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October 31, 2008
3 Tips to Earn a Second Chance with Your Ex
Your boyfriend or girlfriend has left you, leaving you wondering what to do next. You realize you don't want to be in this sort of predicament but you don't know where to start to get out of it. Can you even fix those mistakes that drove your ex away in the first place? You can get your ex back so long as you have a plan and the attitude to get the task accomplished. What should you need to know first? Determine how you ended up alone. If you want to get your ex back, you need to know what kind of mistakes sent your ex packing. You need to understand apologizes won't fix up your problems...although it is a start. If you want to know how to really fix your relationship, you need to know how to begin. Below are three ideas that can help you to succeed in winning over your ex so you can have another shot at the relationship. The three ideas, in no certain order, are: no contact, avoid harassing your ex and organize an attack plan to win him or her back. By following these simple tasks, you'll soon find the situation better than before or possibly getting them to talk to you about why you deserve another chance. Cut Off Contact While you may think cutting off contact with your ex is a bad thing, it is, in fact, the best thing for all involved. When you breakup, especially when relationships have lasted for some time, emotions are running rampant. By allowing some time to pass and some space between the both of you, emotions will settle down and both of you will be able to talk calmly about what was amiss in the relationship. This is also the time for him or her to miss you. Avoid Harassing your Ex You may feel the urge and impulse to call or harass your ex while you are in a state of depression. Such things are called drunken dialing and text message terrorism. By doing this, you break the no contact rule and mess up any chance of winning back your ex. It makes him or her glad that they moved on without you. If you keep it up, he or she will eventually stop taking your phone calls and may even change their number. You will also be labeled as the psycho ex amongst your mutual friends. Organize an Attack Plan During your time apart, put together a plan that aims at you winning back your ex. Not having a plan leaves you wandering aimlessly at restoring the relationship. If you don't have this plan in place, it may be best to avoid him or her until you settle on some sort of one. Why is this no contact rule so important? Understand that everyone needs time away from each other. If you can't fix yourself or discover the issues that were plaguing the relationship the first time around, you have to know it won't work a second time. This month long hiatus is really for your benefit as well as your ex. If you can get your ex back, then it's imperative to know what went wrong. Put every effort forth in fixing the relationship if that is what you want to do. Never forget though how important having a plan is. It may seem like you are walking on eggshells in the beginning and in some sense, you are. Though things may seem calmer, it is still wise to walk in with a plan in mind and not stumbling through the relationship with no idea what to say or how to act. If you can get your ex back, you need to cover all your bases. <h1> </h1> Teecee Go writes articles focusing on helping people save their marriage and anyone treasure relationship dearer. Here are the best books related to it at BreakupCures.com Need a second chance with your ex? The fact is thousands have benefited by visiting BreakupCures.com
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Sometimes It’s Easier Being Single
I had the kind of day that I refer to as A Day. It was busy, busy, and I was running on very little sleep. For the past 5 weeks, I’ve been unable to communicate with my boyfriend. (He lives in the next state). He did not answer the phone, did not answer an email, and [
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Fling.com Dating
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October 30, 2008
Roses for my Online Date
(Online Dating News Blog) Ann and Jeff met on an online dating service and after a few dates together it looked like true love could be in the making. Only three weeks after first meeting in person, Ann’s 24th birthday arrived and Jeff (28 years old) wanted to do something that would impress her and [ <img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/OnlineDatingNewsBlog/~4/278953491" height="1" width="1"/>
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Another Free eHarmony Weekend
According to a recent article in the online edition of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, when presented with a choice, men chose the woman wearing red or framed in red over other color choices. When asked which woman they would spend more money on during the course of a date, the men chose the [
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Nivea Kiss Commercials
First impressions are important make them count...Ladies this is where a lot of men fail the test. Men pay close attention to what we are about to say here. Do not let your eyes wander around the room as your date is spilling her heart out to you. This is a definite way to not get a second date. You have asked for her time and she generously agreed to share her time with you so do not waste her time. Spend the time with her and do not shop for a better model while your out.<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805560" height="1" width="1"/>
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October 29, 2008
A Bad Boyfriend Could Lead To Heart Attack
College, like high school is a stressful time, but it is not as bad as high school and the fear of rejection is much lower. In college, there are much more mature people who are not going to make fun of you through your years there simply because you were rejected by a girl. [
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Financial Compatibility: How Important Is It to You?
While looking around Pretty Social the other day, I found this link - Listen Up Ladies: Would You Date this Man? at For the Love of Blush, Cake & Romance. A few days later, I saw the same post listed with very few responses in the comment section. Surprised me, as the guy is pretty cute and [
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October 28, 2008
The Grown-Ups Guide To Avoid Cheating
While looking around Pretty Social the other day, I found this link - Listen Up Ladies: Would You Date this Man? at For the Love of Blush, Cake & Romance. A few days later, I saw the same post listed with very few responses in the comment section. Surprised me, as the guy is pretty cute and [
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October 27, 2008
Breaking Bad Habits: Comparing Yourself to Others
Fling Dating has to be the best site to meet women who think just like one of the guys. Last week while checking my fling.com messages I realized that Summer had left me a message. Summer was a girl I had met on Fling Dating a few weeks back. She’s so hot, she’s about 5’2” [
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October 26, 2008
How To Get Started Getting Your Ex Back
Although it's something none of us relish, occasionally relationships go through tough times and sometimes they're so tough that the two people involved need to go their separate ways. Sometimes there is extremely just cause, but sometimes it's simply baffling how something that was once so good could suddenly get so bad that it's over. At times like these the last thing a person wants to hear is that they may have actually had a part in the breakup, especially if it happened during a rather heated argument or during a very tense situation. However, it really doesn't matter who is wrong or who is right after the break up is over because it's clear that both of you were losers as a result of that situation. After a couple of days, couple of weeks or however long it takes for you to cool down even a little the feeling that you want to get back together with your ex will no doubt surface. This can even happen if you're still mad at him/her too. Inevitably, you'll want to get back together or at the very least try to start patching things up. The biggest obstacle to being able to do that is your own pride or your own sense that you were right and you're not going to back down from your stance. This is often where reconciliations either can't get off the ground or they outright fail, one or both of the people involved fail to see and take responsibility for their part in the problems that caused the break. So the very first step you need to take in getting your ex back is to take a hard look at yourself, the situation and the part you played in it. In the long run, unless cheating or deep deception was involved, does it really matter who was exactly right in the first place? No, it doesn't and that's particularly so if remaining stuck on yourself is going to be the hurdle that keeps the two of you apart. I'm not saying to take one hundred percent of the blame. That's not the key, the key is that both of you come clean with yourselves that you could have handled the situation better and compromised a little of each of your stances to find a common middle ground. After all, isn't compromise one of the keys to keeping a successful relationship long term? Yes, it is. Now, take that first step and look inside yourself to see exactly how you could've handle the situation better and then come to terms with it. Once you've done that, you'll have shown you're ex that you're willing to give a little of your 'self' if he/she is willing to give a little of him/herself and you could easily be on your way to not only getting your ex back but also preventing this same situation from happening again. With the right plan and by following some rather simple tips and techniques you might be pleasantly surprised at how simple it really is to Get Your Ex Back. Even situations that seem hopeless can be resurrected. Get started today by taking a look at : Get Your Ex Back.
