your dreams, your plans for the future, your current lives, things you’re happy about, things you love about the other person, things you’d like to work on, things you’re grateful for. 3. Inspiration. This list contains a lot of obvious stuff �" you could probably come up with twice as many good ideas yourself. But the list doesn’t aim for originality �" it aims to be an inspiration. Pick and choose some good ideas, or use it to spark some of your own. Sometimes we just need a little reminder. 4. Forget Valentines. Boycott Valentine’s Day, as it makes people think they should be romantic on special occasions. Instead, pick one of these ideas and do it any day of the week �" no need for a special occasion. OK, enough talk. Let’s look at some ways to be romantic without breaking your budget 1. Write a poem. 2. Cook a romantic dinner. 3. Give a full-body massage. 4. Pack a sunset picnic. 5. Burn a CD with love songs. 6. Give her dark chocolates. 7. Prepare strawberries with fondue chocolate. 8. Snuggle up together on a rainy day. 9. Leave little love notes around the house. 10. Take a moonlit walk on the beach. 11. Snuggle together while watching romantic movies (Sleepless in Seatle maybe). 12. Get good wine, watch shooting stars. 13. Take a bath together (use bubbles!). 14. Bring home good coffee or a decadent sweet. 15. Take a walk down memory lane �" visit some of the special places from your early days of dating. 16. Make warm chocolate cake for dessert. 17. Make a scrapbook with photos, mementos, and little notes from you lives together. 18. Kiss in the rain. 19. Sneak away from a party and make out. 20. Bring home great take-out, and light some candles. 21. Fix something or fix up the house just to make your partner happy. 22. Slow dance to romantic music. 23. Take a nap together. 24. Kiss slowly, touching his or her back and neck and nape �" slowly. 25. Make a list of everything you love about him or her. 26. Go to a movie, ignore the movie, and make out like teen-agers. 27. Groom yourself, and try to look good for your partner. 28. Take some quiet time and talk about your day. 29. Write little notes, one for each way he or she drives you crazy. 30. Recreate your partner’s favorite romantic movie scene. 31. Pretend you’re going on a first date �" show up at the door with flowers, all dressed up, with your car washed and cleaned, looking spiffy. Recreate the first time. 32. Create a little box with a bunch of your partner’s favorite things inside. 33. Paint each other with flavored body paint. Be creative! 34. Try some sexy role-playing. Get dressed up, be daring, have fun. 35. Give a little token to your partner to wear, and say it’s to remind him or her all day that you love them. 36. Sing a favorite song to him or her. Only do this if you can sing fairly well. 37. Have dinner on the roof, with some candles. This doesn’t work if your roof slopes sharply. 38. Hold hands, and walk somewhere with lots of pretty lights. 39. Blindfold your partner. Use a feather. Slowly. 40. Declare your love, very publicly. Burn the fat feed the muscle Burn the fat feed the muscle Burn the fat feed the muscle
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Club 555 Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last?
Nice has the word "ice" in it and that's how she's going to feel toward you if you come off all nice and squishy. That is the fastest way to become a "friend" instead of a lover. Nice guys listen up because what we are about to clue you in on might change your dating life forever. Nature is an amazing force. All the animals in nature look for the strongest and most attractive mate to breed with. This assures the survival of the species by breeding out the weakest genes. This is the way that it is supposed to work so we don't want to reinvent the wheel but we do want to take advantage of what nature predicts the way that the female will react...<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805557" height="1" width="1"/>
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April 11, 2008
Dating service - Interviral Dating and Sex - The Body
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Ways to Seduce a Man - What Does He Want to Hear?
