We’ve all heard stories and theories about cheaters and why they cheat. I’m more interested in the guy who doesn’t cheat. What is his secret? Is it religion? Does he have a lower sex drive? Or the opposite - a super hunger for his woman and his woman only? Does he lack opportunity? Does he possess the will of………well [
September 4, 2008
David Duchovny sex addiction did not result in an affair… riiiiiight…
A friend of mine found herself at the end of a relationship this week. She suspected that things were off and that a break-up was possibly in the near future, but when it happened, well her suspicions brought no comfort. This woman, she is really the total package, bright, funny, successful, creative, honorable, lovely, and a good friend [
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British couple gets booted from Dubai for “indulging”
There are a few tricks that I’ve learned over the years to help me when I’m feeling frustrated with work or home life. Two that I use fairly frequently are flexibility and perspective. Sure, I take a stand when necessary, but I’ve found that going with the flow, not trying to run every situation, works when I’m [
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Flexibility and Perspective - Two Tricks To Improve Your Relationship
There are a few tricks that I’ve learned over the years to help me when I’m feeling frustrated with work or home life. Two that I use fairly frequently are flexibility and perspective. Sure, I take a stand when necessary, but I’ve found that going with the flow, not trying to run every situation, works when I’m [
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September 2, 2008
Why Do Women Break Up With Men
Do you ever ask yourself the question, "Why do women break up with men?" Time and time again you will hear a man make the comment that his girlfriend or wife just broke up with him. And you'll question why, because he treated her fantastic and actually appeared to worship her. Did you ever hear that line "Nice guys finish last?" Well, there is a small amount of truth to that statement. Many adult females are not as self assured as they might be and any lady who is a little bit insecure will sometimes inquire why a really great guy would want her. So, if you appear to be head over heals in love with her, she will wonder what is wrong with you. Are all women like this? Nope, of course not! Many women have the self confidence to know what they want in a guy and they'll expect to be treated good or they'll get out of the relationship. But there are many women who tend to use the "grass is always greener" thought process. The finest guy for them is the guy just around a nook. So, what do you do if a woman breaks up with you for apparently no reason at all? The 1st thing you WON'T do is call her, text her or go visit her. She apparently took you for granted while you were together so let her have some time to miss you. Try not to act like you're desolate, but alternatively get back out in the world. Go out with acquaintances, go on dates if you like. Actually, dating is effective because you just might find a girl out there who has the self assurance to prize what you offer up. The real question you need to consider is if you genuinely want to be in a relationship with an insecure woman? Think about it. Is she genuinely worth it? If you absolutely think she's the one for you, then you need to give her a lot of time and space to grow up. Repairing a relationship is always possible if the trust is still there. It'squite likely that she'll call you if you haven't called her in awhile. Be friendly, but aloof. Don't share very much about your life. And don't inquire alot about hers. And cut the call short. The idea is to give her time to understand that you ARE the man of her pipe dreams. Basically, she's going to have to gain the right to have you for a boyfriend or lover. Let HER chase you, not the other way round. And if you ultimately let her get you, maintain a small of yourself back for a while. Remember, she's not sure what to do if you're genuinely nice, so don't give so much. Do I mean you should treat her bad? No way! Just keep a little more independent of her this time. If you truly want to save your relationship, these are the steps that can make it happen! <h1> </h1> If you'd like to learn more about Why Do Women Break Up With Men, please view the video on our website: Why Do Women Break Up With Men
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Oh no… Am I a “Cougar”?