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Sidebar Poll: If you could pick one dating site to use, which would it be?
While looking around Pretty Social the other day, I found this link - Listen Up Ladies: Would You Date this Man? at For the Love of Blush, Cake & Romance. A few days later, I saw the same post listed with very few responses in the comment section. Surprised me, as the guy is pretty cute and [
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October 25, 2008
Our Final Blogtoberfest Winner!!
Image by Henry8.0 via FlickrSince I’m a woman, I can’t say what men hate to see in a woman’s dating site profile, but I sure can tell you what I can’t stand to see in a guy’s profile. This list is by no means exhaustive, complete, or in any particular order. “I like a woman who [
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Miscellaneous ramblings of a frustrated heart
While looking around Pretty Social the other day, I found this link - Listen Up Ladies: Would You Date this Man? at For the Love of Blush, Cake & Romance. A few days later, I saw the same post listed with very few responses in the comment section. Surprised me, as the guy is pretty cute and [
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October 24, 2008
Winner, winner, chicken dinner! Another winner in the Blogtoberfest Giveaway!
While looking around Pretty Social the other day, I found this link - Listen Up Ladies: Would You Date this Man? at For the Love of Blush, Cake & Romance. A few days later, I saw the same post listed with very few responses in the comment section. Surprised me, as the guy is pretty cute and [
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Would You Date This Man?
While looking around Pretty Social the other day, I found this link - Listen Up Ladies: Would You Date this Man? at For the Love of Blush, Cake & Romance. A few days later, I saw the same post listed with very few responses in the comment section. Surprised me, as the guy is pretty cute and [
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October 23, 2008
Brett Is A Dope
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October 21, 2008
Some First Steps On How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back
One of the most painful things to ever happen to a person it seems is to have that special person in their life tell them that it's time they go their separate ways. If this is something that has recently happened to you, or has happened to you in the past you know what I'm talking about. Almost immediately it can be like a stick of dynamite has exploded in your chest and left your heart scattered about in a million pieces. A lot of guys won't admit that's how they feel, you know because of the whole manly stereotype and all, but I'm fairly confident that's exactly how the 'manly' gender actually does feel even though admittance may be a long ways off. See, that's one of the main problems right there when it comes to getting your ex girlfriend back, you're stuck on yourself and she knows it. With that said, one of your first steps is going to have to be to come to terms with those feelings your having. You need to admit to yourself that it's okay to be having them and that they're actually there to help you along your way. In a sense, they're a good thing because they're telling you that this breakup with your girlfriend is nowhere near being in alignment with where you want to be aligned. Before you do anything else, before you call her or text her or whatever, you need to come to terms with how you're feeling. By accepting them and understanding that it doesn't make you any less 'manly' to feel them, it will help you move to the next step of getting your ex girlfriend back. That next step is just as difficult because it's a patience game at a time when you feel there is a real need for action. You need to let those high strung emotions and feelings run their course before you make any attempt at reconciling with your ex. If you don't, you run the risk of coming off as desperate or needy or even worse she may feel that you're unstable and have crossed over to being stalker material. All of those things exude negativity and any type of negativity at this point only serves to push her further away rather than pull her closer to you. Those two steps will go a long way to helping you take the right, positive steps on your way to getting back together with your ex girlfriend. <h1> </h1> With the right plan and by following some rather simple tips and techniques you might be pleasantly surprised at how simple it really is to Get Your Ex Back. Even situations that seem hopeless can be resurrected. Get started today by taking a look at : Get Your Ex Back.
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Rant: Horrid things men say in their dating site profiles.
Image by tony sak via FlickrSomeone asked this question on the forums over at PlentyOfFish, so I thought I’d take it a little deeper here. Sometimes it’s hard to comprehend “real” romantic love for some people. Especially once you’ve been really hurt, deceived, or abused by someone you felt strong love for at one point. [
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October 20, 2008
Men and Women - Are We Really That Different?
Are you a fan of hot guys? Well, then check out the Hot Guys of 2008 at Cosmopolitan.com. You can chose to look by state or take a quiz to see which of Cosmos hot guys is for you. After looking over the list, don’t forget to vote for Bachelor Of the Year. You know, pretty as these boys are, not [
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October 18, 2008
Get the Best Date For Yourself at Online Dating Service
Well, are you single and ready to mingle, if it’s true, do check out the best free online dating services service that ensures you meet your dream date on the Internet with a click of the mouse. With the arrival of Internet, there has been a huge increase in online dating site, where any one can choose the best date without venturing out from the home. With the online dating site, one does not need to dress up and visit places to know the best date. All you require is an Internet connection and a membership to any online dating site of your choice. While making the use of dating format, all you need is to fill your personal details such as name, age, sex, and your ideal partner. Apart from it, one can mention one’s likes, dislikes, preferences and various other things that give a complete sketch of an individual. While furnishing all these personal details on the online dating site, ensure that the web master ensures full safety of personal information thereby reducing the chances of any possible misuse. If you wish to make use of Christian dating sites, you can have both paid and free dating websites where you can search your date. In the paid dating sites, the single dating members have to pay an annual fee in order to access the dating service. In case of free dating service, one is virtually free from any payment and can easily check out the free online dating service. While the paid service ensures fully secured database in terms of personal information, one cannot be assure of free dating websites. For New Yorkers who wish to choose a local dating partner, one can make use of New York dating service and find the best partner that suits his/her compatibility. There are numerous benefits of online dating as it offers quick solution for single dating where one has the opportunity to choose his/her date. With dedicated chat and dating rooms, one has the opportunity to interact with prospective date and know more about its likes and dislikes. This will give you a clear idea about your date in an easy way. If you feel that the person to whom you are talking is not compatible, one is free to say goodbye amicably on online dating site. To make sure that one finds the best date, it is essential to make the use of dating service until one finds the best date. Once you feel that you have a certain comfort level while talking with the online dating friend, you can carry on with you relations and meet formally to know each other in a better way. For all who are looking for innocent flirtation, online dating service is the best format where one flirt with partners without hurting any one. While making the use of dating service, always make sure you commit in relations only when you believe in them. Do not dally with anyone’s emotions on single dating. An innocent pleasure does not mean that you can take someone’s advantage and play with his or her emotions. Enjoy online dating and choose your date partner with great care on free online dating service as it a crucial decision. Hi, My name is Wang Fei, I’m SEO experts & dedicated to Free Personals, Christian dating, Single Dating, New York Dating, Online Dating Site, Free Online Dating Services. For dating advice, Blog, reviews & stories visit http://www.findbestdating.com
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It’s Not My Fault
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October 17, 2008
What is the Latest on Free on Line Dating Sites to Find Love?