In the first two articles of this series: Smell Right, or Fail Miserably! and Dress for Success, we discussed the importance of stimulating the senses of smell and sight to attract the man you want. Now it's time to discuss the third element in the seduction game. What does he need to hear to be seduced? <b>Humor:</b> Introducing humor is tricky but helps. Witty humor is best. Refrain from long jokes unless you're really good at telling them especially at the beginning of the date. Laughing is a good therapy and helps to break the ice and loosen both of you up. <b>Tone of Voice:</b> Your tone of voice should be warm and care-free. Try not to raise your voice, because it will ruin the mood. Don't speak under your breath either. It's annoying to have to be repeating yourself because he didn't hear you. <b>Eye contact:</b> Observe him while you're talking. If you notice that he starts fidgeting and looking away, he's either nervous or bored with the topic. Shifty-eyed people tend to cause distrust. Make eye contact as much as possible when he's talking to you. This will make him feel special. <b>A Little Vulnerability Goes a Long Way</b> I'm running the risk of sounding chauvanistic here, but men like to think that you want their protection. Strong, independent women tend to be a turn off for men. You can be strong and independent without having to remind him of it. He needs to have a sense of purpose and feel important for you. If you give off the impression that you don't need anyone's help, then what's his role in your life? (Being the henpecked husband?) <b>Forbidden topics</b> (The best ways to turn a man off!): -ex-boyfriends (any details about them) -other men (Come on! you're talking about his competition! He's supposed to be number one for you right now.) -penis size (yes, a lot of men are insecure about this) -obsessive conversation about diets (have him accept you as you are, not as you would like to be. A lot of men out there still prefer plump women, as opposed to bone racks) -details about your day at work (you're out to seduce him, remember? Would you feel seduced hearing about his day?) -clothes and accessories you are thinking of buying (this conversation goes down well with friends, but not with most men unless they're fashion designers) -forcing him to give you an honest opinion about what you're wearing (Believe me, if he likes what he sees, he will tell you straight out. Don't hound him for his opinions. Men don't like to have to tell a woman what looks best on them. They just limit their opinions to: 'you look great', or 'not bad'. Don't force an uncomfortable situation for the both of you.) -problems with your female friends. (men in general can't understand women's problems with other women any better than women can understand a man's obsession for sports or auto mechanics) <b>What Does He Want to Hear?/ Suggestions for conversation:</b> (make him the center of your attention) -You are unlike anyone I have ever met! (Great lead in. ...The rest is up to you!) -I accept you as you are (Don't say it straight out, use your imagination to tell him a few things you like about him. If he really likes you, he will most likely start telling you what he thinks of you) -you can introduce innocent hypothetical situations like: what would you do if you had all the money in the world?, What would be your perfect holiday? (Never: What would your mother say if she saw us now?) <b>If the Right Mood Is Set:</b> -fantasies including him. (only if he has earned your trust and you feel he will enjoy what he hears and maybe share some of his own fantasies with you) -"Let me tell you a little secret" will get his attention, especially if you tell him what would turn you on if he did it -this really spices up the evening. Make sure there's something in it for him. <b>Avoid Distractions:</b> Leave your cell phone at home or turn it off. Make a point of telling him that you've done so, to make him feel special. This way you also give him the subliminal message to do the same. This distraction can ruin an otherwise well-planned evening. And Most Importantly, <b>Be yourself!</b> The above points are just some general guidelines to help you -not a set of strict rules as every person is different. Make sure he gets to know the real you, so there are no surprizes later on. Yes, you may be risking not seeing him again, but do you really want to spend your life with someone who doesn't accept you as you are? <b>Tired of dating losers? How to Find the Man of your dreams How to Find the Man of your dreams</b>
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Problems that can Affect Dating
The technology explosion and the number of gadgets that are commonplace with everyone has given rise to a number of ways to communicate. But too much of a good thing can be bad , because with the myriad of ways to communicate, you have to decide about the best way to do so and [
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The present life Homer Simpson in photos!
From "The Simpsons," episode 19x09 which aired December 16, 2007. Homer mimics Noah's photo time lapse over 20 years. "PICTURE A DAY FOR 39 YEARS"
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Pregnancy the wife, brisk of daily photos!
I took a picture of my wife every other day and then animated them into a movie. You can watch the gestation happen in 20 seconds. Enjoy!
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Photos of beautiful models
As a fashion photographer and a diggnation fan, I thought that I could share with all listeners photos of some of the beautiful models I shoot, wearing the diggnation shirt. I started this project inspired on episode 57 of diggnation. I'll be posting twice a month I hope, so subscribe to the rss if you like it.Enjoy!
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When the Ex Keeps on Haunting You
New research has found those looking for love online should take their time in coming up with the perfect screen name. Apparently this is a means of maximizing digital appeal. Playful and flirtatious names such as “fun2bwith” or “i’msweet” were ranked top by both men and women daters as those they would most like [
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April 10, 2008
Breaking Up
(Online Dating News Blog) The creators of free online dating service OKcupid have created a new concept on online dating - blind dates. Last November the team launched a new service called Crazy Blind Date that allows people in select cities to meet up with others without seeing a picture or ever communicating with.
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Take Turns on Movie Dates
Money lost in Internet-related crimes hit a new high last year, topping about $240 million, according to a government report showing increases in scams involving pets, check-cashing schemes and online dating. The total lost jumped $40 million, according to the report released Thursday by the FBI and the National White Collar Crime Center. The report [
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Media Call - Parent whose kids are dating
Every date should be a chance for couples to celebrate each other’s presence in their lives. Or if you look at dates from the point of view of two individuals just starting out, each date should be a chance to get to know the other person a little better. There are lots of ways you [
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April 9, 2008
Online Sex: My Space or Yours?
