Ways to Seduce a Man - Dress for Success

In my first article of this series: Ways to Seduce a Man - Smell Right, or Fail Miserably! I emphasized the importance of the most primitive of our senses. First, you must smell pleasing to the man you want to seduce. Moving on with the senses, let's take a look at the second most important one: Sight (eye-candy for the gentleman). Take a good look in the mirror and think to yourself, What have I got that this man will like about me physically? At this point I must stress that your opinion of yourself may be too high or low to be objective, but you must try and put yourself in his shoes and think like he would think. Unlike a lot of women, men usually think about sex first, not romance, fine dining, etc., although they know that if they want sex, they'll have to jump through some hoops to get it and gladly accept the challenge if the woman is of their liking. It's all part of the seduction game ...and if you both do it right, it will be a lot of fun for both of you! If the man you're after is really worth it, you are probably looking for a long-lasting, loving relationship, so you have to know what he likes to see to be able to give him just enough to want more. Spend some time observing him without his knowing about it. What part of women's bodies does he admire most? This won't take you too long to figure out because men are women watchers -it's not our fault. For most of us, women are nature's greatest invention. It's a subconscious reaction that we cannot control and a great advantage for you. Now, I'm not saying that men are sex-fiends and perverts, it's just something normal and natural in men. Now apply what you've learned to yourself. If he likes bigger breasts, for example, make sure you leave just enough cleavage so he'll notice yours. If he likes to look at behinds, make sure you wear something that will compliment yours. ...But don't dress like a call girl -leave those things for the bedroom, he'll love it because you're saving yourself for him. Teasing is better, it shows you've got class. Leaving your body on blatant exposition makes you look like you're desperate for attention. Even if you try this and he finally notices you this way, the relationship probably won't last very long, because you played your cards wrong. You want him to respect you. On a formal date, traditional men prefer women to wear: -slight, tastefully done makeup (get professional advice to see what looks best on you if in doubt). Avoid plastering it on at all cost. -dresses as opposed to trousers, jeans or one piece suits (although there are exceptions depending on his tastes) -high heels -if your hair is long, let it down. -small graceful earrings as opposed to bigger ones -avoid big, bulky bracelets, necklaces and other compliments which will distract his attention from you. The main idea is to compliment your body, not substitute it. Let him see the improved YOU, not a desperate attempt to look like Cindy Crawford. Be honest with yourself and get as much professional advice as you can. Make sure most of this advice is from objective sources, not someone who's desperate to make a sale. And remember, you are unique. There has never been anyone exactly like you on the planet and there never will be. Help the man you're after to SEE it. <b>Tired of dating losers? Ways to Seduce a Man - Smell Right, or Fail Miserably! Ways to Seduce a Man - Smell Right, or Fail Miserably!</b>