<span class="cap">T</span>his article will discuss free on line dating sites and what may be new in this area of online dating to find love and how to find these sites. How popular are these sites? Free on line dating sites have become extremely popular in recent years. More and more people are turning to the internet in order to find a date or love. There are millions of people that use these sites every day, and you can become one of them. These sites are easy to find. Simply do a web search with the term and discover how many hits that you can find with this information. It then is a matter of choice as to which one or which ones that you choose to affiliate with and sign up with in order to find a date. What is new with these sites? Free on line dating sites are constantly evolving. Some sites now include instant messaging in order to expedite communication between parties. There are also some sites that have fun things to do on them, such as quizzes, groups and things such as that. This is just one of the modifications that can be found on some of these sites. Another thing is that offering different ways for a first communication between parties on site. Still others will offer advice and horoscopes as part of their site. With all the fun sites and fun things to do, you will be hard pressed to find something more fun to do. Are there any fees to these sites? Free on line dating sites do have fees, but that is in regards to a premium account that each free site offers. You do not have to have a premium account in order to enjoy all the benefits and privileges that a free site offers. These sites make their reputation by being good free sites so that others can connect without all the fees associated with other sites that have a subscription fee to them. This is one of the benefits of joining one of these sites. This is one reason why these sites are so popular with most people on the internet. Can I find someone to date on these sites? These free on line dating sites offer you the chance to find someone to date and to have a relationship with. You can find someone to date online. It just takes time and patience in order to find the right person for you. No matter if you like sweet, romantic people or someone that will make you laugh, you will be able to find someone online for you to date and to possibly make a relationship with. These things do take time, so take your time and explore your options for finding that special someone for a special relationship for you. How do I get started? Finding a free online dating site is easy to do. By searching the internet and using a search engine, you will be able to find many different sites that are for dating or find love. By exploring each one, you will have some idea of what one of these sites has to offer you in the way of potential dates and mates. While each one is different, they all have the same idea in mind. And that is to get you a date or a mate. These sites thrive on making matches. They have replaced the old fashioned matchmaker with an electronic version. Now that you have the information that you need about Free On Line Dating or On Line Dating, why don’t you surf on over to http://www.online-dating-service-sg.com for more information on this electronic way to date in the best free sites.
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What his favorite superhero can tell you.
Image by tony sak via FlickrSomeone asked this question on the forums over at PlentyOfFish, so I thought I’d take it a little deeper here. Sometimes it’s hard to comprehend “real” romantic love for some people. Especially once you’ve been really hurt, deceived, or abused by someone you felt strong love for at one point. [
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October 16, 2008
6 Steps to Bring Back Your Ex
An unwanted breakup can make even a sane person crazy. Breaking up with someone you love causing so much heartbreak and chaos. If you are a person who is quite level headed, a breakup can turn you into a forgetful, nutty person. If all you want is your ex back in your arms, then you need to keep that level head at a time when life brings you sour grapes. It’s really isn’t hard to do. If you want you ex back in your arms, then there are 6 things to keep in mind. - First, stay away from your ex for a period of time. A month will do. Though it does not seem likely, keeping out of contact with him or her for that month can do you more good than harm. A short separation can leave you a better chance to get your ex back in your arms. - Second, Hollywood is not real life. Only you can fix your problems. Hollywood shows friends bailing out and taking care of their friends’ problems or the person’s ex coming back to them out of nowhere. Count only on yourself because only you know for sure what you want and what you need. Those negative feelings you have about yourself need to be pushed aside. Motivate yourself to do better than others in your shoes. - Third, there is no reason you don’t have to depend on someone else. Just don’t depend on them constantly and to fix everything for you. Your family and friends can help you out spiritually, emotionally and psychology. Spend time with those who want the best for you and love you. By the time that month is over, you are likely to be in better shape to get your ex back. - Fourth, forget depressing, sad feelings. Take that month long break as a time to work on yourself in every way including getting your life back to the way it was before you met your ex. Self improvement strategies should be done at this time when you don’t have to answer to anyone. If you can make over you, it’s the best thing to do to when you want your ex back. - Fifth, do not think your ex can fix your relationship. No, a happy ending for you comes from you and a plan you have established. Don’t rely on anyone but yourself when you want your ex back. You alone are the best advantage to have. - Lastly, if you think that time heals all wounds, you are only partially right. Keep in mind it won’t fix all of your problems. Problems do not go away on their own by doing nothing. Any problems that were plaguing the relationship that lead to the breakup should never creep up on you two again. For many people, letting go of the past can be difficult but it needs to be done if you want your ex back. By not doing this, it means you are not ready for the relationship you have in your midst. <h1> </h1> Teecee Go writes articles focusing on helping people save their marriage and anyone treasure relationship dearer. You can find helpful information at BreakupCures.com You can learn how to Bring Back Your Ex using the unconventional method. The fact is thousands have benefited by visiting BreakupCures.com
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We Have a Winner!
Everyone has heard the old adage, “Gentlemen prefers blondes,” right? Well, apparently that is not the case. According to a case study conducted by researchers from Florida State University, men prefer women with long, thick, dark hair. It’s biological, the brunette is seen as the healthier female, the most likely mate. Part of the study consisted of one woman in different colored [
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Ladies: Avoid this mistake like the plague!