Online chatting venues, from IRC to AOL MySpace, seem to have replaced the function of the gay bar and now provides a way for gay men to connect with other gay men. “Gay daters were some of the earliest, if not the first, to utilize the web for meeting potential partners. In the initial days [
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Finding a Date at Work
First impressions are important make them count...Ladies this is where a lot of men fail the test. Men pay close attention to what we are about to say here. Do not let your eyes wander around the room as your date is spilling her heart out to you. This is a definite way to not get a second date. You have asked for her time and she generously agreed to share her time with you so do not waste her time. Spend the time with her and do not shop for a better model while your out.
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April 8, 2008
How to be an Alpha Male
It is said by many dating gurus that being a cocky and funny male attracts women. These are known as alpha males. It is a known fact that both men and women are attracted to leadership. No one really likes a follower that can’t think for themselves. So how can being an alpha male benefit your dating life? Well, you will have to balance out your leadership. By being the strongly guided male with a strong set direction, you must also have a side to you that listens to the other person and connecting with them. Boasting about yourself and being comedic will only get you but so far. If you take time to listen to the girl, you will be able to figure out what she is about and how you can move on that. The combo of being the cocky/funny guy who listens will earn you major points with the ladies. This shows them that you are confident, yet easy going. Power attracts women, it is a known fact. Another option you will need to make is whether you want to be the nice guy or the jerk. By being too much of one of the above combos can leave you on either side. By being cocky and somewhat mean, you will be portrayed as the jerk and if you are quieter and listen often, you will be known as the nice guy. There is a problem with both scenarios. Being the nice guy can be a problem because while listening to the woman’s problems, you may get caught up in the woman’s emotions. When she is angry, you will be so as well and if she is sad, it will rub off on you. When she shows anxiety about becoming sexually involved with you, you will become anxious as well. This can make your romance with her a complete bust. Now, by being the jerk, you will be the headstrong guy that steps all over any and everybody to get where you’re trying to go, no matter who you hurt in the process; even the woman you’re trying to court. For a jerk to win others have to lose and no one wants to be a part of that option. It is important that you remain confident and strong about your decisions, but you must also take heart to what others are feeling and what they have to say. This will make you the ultimate guy to be around. You will be admired and desired by the lady you are dating or trying to date. By listening to the women you are trying to attract, you will earn points for being a nice guy and by staying strong and confident throughout the conversation will boost you up there with the jerk category, but they simply cancel each other out; making you the alpha male. Being a little of both is the way to go. You can be the joker and cocky guy, but you need to know when the joking stops and when the substance begins. You should also be open-minded at trying new things. Guys that aren’t afraid of taking risks attract even the hottest of women. This also goes for taking risks with women. Put yourself out there and women will surely scoop you up. Want to learn 50 WAYS for approaching, attracting and seducing women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson's 50 WAYS for approaching, attracting and seducing women which provides 50 tips for instant dating success.
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Dating at College
Fling Dating has to be the best site to meet women who think just like one of the guys. Last week while checking my fling.com messages I realized that Summer had left me a message. Summer was a girl I had met on Fling Dating a few weeks back. She’s so hot, she’s about 5’2” [
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Patience Pays Off Big for Dallas iPhone Fan.
DALLAS -- No doubt you've seen people all over the country who camped out for hours to get the hot new iPhone. So how did one local guy get the gadget AND eight crisp $100 bills to boot? FOX 4's Steve Noviello watched the money unfold.
This woman brought $16,000 to try and buy all of the iPhones at a store in Dallas to sell them on eBay. She pays a guy $800 for his first spot in line. Once the AT&T store opens, she is told there is a limit to how many she can get! The guy walks away with free iPhone.
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Bloodhound Gang - Ralph Wiggum
Bloodhound Gang song using nothing but Ralph Wiggum quotes.
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Outstanding Rap, for the same fellows!
A rap song by motherfuckin' Jon Lajoie.
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Intimacy Promotes Good Health
Love and intimacy are extremely important in relationships. Intimacy reinforces the bond between lovers and promotes undistracted communication both verbally and physically between partners. Spending time with your significant other on that level has all kinds of benefits.