Nice has the word "ice" in it and that's how she's going to feel toward you if you come off all nice and squishy. That is the fastest way to become a "friend" instead of a lover. Nice guys listen up because what we are about to clue you in on might change your dating life forever. Nature is an amazing force. All the animals in nature look for the strongest and most attractive mate to breed with. This assures the survival of the species by breeding out the weakest genes. This is the way that it is supposed to work so we don't want to reinvent the wheel but we do want to take advantage of what nature predicts the way that the female will react...<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805557" height="1" width="1"/>
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Must Love Kids: Single Moms Looking For Love Reality Show-style
This weekend I caught an episode of the show Must Love Kids on TLC. Basically a dating reality show, wherein three single moms meet single men, get to know them, and then see how they relate to their children. The show is on Saturdays at noon and they offer the first episode for online viewing. I caught [
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September 1, 2008
Breaking Up With Your Boyfriend Is Hard To Do
Are you wondering what's really going on with you when you keep selecting the wrong man again and again? The first thing to do is take action to make things better for yourself by not feeling foolish and upset up splitting up. We offer some advice to help you. Mr. Wrong is unique to every woman but mostly, he is the man who is generally out for himself. He is the man who does not consider it a priority to treat a woman with respect, who feels that it is alright to lie, even about the smallest thing. Most importantly, he is the man who does not allow himself to become fully committed to any relationship. Mr. Wrong has many qualities that make him attractive. He is so smooth, sexy, and knows just what to say to women. Women also are attracted to this type of man simply because he has pushed boundaries, experienced thrill, and maybe they supposedly need that in our lives. When you choose Mr. Wrong, sometimes you want to work hard to change what is wrong with the guy's character. Many woman believe that they can change him to from Mr. Wrong to Mr. Right. They put forth a great deal of effort into a relationship that is doomed from the start and sooner or later, they find out that the only effort being put into that relationship is that of the woman only. The relationship will initially start out great, because he wants to reel you in and get you hooked. Once hooked, you will find yourself lonely, constantly calling, wanting to be with him, without much of a return effort and time apart starts to grow. He is not as committed to the relationship as you are as he is not putting forth the same efforts, and you will start to resent this quickly. You can stop these type of one-sided relationships in your life when you realize how little emotional investment you are getting in return from Mr. Wrong. Make a list of the behaviors that hurt you and ask yourself if the benefits outweigh the downside of the relationship. After breaking it off, you can finally make yourself open for the right man by making a list of positive qualities you want in a man and a relationship. Many women wonder how they can discover a Mr. Right when they come into their lives. You will know when you are in his company that he makes you feel good about yourself because he shows respect and interest in what you think and believe. There's no lying and cheating, because this not the way he operates. When you are with the right man, you will both care about keeping your relationship together and you will both want to work on it, like most couples do. Breaking up with your Mr. Wrong boyfriend is the best thing you can do for yourself if you want a permanent relationship. Only then you can be ready and willing to let the right person to come into your life. <h1> </h1> You can recover breaking up with your boyfriend by making up the right way on your terms. Our researcher has reviewed three ebooks that will assist you to reunite with your ex on your terms. Maybe you may question breaking up with your boyfriend?
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7 Things Men (or Anyone, Really) Should Never Say On A First Date
Okay, so I’ve had a lot of first dates. There are a few things that well… while they shouldn’t be avoided completely (as in, no, this is not an excuse to lie to your potential mate) they don’t necessarily need to be brought up on a first date with a woman. Men tend to be [
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August 31, 2008
How to Get Social, Anytime, Anywhere