Have you ever watched The Girls Next Door? It’s a show on E! Entertainment television featuring three young Playboy models who are Hugh Hefner’s girlfriends. I’ve watched the show a few times and I like the girls. They have an interesting relationship with Hefner. They are his girlfriends, but there doesn’t appear to be any sort of sexual spark [
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October 15, 2008
10 Ways To Pick Up Women
<span class="cap">P</span>icking up a woman tends to be easy and fun when you are at the right place and at the right time. Here are the ways to pick up a woman to help the alpha males on their dating and love life. 1. Go to the right place. The usual places for men to pick up women are the clubs, bars and disco houses. Whether you are going alone or with friends, make sure to choose a nice, safe and well-known place. You don’t necessarily have to opt for the most expensive, but consider researching and asking trusted people on the best hang-outs that’s best to pick-up a woman. 2. Chose the right girl. I know that it’s hard, but I’ll try to make it easier for you. Once you enter the place, you will probably have a lot of “potential targets” to choose from. Find someone and examine them from afar. Are they alone? Well, it may or may not be a good sign. You’re lucky if she’s alone. But she might be waiting for someone else on the other hand. Is she with her friends or with a group of people? Don’t loose hope; there will always be a great chance that her companions will leave the table to dance/go to restroom and stuff. Notice of she looks bored or unhappy. This will be a great opportunity for you to get her attention. 3. Practice the art of flirting. The best way a stranger can notice you is to suggest that you are attracted to her through body language flirting. Use the eye contact test. If you catch her trading glances with you, that is your cue to get off your ass and approach. It’s a clear sign that she finds you attractive and she wants you to approach her. 4. Approach her and introduce yourself. And by that, I mean properly. Just because the place is not formal, you should make an effort to introduce yourself in a striking and intelligent manner. Ask her casual questions, like if she’s having fun but avoid buying her a drink! Only beta males buy drinks for women right off the bat. 5. Avoid cheesy and blunt pick-up lines. Using pick-up lines is probably the most widely used way to pick up a woman. A girl can smell a fake from a mile away. Opt for casual questions and ice breakers. Smile and make eye contact. 6. Be a good conversationalist. Talk to her in a way that she will find you interesting, funny and sincere. Inject humor, teasing, curiosity and seriousness in your conversation. Take advantage of this opportunity to get to know her better and learn a lot of new things as well. 7. Mind your manners. Everyone’s attracted to a gentleman. Try to leave a good impression by being polite, interested and appropriate. If you ask her to dance, respect her decision if she declines. If she says yes, dance with grace and leave the body grinding for another time. 8. When things get more a little more serious and comfortable suggest a less quite place where you both can sit down and talk. The best way to pick up a woman, as they say, is to gain her trust and make her feel at ease with you. 9. Compliment her. The trick is not to be like everyone else. Don’t compliment her beauty! Every other guy does that and she’s heard it a million times. Find something unique and compliment her on that. 10. Remember that picking up women needs practice. It’s a numbers game and there will always be a time where you will get rejected. Accept it and learn from your mistakes. Discover how to be irresistible to women by using these <span style="color:blue;text-decoration:underline;"> seduction techniques</span>. Sign up for our free mini course and start using these seduction secrets you can use tonight at http://www.datingreviewworld.com/seductionsecrets.
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Irritable Male Syndrome
Image via WikipediaAlright, this is one of those “in hindsight…” posts. As you should know by now, I broke off a horrible relationship not too long ago (okay, it was three months ago) but sometimes I find myself feeling like it was ages ago. Our first major MAJOR fight (as we had many fights our [
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October 14, 2008
How To Manage Your "Intimate Relationships"
Being stressed over internal relationship situations is very common. If the situation with your partner is bothering you?, then there are several things you can do to make things better. Sometimes the cause of problems between the partners are not personal issues, but rather outside issues. Such as work, social, economic problems. Not only do you feel irritated, but constant work pressure can lead us to ignore people we love. But before we step into the bitter, cranky zone we need to understand a few things. If you have problems communicating with each other, and are having constant fights this will have a lot of effect on your sexual life. Not only will you feel less intimate with your partner, but the constant fear of things going the wrong way will be problematic. Once your sex life is disturbed the chances of you feeling more stressed out are high. So here are a few solutions. Your relationship is in your hands, and instead of avoiding the awkward talks, try communicating. Sit down with your partner, and tell them how stressed you are about work etc. listen to their queries as well and, Remember they also have a issues. Try to see if anything is bothering them as well, they might be irritated by your behavior as well. It is always better to talk and share your inner thoughts with your partner. It is essential to plan some time alone, try going for a drive, or for dinner, movies. All these things will work some magic to your relationships. Do not overdo anything if you feel the current work pressure and problems are affecting your relationship do not panic. It is not late, talk things out, and do not rush into any major decision overnight. Your partner probably understands your current situation, but talking to them is important. Make sure you laugh with them or share with them your fears, etc. touching them is one of the most important elements, give them a hug, or a kiss or wrap your arms around them. This will lead to a comfort level and remember, the love hormone oxycotin, it will be released. So both of you will feel happy and loved. Make sure you both cook food you enjoy eating. This will be a good chance to sort problems out. Never ignore talks, this can lead to a greater damage in the future. Talking things out, even if they are bitter is the best way to avoid future damage. It is always good to buy your partner a present, when you feel you have been busy with work and have not been thoughtful. A small bouquet of flowers, or a box of chocolates or a new dress would not be a bad idea. This will give them the security that you care. Who Else Wants to Discover the Powerful, Step-By-Step Secrets of How to Meet, Attract, and Create a Lasting and Fulfilling Relationship With the Kind of Person You've Always Wanted? -- Even if You're Shy or Don't Think You are Good Looking! Don't miss out this Insider Relationship.
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Which Do Men Prefer - Blondes or Brunettes?