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April 7, 2008
Individuality In A Relationship
There are three common factors all relationships should have. These factors are religion, finances, and a common lifestyle. Having these three beliefs in common are very important when the survival to a relationship is concerned. These major factors help a relationship survive, but having small differences in interest keeps a relationship from going stale. You don't want to get bored with each other. For instance, say you and him go every place side by side, you hear all the same jokes at the same time, you hang out with the same people, basically experiencing everything together. Now, you and him are home alone, and you have nothing to talk about. He's heard all the stories, and jokes. I mean, he was there too. Now, what are you two ever going to talk about? Now imagine you have the same interests, so you go and do the same activities together. You have the same hobbies. See where I'm going with this? If you and your man think, act, react, and know everything about each other, plus you know everything about each others lives, because you did it together. You can't possibly have an interest in each others lives. You're taking the surprises and excitement out of the relationship. You are now your partner, and your partner is you. It may seem like you are just trying to get away from your partner at first and it may hurt his feelings. In fact, it may hurt your feelings when he wants to go out without you, but let him. Stop being polite! Don't get me wrong, you always need to respect your partner, but it's OK to let both him and you have time to do your own things. If you trust your man, this shouldn't be a problem. If you don't trust your man, you should take a second look, and reevaluate your relationship before continuing on with this charade. It will be difficult at first, but you will thank me later. You and your man won't feel suffocated by each other, which is a major reason men opt out. You two need to be yourselves. If you're not yourselves, you can't possibly be happy. He and you will be much happier knowing you can still be yourself, and he'll respect you, and even love you more for it. However, it's never OK to do things that you couldn't tell him about later. BE TRUSTWORTHY! Don't take advantage of the situation. Oh, and always make sure you and him still have time as a couple. Especially, alone time so you and him can reconnect. You're going to need time to share all the interesting individual stuff you do when your apart. Plus, time to be in a relationship. You can't be a couple if you're never together. Respect you partner, and having your own lives as individuals will be pleasant and even healthy for your relationship. Now, go and sign up for my exclusive e-newsletter at www.abetterwaytolove.com so you don't miss out on "Keeping Your Individuality" coming soon. Along with more crucial relationship advice.
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Club 555 Online Video Dating
Since the invention of videotape video dating services have been offering video introductory clips for prospective singles. The concept was that you would visit the service's studio where you could have a video of yourself recorded and added to a library of introductory videotapes. While there at the service you could view video clips of other singles at a television and if you found someone interesting you could set up a date. Broadband service and faster, more powerful computers have changed the face of video dating while making it easier and more accessible.<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805564" height="1" width="1"/>
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Tips for Kindling Romance
Remember when you first met, how just being near him gave you butterflies in your stomach and each time he dropped you off at home you couldn't wait until you could hear his voice again? You'd wait for 10 minutes, 15minutes, or maybe 20 then call him to make sure he got home safely. Then over the next couple of hours you would talk about nothing and everything. It didn't really matter what was said it was just comforting to hear each other's voice- the sound of his voice to carry you into the next day where you would make plans to see each other again.
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April 6, 2008
Relationship Advice: You Choose the Best Years of your Life
In my work with women and relationships, I often help them through break ups. One of the most common lies I hear women tell themselves is, "I gave him the best years of my life." This is simply nonsense. The best is always yet to come, if you choose it to be. So, you are getting older by the minute and cannot reclaim your youth. But happiness is found in our experiences and our attitude, not our age. By learning how to attract and maintain a good relationship, you will have a happier future and avoid the heartache. Unfortunately, some people feel that our bad habits cannot be changed the older we get. We think over eating, falling into bad relationships or smoking become part of who we are and we blindly accept the often horrible consequences that accompany them. We've all heard people say, " I'm too old to quit smoking," or, "It's too late for me to regain my youthful figure." It is never too late and we are never too old to make the changes to better our future.
There was an 83 year old gentleman who was a part of my church who was homebound. With the encouragement of some members of the congregation, he was able to give up smoking, a habit he had for many years. With in a matter of weeks, he was out playing golf again, something he hadn't done in years! It's incredible what happens when someone decides that they are in control of their quality of life, and accept the support and knowledge necessary to make changes. The only unfortunate part is how long it took him to finally quit smoking. Think of the years he gave to his habit that kept him from enjoying life! The best years of anyone's life are not determined by age, even in relationships. A lady I know became single again.
She decided to continue to find ways to enjoy her life and continue on despite her heartache. Eventually she married again at the young age of 80, mainly because of her busy life and great attitude. She and her husband have a wonderful relationship, and enjoy riding their motorcycles, of all things! If people in their 80's are still dropping bad habits and finding themselves in meaningful relationships, you can do it too. It takes a good attitude, the right support, and knowledge of how to change. Your life is nothing less or better than what you make of it. You decide when to have the best years of your life, and you can always choose have the best yet to come. Healing from a break up? Choose to make your future relationship a happy one. Wendy Bridger, MSSW, can show you how to discover your break up and yourself in "Get the Right Guy for the Real You."
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