Have Any Man Falling Head Over Heels For You

Some women think that it is hard to win a man's heart, yet others find it as easy as walking on a summers day. What is the difference between the two? One of them has mastered the subtle art of seduction, they know how to communicate with the guy subconsciously so that he responds to her without thinking that she is doing anything at all. These methods are not unethical or even devious, they are just genuine ways to communicate that will help you in every aspect of life. It is true that we only communicate a small part of what we mean in what we say, the other part is in our body language and this can be saying the complete opposite to what we say verbally. Men are dumb to body language, women are 10 times more receptive to it so they take it for granted that a man should know what her signals say. But by using stronger signals and by watching for what signals he is giving, then you can achieve your goal. How you sit, where you sit, where you look and how you use your arms and your eyes can make the difference between a date that is awkward and going poorly to a date where that "magic" seems to become like electricity in the air. Watch others as they talk to each other. You can tell when a woman is closed off from a man. She sits slumped back, her arms crossed and head tilted down. Any posture that looks like you are blocking the man from knowing you is sending a hostile message to the guy. If you want to communicate trust and openness then put on a small smile, lean towards him and listen as he talks. When he thinks he has your full attention he will be more open with you and appreciate your company much more. Also pay attention to your hands, are they under the table, are your arms crossed? If you put your hands on the table then you are inviting him to come to you so he knows you want to get to know him better. As the evening progresses, never miss the chance to engage in incidental contact. Little touches between you and your date establish an intimacy between you that is subtle but quickly lowers barriers between you and him. You can touch his hand lightly when you laugh, lean into him when talking like you are sharing secrets or even whisper in his ear. That whisper is one of the most powerful gestures of intimacy there is before you actually enter into a romantic relationship with a guy and it is something very hard for a man to resist. Another way to create a subconscious connection is to subtly mirror his posture. It is a well known that we tend to mirror the body language of people when we are in agreement with them. So if he has his hands on the table you gently put yours on the table, if he likes to play with his glass then you do too. You need to be careful to do it subtly, make sure you don't copy him straight away or he will feel you are mocking him! But with practice you can ease yourself into his good books by appearing to be the same as him so he feels more comfortable with you. You can also take it a step further and emulate the way he talks. I don't mean copy his accent or he will think you are mocking him. But watch the way he talks, does he talk gently or loudly? Does he talk for long bursts and then stop or in little segments? You can then take his lead and copy his style, again he will feel a bond with you but won't know why... you will be gently creating the 'click' that happens on a great date. These tips are proven ways to get a guy to open up to you so you can see the true man underneath all those nerves and barriers. These are valuable skills to have at any stage of the relationship so you can get your guy to open up about what is bothering him, or read his body language when other women are around! Watch this video to get creative dating ideas.