Everyone has heard the old adage, “Gentlemen prefers blondes,” right? Well, apparently that is not the case. According to a case study conducted by researchers from Florida State University, men prefer women with long, thick, dark hair. It’s biological, the brunette is seen as the healthier female, the most likely mate. Part of the study consisted of one woman in different colored [
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October 13, 2008
I Do Not Suck
I’ve been struggling with some personal issues lately. There are some parts of my life that I do not feel satisfied with and I’ve been trying to work some of the knots out. About a week ago I wrote about my relationship, about how I feel disconnected and he’s grown a bit….. well, silent, basically. I’m unwilling, at [
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October 12, 2008
How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back to Stay
When I was in college I dated a guy for about three months. As time went on, I noticed that he was becoming very possessive. He would phone me three or four times a day to check up on me. He didn't like it when I talked to other guys or even other girls. Finally, I had enough and broke up with him. For a month after the break up, he stalked me. I would see him sitting outside my dorm. He would follow me to class or work. If he wasn't showing up in person, he was calling me. I had to change my phone number twice! The funny thing is, each time he talked to me, he begged me to take him back and promised to change if I did. My thinking was, if he was going to change, he would already have done it to prove himself. There was no way I was going to go back to this nut case. After about a month, thankfully, he stopped bothering me. I graduated college and moved to another state. Guys, listen to me. If your girlfriend has walked out on you, there are things that you absolutely must not do if you want her back. Keep reading as I explain to you how to get your ex girlfriend back. As I mentioned above, it is never a good idea to stalk your girlfriend after you two have broken up. Stalking not only creeps her out, it can also get you arrested and slapped with a restraining order. It doesn't matter how much you are dying to see her, don't make contact with her for a while. Give her time to sort things out. This time you are giving her can be used to your advantage. When you are giving her space, take the opportunity to examine yourself. Why do you think she left you? What faults do you have that could have driven her away? If you have any friends that are girls, ask for their opinion on why she left. Work on yourself to get rid of your bad habits and to become a better person. This can help your get your ex girlfriend back better than anything else. There are other things you should be doing while you are waiting for her to come around. Go out with the guys and have a good time. If you happen to bump into your ex while you are out, say hi and move on, especially if she is with another guy. Do not let her see that it upsets you. In fact, if she is dangling another guy in front of your face to get your reaction, just turn tables and flirt with other women. You want to let her see that other women find you desirable. This move can work wonders when you want to get your ex girlfriend back. Just remember, if your girlfriend leaves, refrain from calling her and stalking her. Get your head on straight and go out and have a great time with your friends. Some guys will never be able to follow these tips. Take my ex boyfriend for instance. His constant calling and begging got him nowhere. But if you want your ex girlfriend back, you have to got to learn to rise above and behave like someone worth coming back to. There are plenty of relationship books on the market that can help you work through your problems with your ex. You can check the best ones out in the link below. I have reviewed them for you to make your decision much easier. Just remember, knowledge is power! Good luck! Lucinda is a webmaster of a popular relationship site. Do you want a free ebook that will give you 101 Romantic Ideas to impress your ex or current partner? Just visit http://www.relationshipmedic.com to get your copy today! Don't forget to check out the reviews of the relationship products that can help you get your ex back in a matter of days or weeks.
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October 11, 2008
Bring Back Your Ex: 5 Helpful Strategic Tips
When you suffer a breakup, it isn’t too hard to have a breakdown. You may seem like your world can’t go on without your ex beside you. However, the following 5 tips can help you survive the rough time and are helpful tips to bring your ex back to you. #1 - The most important tip to remember is that life does go on. You shouldn’t let it go by just because you feel your world is coming apart at the seams. If you stay holed up inside yourself, you’ll miss your chance at life. The best thing you can do is to gather the strength and face the world despite being kicked down. You should not miss life because you think someone abandoned you. #2 - Avoid those quick negative impulses of taking drugs and drinking alcohol. These things are a way to escape but come with serious repercussions both emotionally and legally. They can do you more harm than good. Instead find something that interests you or seek guidance from a friend or family member. Seeking out a positive outlet, you can start to heal your broken heart. #3 - Try to give your ex and yourself some time apart. You may find that no contact for a month has several positive implications. The first thing you should consider is putting your spirit and heart back together before you attempt to bring your ex back to you. With the time apart, both of you can heal yourselves and your relationship. This means much smoother sailing waters for the both of you after the month long breakup. #4 - Avoid listening to your first instinct about the breakup. Do not follow your heart in this instance. Instead, listen to what your mind is telling you to do. Emotional responses to a breakup can cause friction among exes and does more harm than good. Don’t be afraid to listen to reason and not your feelings. #5 - Relationships do come and go. It is one thing to keep in mind when you are in one. While you may think you are meant to be, chances are that just isn’t the case. Even if you delicately handle the breakup (only 5 percent of all breakups do not get patched up), there is a chance that you aren’t meant to be. It is a reality everyone should know right off before getting seriously involved. Never go back into a relationship without some sort of game plan. Having a strategy with a winning focus is a must. It can be tricky to do since some problems and situations arise that you did not plan for or contend with before. Think of all scenarios and get the plan finalized before you try to bring back your ex into your arms. While it may seem hard to bring back your ex, following these 5 simple steps can increase your chances of doing just that. Try to remember that all parts of life is a live and learn process. This includes relationships. <h1> </h1> Teecee Go writes articles focusing on helping people save their marriage and anyone treasure relationship dearer. You can find helpful information at BreakupCures.com Learn how You Can Bring Back Your Ex using the unconventional method. The fact is thousands have benefited by visiting BreakupCures.com
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Is Love A Real Thing?
Image by tony sak via FlickrSomeone asked this question on the forums over at PlentyOfFish, so I thought I’d take it a little deeper here. Sometimes it’s hard to comprehend “real” romantic love for some people. Especially once you’ve been really hurt, deceived, or abused by someone you felt strong love for at one point. [
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October 10, 2008
5 Ways To Pick Up Women At The Gym
<span class="cap">W</span>hen it comes to picking up women, one of the factors to be considered is the place where you’re planning to pick one up. Picking up women in the gym may sound like a good idea. Women who prefer to spend a little of their time in the gym are most likely the health conscious ones. They live a healthy lifestyle by burning their unwanted calories thorough a series of aerobics, a session of Yoga or a 30-minute run in the treadmill. A gym is a place for fitness and healthy living. The motivation of the people inside a gym is not necessary because the end result is what matters. They all want to be in good physical shape. If you’re a guy who wants to pick up women in the gym, you’d probably want to consider tactics that are directly related to the main objective why they are there. Share a fruit smoothie - Asking her for a cup of coffee or a serving of frappe after a workout won’t be a good idea. A cup of coffee is not the best choice for a health conscious as it contains caffeine. It’s the same thing with frappe. A single serving of your favorite chocolate chip frappe is already screaming with calories. Drink it and it’ll be as if you didn’t spend a day in the gym at all. The next best thing is a fruit smoothie. A fruit smoothie is the healthy option for you to offer to the girl you want to pick up. It’s not only a better way to enhance your diet but it’s also a refreshing treat after your exhausting work out. Exchange tips - Pick up a woman in the gym by talking to her and exchanging a health tip that you think she’ll find useful. Tips such as your techniques to make your lifting and stretching easier will come and handy. Let this be the ice breaker between the both of you. One exchange tip will lead to another and a connection is now established. Warm Up Next To her - Warming up is important before hitting the vigorous workout session. Take this opportunity to send her signals that you’re interested. Do your stretching and light exercises near the area where she’s doing it. If you’re in luck, she might even ask for your help in doing the warm up exercises. Give a random compliment - A random compliment never fails to get a girls attention. Pick up women in the gym by complimenting her. You can take notice of how she looks nice even in sweat shirts or how her skin glows after a nice work out. Whatever compliment you make, she’ll definitely remember you as someone who noticed something about her. Let Her Notice You - Do not flaunt your rock-hard abs or your sexy butt in front of her. If you choose to, do not do it in an obvious manner. She might get too intimidated or simply get annoyed. You can pick up women in the gym if you subtly show off those sexy assets by letting her notice you. Make one move and let your asset do the talking. Women, same as men, like the thrill of noticing someone who is seemingly not into them. Picking up women in the gym is not a hard challenge at all if you know which methods to employ. Remember that strategies in picking up women depend not only on the moves you employ but also on where to pick them up. What to learn more about picking up, flirting and approaching women? Click here for more seduction and dating tips you can start using immediately. As a FREE Bonus just for visiting grab your copy of Click here
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Blogtoberfest 2008 - Dating Dames first winner!