This is a problem that every person has at one time or another. Every person has experienced the funk before. When you are working on developing your social skills, you go out every night to improve. Unfortunately, some nights you will find yourself lost in the funk. What is the funk? Well we're not talking about the fun kind of funk. There's no parliament funkadelic here. We're talking about that horrible kind of funk, the funk you feel when you are standing on the side of a club or bar and not talking to anyone. You went out that night to get social, meet new people, get a girl, have a blast. Instead, your standing there like a loser and even worse, you're standing there thinking "Why am i just standing here like a loser?!" which only makes it WORSE. This is why the funk can be so deadly. It creates a self perpetuating cycle, where by contemplating the funk you are only increasing it. So how can you escape the dreaded funk?? It can be easier then you think. First you have to stop caring about the funk or you will never escape it. This is a key factor that's SO important. Just accept that you're within the funk, which will allow you to move passed it. So once you're done freaking out, and then accepting the funk, whats next? A simple visualization process is a great way to bust out of the dreaded funk. Remember that night that you were SO ON? EVERYTHING you said was funny, EVERYONE you met liked you, you had so much FUN, and then you went home with the girl you wanted. Those are the kinda nights we LOVE, and don't soon forget. You can utilize this past memory to make yourself feel great inside. While you're standin in the club, stuck in the dreaded funk, do this visualization process with your eyes open or shut (who care's if anyone looks, break out of the funk!!!). Visualize that guy standing right in front of you. That guy who was so awesome and fun, from that night when you were ON. See the energy radiating from him. See that energy as it hits everyone else in the room and they enjoy it, and in turn enjoy his presence. Create the full image of you, as this person who ROCKS, and really feel those feelings that you were feeling that night. Recall every bit of this awesome experience. When you have fully imagined the you who is ON, allow yourself to merge this projection with yourself. Take a deep breath as you do so and make it all a part of you. FEEL the empowerment of these FUN emotions. NOW GO. GO TALK TO SOME PEOPLE. Go and just enjoy the moment. Even after the visualization, you might not be fully ON yet. Don't worry about it, just go and talk to some people and before you realize it, you will be! Till next time Mad Dawg <h1> </h1> Mad Dawg is a seductionist who specializes in teaching men how to meet, attract, and seduce beautiful women. Learn more at: http://www.LearnHowToSeduceWomen.com
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August 30, 2008
Romantic Body Language Which Attracts Women
Body language is something that everyone uses, both purposefully and inadvertently, to gauge how much someone is interested in them. Many people fail to realize what they are doing themselves, however, when it comes to romantic body language. Being able to control your romantic body language and making sure that your body language is perfect can help you to make a great first impression on someone that you like. By following these simple romantic body language tips, you will be able to control your body language to give you the best results possible; in the process, you may also understand the body language of the person that you are talking to. #1- Stand Close, but not too Close Body language is important, and romantic body language relies heavily on how close you are too someone. It is possible, however, to get too close to someone, and ruin the romantic body language chemistry altogether. By checking yourself to make sure you are the right distance apart, you can make sure that you are giving off the correct romantic body language. There is a certain rule that is easy to follow; if you are more than an arm’s length apart, you are too far from someone. Being too far from someone gives off the vibe that you are uninterested. In that same light, know when you are too close. Personal space is important, so be sure to find the comfortable balance between too far and too close. Finding somewhere halfway between is always a good call when trying to give off romantic body language. #2- Copy Their Body Language to a Point Unconsciously, someone who is interested in another will copy their body language. By copying someone’s body language to a point, you can be sure to send signals of romantic body language without being rude. This does not mean that you should recreate every single gesture they make; this will be seen as rude. If you mimic small body language cues, however, such as an open body, the closeness, or smiling, you can show that you are as interested as they are. #3- Position your Body Toward Them There is nothing worse than trying to talk to the side of someone. By opening your body up to the person you are talking to, you are giving off romantic body language that can help the person to know that you are indeed interested in them. #4- Make Eye Contact, and Blink Often Making eye contact is easily one of the most romantic body language signals that exist. By making eye contact, you are making sure that they realize that you are into them, and that you are listening. By blinking often, you are giving off what is considered an unconscious romantic body language signal. If you want someone to know that you are into them without being blunt, romantic body language is the way to go. While many romantic body language signals are unconscious, you can use them, and be aware of them, to use them to your advantage. <h1> </h1> Want to learn 50 PROVEN WAYS for approaching, attracting and seducing women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson's 50 PROVEN WAYS which provides 50 tips for instant dating success.