Have you ever watched The Girls Next Door? It’s a show on E! Entertainment television featuring three young Playboy models who are Hugh Hefner’s girlfriends. I’ve watched the show a few times and I like the girls. They have an interesting relationship with Hefner. They are his girlfriends, but there doesn’t appear to be any sort of sexual spark [
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Cosmos Hot Guys of 2008 vs George Clooney
Are you a fan of hot guys? Well, then check out the Hot Guys of 2008 at Cosmopolitan.com. You can chose to look by state or take a quiz to see which of Cosmos hot guys is for you. After looking over the list, don’t forget to vote for Bachelor Of the Year. You know, pretty as these boys are, not [
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October 9, 2008
Pickup Lines - Avoid All of These
<span class="cap">N</span>ow that it's summertime –at least for a few more weeks! Summertime is like pickup season. Everyone looks at Memorial Day to Labor Day as the time that they're going to go out there and meet somebody. Women look good, men look better – everybody thinks that they're just going to go out and pick up somebody. It's pickup season. But the fact of the matter is that if you look at it as pickup season, you are NOT going to meet anybody! So, without further ado, here are ten of the worst pickup lines we have ever heard in our entire lives: A woman and her mother are walking down the street. Of course, the old cliché is, "what are you two, sisters?" Like they haven't heard that a thousand times! And then all of a sudden the guy makes the comeback, "oh no way, I knew you guys were sisters!" Meanwhile, the woman clearly looks 70 and the daughter clearly looks 40 – they don't look like sisters. But thanks for the flattery. How about another bad pickup line – walking up to a woman and saying, "you're beautiful!" And then you have absolutely no comeback after that. You say, "you're beautiful," she says, "thank you," and what happens next? No conversation. Or how about, "don't I know you from somewhere?" She knows you don't know her from anywhere, and she's heard that about a thousand times! You're the third guy today to say that, so why are you bothering? Another bad pickup line: "can I buy you a drink?" Does she look homeless? Why don't you just buy her dinner? Do you go into a clothing store, walk up to a woman and say, "can I buy you a dress?" "Can I buy you a top?" Lame. They've seen it a thousand times before – she's going to take the drink and run. Here's another one: you walk up to a woman on the street and say, "excuse me, weren't you at the barbeque last Sunday?" I've actually seen guys use that one! A woman will point-blank look at him and say, "no, I was out of town." And then she'll tell you everything she was doing last weekend, too! So in a way, it is such a bad pickup line that it actually might work! Another great bad pickup line: "excuse me, do you have the time?" Meanwhile, you're so unobservant, you didn't even realize that she doesn't have a watch! And your carrying your cell phone in your hand which has a clock attached to it! That's a bad pickup line! Here another bad one: "excuse me, do I know you from somewhere? Aren't you my future ex-girlfriend?" She's heard that one before. And you know what? She is your future ex-girlfriend, starting from the second you utter that line! Another one would be: "excuse me, can I have your number, because I just lost mine!" That's a winner. You have to break that down a little bit. It doesn't even make any sense that someone would walk over there and say that! "Excuse me, I lost my number, can I have yours?" It makes no sense at all. Here's another good pickup line: a guy walks into a coffee shop and sees four girls sitting around, having a cup of coffee. The guy walks over and says, "hey, what are you guys doing, having coffee?" I've seen that happen so many times. There's the power of observation, and then there is the power of being a dunce. What is that? Are you girls having coffee? No, it's not coffee. Hailed on Fox News, The LA Times, The NY Times, Playboy and more… Legendary Dating Coach Launches a New Revolution For over nearly 20 years David Wygant has been earning the trust of American men and women looking to transform their love lives. (http://www.davidwygant.com)
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Holly No Longer Hef’s Girlfriend?
Have you ever watched The Girls Next Door? It’s a show on E! Entertainment television featuring three young Playboy models who are Hugh Hefner’s girlfriends. I’ve watched the show a few times and I like the girls. They have an interesting relationship with Hefner. They are his girlfriends, but there doesn’t appear to be any sort of sexual spark [
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7 signs it’s time to walk away.
Image via WikipediaAlright, this is one of those “in hindsight…” posts. As you should know by now, I broke off a horrible relationship not too long ago (okay, it was three months ago) but sometimes I find myself feeling like it was ages ago. Our first major MAJOR fight (as we had many fights our [
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October 8, 2008
How to Get Girls to Like You? Online Dating Tips For Guys
First, let's get it in our heads. In reality, without studying the proper philosophy of a woman, guys will never be able to guess there next step. It's like playing the lottery, just hoping the last thing you said will cash you in. There's only one thing wrong with that picture, it normally doesn't. Have you ever been on a site, seen a girl sent her a message and got no response. More than likely you have. If you are lucky, you have gotten 1 response back, said something stupid (in their eyes) and never got a reply. What's worse is we tend to blame it on the female and think negatively on her, when the truth is we just didn't know what the heck we were doing! But pride is a tough thing to let go. Instead of blaming someone else for your mistake, fine tune your skills and try to read what she may be thinking. This may be VERY challenging because you are on the internet which means it will take practice. Thinking that this will happen in 1 hour is pretty ob surd. Tip #1- What ever your thinking to do or say at first, hold on! That's just your impulses getting the best of you. You see her page and she's gorgeous so now you want to have her! Slow down there buddy, think before you talk. Remember once you say the wrong thing, you pretty much lost her forever in the internet world. Tip #2- Don't rush to compliment her and tell her how beautiful she is. This is probably one of the most important steps. EX. "Baby, you looking good in those pictures, write back so we can chat a little". Do you know how many guys have already said the SAME EXACT LINE you are about to say. With the way guys hit on girls, probably thousands. Approach the situation different. Maybe you can comment about a specific something she has on her page that symbolizes what she stands for. Tip #3 - Treat your profile like gold. Ok, let's say this girl actually does like you and want's to get to know you. She browses through your profile only to see a list of other girls leaving you comments and things of that nature. Do you think that's leaving a good impression on her? Of course not! Keep your profile clean and don't have pictures of other girls who you may also be interested in because she will feel like she is just another notch on your belt. Those are just some simple tips to get you started on the right track. These things take a lot of trail and error. The beauty with Internet dating is that if you do mess up, there are many more people to try again. How to get girls to like you on the internet can be a fun thing, just master the skills. To learn how to get girls, discover dating tips for guys, and master online dating visit http://beamyspacepimp.blogspot.com/ I am very motivated and enjoy researching different topics that may interest me. I am increasing my knowledge on the internet and hope to provide value to many others around the world.
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Creating A Better Online Dating Profile
Image by d70focus via FlickrOkay, so here’s a nice, neat little list of things that annoy me about some of the dating profiles I see on sites like PlentyOfFish and Match and Yahoo! Personals. No photos. Bad photos. Photos only of a car with some figure standing by it that I can’t see. Photos of a [
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I Know A Man With No Faults
I know a nice man named Brett. Brett and I work together at an elementary school, were we spend three recesses a day watching kids. We both really enjoy the job, Brett even more than I do. He calls it, “Taking a break.” Brett lives his life with a bunch of women; his wife, his twin 13-year-olds, and while his Grandmother does [
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October 7, 2008
Learn to Kiss a Girl - 2 Easy Methods For Initiating a Kiss!
The first time I made out with a girl was in kindergarten, and I didn't need to use a line or tactic. I didn't need to learn to kiss a girl, I already knew how. Isn't it funny the way society messes us up in the head? It turns something so natural and easy, that a five year old can do it, into something that causes many men a lot of anxiety. Let's fix that. So, you've been talking with a girl for a bit and you can tell she's really interested. You want to escalate the interaction by kissing. How can you go about this? There are a few techniques which are really great. These are the gems, and the only two that I would personally bother to use. The first way you can learn to kiss is by using the eye contact kiss. This technique is so cliché you'd think it comes out of a movie, but man it works! Deep eye contact along with silence can initiate a kiss every time. A quick note on eye contact: There is a very powerful way to make deep eye contact with people that will make them feel as if your eyes are amazingly penetrating and that you are really seeing into their soul. When looking into someone's eyes, picture in your mind's eye a stream of energy coming out of their eyes and into yours. It can be any color, but I find pink or red creates the most sexuality with this technique. They will feel as if they can't look away from you, as well as very attracted and turned on. So, this is a great technique to use when trying to kiss a girl in this manner. Simply turn up the eye contact and turn down the conversation. You should quickly glance down at her lips and then back up to her eyes a few times. She will get the picture. Then just lean in and kiss. I've only had this fail a few times. It was always because the girl was not comfortable with being seen in public kissing. Maybe she had a boyfriend, but if you feel the chick is into you this is a surefire way to elevate to the next level. The first time you use this you will wonder why you ever had to learn to kiss a girl in the first place. It really comes so naturally after the first few times. Not everyone will become a natural right away. Sometimes it takes a few success to help you feel great about yourself and erase any negative social conditioning you may have. Because of this, I have another method you can use to learn to kiss a girl. "Do you want to kiss me?" This one is a classic. A famous pick up artist named Mystery wrote about this in his groundbreaking e book "The Venusian Arts Handbook." Take a small pause in conversation and simply say "Do you want to kiss me?". Notice how you are framing it. Does SHE want to kiss YOU. Not, "can I kiss you" or "would it be okay if I kissed you?" Big difference, you'll see why. This can be done with zero anxiety because of contingencies you can easily use. If she says yes, obviously you lean in and kiss. You get this about 10% of the time. It takes a confident girl to state her intentions. If she says ANYTHING other then a clear No, you can say something along the lines of "Let's find out" and lean in for the kiss. Something like "well umm" or "I don't know" just immediately say "lets find out" and lean in. If she says a clear No, then you can say something along the lines of "Well, I didn't say you could. But, it looked like you had something on your mind." I would throw out a smirk or grin here and then you just continue the conversation and interaction. In this way, you are framing her as the devilish one who seemed like she was thinking about kissing you. Also, you exude confidence. Where most men will feel "shot down" or "rejected" by a No, you flip the script and are unaffected and non-reactive. She is now more attracted and most likely would not say no to this question again. Remember that it is crucial to continue the interaction if she says no. Otherwise, even if you don't show it, she will know she affected you're state and got to you in some way. This shows that your confidence and mental image of yourself is weak, and she is now in the controlling seat of the interaction. Very unattractive. These two techniques will be all you need to learn to kiss a girl. Honestly, once your confidence level has increased and your eye contact has greatly improved, talking or knowing what to say will become almost completely unnecessary. You will feel when it is the right time, and act on it. Now that you have the knowledge you need to learn to kiss, there are a few "kissing rules" that will help you keep the interaction flowing well. On the first kiss, especially out at a club, you should always break it first. Leave her wanting more. It will set you apart from probably every other man she has ever kissed. If you have taken her somewhere private for a little smooch, break the kiss first and go return to your friends at the bar. She WILL want to kiss you again. Besides, if a first kiss transitions into a make out, and your not at the point in the night where you can go somewhere to escalate, what is the point? Unnecessary arousal early in the night can just become a problem. Save the mystery and intrigue for later when you are alone with each other. You can learn to kiss in just one night by practicing these techniques. Get your confidence up and don't be afraid to go for it! Refer to my other post on how nothing is a big deal, and rate a kiss rejection on your scale of 1 to 10. Not as scary as it seemed before! It seems like the only men who succeed in the dating game these days know something you don't. 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5 Things that bug me about men’s online dating profiles.
When my boyfriend and I dated the first time around, back when we were teens, we were very serious. We spent as much time as possible together, we left out friends behind, for the most part. He stayed out our house frequently - he even had a bed. We talked about everything, secrets were a bad idea, [
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The Art of Flirting - Do You NEED To Study?