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How To Heal A Broken Heart
A friend of mine found herself at the end of a relationship this week. She suspected that things were off and that a break-up was possibly in the near future, but when it happened, well her suspicions brought no comfort. This woman, she is really the total package, bright, funny, successful, creative, honorable, lovely, and a good friend [
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“Other” Announcements
Do you think that women are the only ones asking the question, “Do these pants make me look fat?” I did and apparently I was only part right. While reading an opinion piece, by Mike Zimmerman, on Male Body Image in Women’s Health Magazine, I learned that they do worry about [
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August 29, 2008
Help: He’s a Bad Kisser
Got weekend plans? Looking for a good bargain? eHarmony is having a free communication weekend, this weekend 8/29/08-9/01/08. To find out more about the free weekend, click on eHarmony - User Registration. Take the time to fill out the questions carefully. Answer as honestly as possible, how you really feel, not how [
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Let the Music Move You
Ah yes, the question all us single gals just love to hear from friends and family members… “When is it YOUR turn?” Well, I came to the decision that since I’ve come to a decision… a plan, perhaps… that I was no longer going to just shrug my shoulders and say, “Whenever Mr. Right comes [
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August 28, 2008
7 Amazing Tips on How to Maintain a Healthy and Happy Interracial Relationship
Relationships are hard. Each and every single one of them, everywhere, and with everybody. Inter-racial relationships are even harder. This is mainly because of the values and cultural differences as well as stereotypes. However, that does not mean that these relationships never work. In fact, many people have made their inter-racial relationships work, and have lasted quite happily. Often, we find ourselves not knowing what to do when it comes to relationships. In these instances, we need a good sign or road map to help us on our way better. If you are indeed feeling lost, and you are engaged in an inter-racial relationship, then you might find the following information helpful. These are a few tips on how to maintain a healthy inter-racial relationship. 1.Remember the basics Remember that you want the relationship, and that you want it to work. Sometimes problems and obstacles can cause the person to forget why he or she is in the relationship. Re-affirming to yourself that this is the person you want to be with allows you to remember the many reasons why you are in the relationship with the person. 2.Accept your differences in religion More often than not, religion between two races is different. When people of different faiths enter a relationship, the main key for a relationship to survive is to respect each other's religion and perhaps tread a bit lightly as there might be some topics that could hit raw nerves without you meaning to. 3.Stand up for you and your partner Sometimes, situations arise wherein some people feel uncomfortable with interracial relationships. These are people who cannot help but stare at you on the street. Obviously, these people should know better, but nobody is perfect. When these instances come up, stand up for yourself, your partner, and your relationship. Do not be ashamed to love each other openly and proudly. 4.Talk about your expectations As the general rule in any relationship, communication is the key. In this case, you should be open to your partner as to what you expect from the relationship and from your partner. People often differ with regards to their expectations and getting things out would clear out any details that might cause conflict between the two of you in the future. 5.Open your mind A different race means a whole new culture. A different culture means new language, new music, new food, and as mentioned previously, new religion. Perhaps the worst thing you can do is to insult your partner's culture just because it is not the same as what you are accustomed to. Still, nobody is forcing you to do things you do not want to. However, if you find yourself wanting to please him or her, try to be a bit open minded and try out some things. Chances are your partner will not push you to do things that are too extremely different. Go slowly and ease into things. 6.Strive to understand Different races are often faced with different issues and problems that sometimes you might not be able to comprehend. That is completely okay. However, it is not okay or advisable to disregard your partner's problems. Having him or her open up and talk about the things that are bothering him or her would help you see his or her point of view. Who knows? You might be able to pitch in and help solve the problem. 7.Let your instincts lead the way This might sound a bit simple, but there is much truth to this as, more often than not, your gut instinct is correct. If you sense something wrong about your relationship and you think that it does not feel right, then it may be best to end it. And if your instincts tell you that you should make the next step, then chances are that you have found a genuine relationship. Unfortunately, society does not yet accept interracial relationships fully, and this is one of the major things that can affect a relationship. Although interracial couples face a multitude of obstacles, their love for one another will help them survive condemnation by some members of society. By taking note of the tips mentioned above, partners in an interracial relationship should be able to create a stable core in their togetherness that would take even the strongest of winds to knock down. Being solid and prepared for certain scenarios will help the couple deal with unpleasant and potentially harmful situations when they happen. <h1> </h1> Clarence Lee has been providing online dating services to the public for years. His Dating Legend website offers free singles personals and free adult dating services to its USA, European and Asian members. Visit TODAY => http://www.datinglegend.com
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