What is your opinion of the state of married life in today’s world? Dismal? Bleak? Hopeful? You don’t want to think about it? Recent headlines would have us believe that the marriage of today is full of strife and adultery. The headlines are full of the famous folk, but what about the common man and woman? Are their marriages faring [
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October 6, 2008
Love and Distance
When it comes to making a long distance relationship work there are several things that you should do and that you should not do. There are a lot of things that you need to do to make it work, but there some things that just make it hard. It’s hard to have a long distance relationship because you never know what they do in their spare time. They can’t always be on the phone with you and they can’t always be using their spare time focusing on you. So what are they doing? That’s the number one question and reason why most long distance relationships don’t work. For you to have a long distance relationship you have to be secure in the relationship and with yourself. You also have to make time for visits so that you can make the relationship keep going. For a relationship to work the couple has to be able to see and talk to each other. You also need to put time aside so that you can hold each other and spend real time with each other not through a videoconference. As for some of the things that you can do, you need to be able to make a good communication channel. The reasons why so many long distance relationships fail is because they don’t have the ability to communicate with each other on a daily basis. Like you may think that the telephone or cell phone is good enough, but as soon as they start missing your calls because they might be at work or at the store you begin to think they are doing something wrong. However, you need to mix your channels. You need to use things like the phone, instant messengers, emails, videoconference, and even the mail. Send them special messages, packages, keep all the romance going. There are many other things that you need to do, but communication is the most important. If you ever have any doubts or are tempted by another, then be open. Make sure that the other person knows exactly where you are coming from. Also, you need to meet each other now and then. Spend every other weekend together or catch up on your day offs. You need to spend quality time together to make this relationship work. You need to see each other to still feel that passion for each other. You may feel intense anticipation for the other and that’s what keeps the relationship going. You also need to find something that you both can do. You might want to have a game night where you play each other online. You need to be able to do something that is fun and will keep your bond strong. The most important thing that you need to do is surprise them. Bring them flowers and dinner in the middle of the week. Use your imagination to create a romantic and wonderful surprise. Surprises are what keeps the relationship still interesting. Send each other care gifts and packages of your favorite things. The worst thing that you can do in a long distance relationship is replace them and then pretend like nothing has changed. You cannot cheat in a long distance relationship just so you can have sex. If you truly love them sex does not matter. You should take this type of relationship so lightly as to even think that it’s not a real relationship. When you do something, ask yourself if you would do it if they lived 20 minutes away. Also, do not accuse them of anything. If you can keep your channels open, then you should be able to trust them. Also, talk about any negative things that you might be feeling. If you let the negative thought overtake the relationship, the relationship will die. When it comes to the relationship being long distance you have to think that it will only last as long as you want it to. If you honestly can not take being away from them then you need to ask yourself if you love them enough to move. If you do then move to be closer to them, however, if you don’t, then you might want to talk that out. Anything can be talked out and solved if you allow your partner to take the time to understand where you are coming from. If you put the time and energy into a relationship, you will find that your love will grow and it will be stronger than ever. Author has 16 years experence in marketing lighting products.Now successful Affiliate Marketer and Home business.Request you to come and see web http://www.webspawner.com/users/ramanjr/canlongdistance.html http://www.webspawner.com/users/ramanjr/canlongdistance.html
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I’m Feeling A Bit Heartsick
I’m not new to dating. I’m 42 years old.I’ve been married and divorced. I had a couple of live-in relationships - one when I was 19 and then one when I was a young mother of 27. I took a long break from dating for a few years, when I felt that I was not making [
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October 4, 2008
A dating story full of monkey business
My friend, LP, and I have a list of movie star boyfriends. The list is fairly long and lengthy, we are always adding to it, because there are a whole lot of cute boys out there. Some of these guys are married, some are single, but that really doesn’t matter because neither us is single. We aren’t looking [
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Regular Sex For Better Health
Are you aware of the health benefits of regular sex? Count decreased risk of both heart attack and stroke in men, a slower rate of aging and better body image in women, as just a few of the ways in which regular doses of intimacy with your partner can improve your overall health and well-being. Are you a fan [
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October 3, 2008
Meeting Women Online - A Special Internet Dating Guide!
<span class="cap">I</span>f you've thought about meeting sexy women online (or handsome men), then no doubt you have also considered the advantages and opportunities of using Online Dating strategies, including the Online Personals. I've had contacts with more than 2,500 gorgeous single women from all over the world since 1994 - which qualifies me to write about online dating in a way that few others can. I've met beautiful women from North America, Europe, Central and South America, Israel, China, Japan, and many other countries too. Let me share some of my online dating secrets with you - so you can succeed with online dating too! To be successful meeting women online, naturally there's a place for online dating services - so you might want to search on the Internet for a few of these services too. But regardless of which dating service you join, you'll need creatively written online dating ads - and a very well-written Dating Profile - to support your online dating overall. The truth is, the men who have the best dating profiles always meet the most attractive women - and ditto for the women who are online searching for men. This article will be the first of a series about Online Dating strategies. Today I'd like to share some of my tips and secrets about writing Online Personal Ads. So shall we begin? If you'd like to learn how to meet sexy women on the Internet (or men) then it all starts with the personal contact you'll establish with your online personal ads. Your ads should be alluring, provocative, and follow the fundamental rules of advertising. In other words, to meet sexy women on the Internet, your personal ads should: 1. Target your audience right in the headline 2. Convey reader benefits 3. Describe your best features, and 4. Include a "call to action." Let's have a look at what makes up a successful online personal ad. To target or select your ideal audience, what you're wanting to do is to have the right people keep reading your ad, while the wrong ones simply click onto someone else's advertisement instead. The second part of this is your reader answering for herself, "What will I gain by answering this ad right now?" The difference between features and benefits is an important one. You want your potential lovers to understand your features of course (for example, your height, color of your eyes, your age, where you live and so on) while the "benefits" to knowing you would (for example) include other qualities like "your warmth, compassion, and great listening skills." Include a Call to Action: Every effective advertisement includes a "call to action" through which there should be a request that the reader answer your ad! For example, "Write today and begin living the life you've been dreaming about!" By following the tried and proven rules of advertising, Online Personal Ads can help you in your quest to meet women online (or men). And I say this from experience, having received thousands of letters from beautiful women worldwide! Want to meet sexy women online today? Take advantage of this Special Offer - get three FREE online personal ads and a FREE Online Dating Profile! For all of the amazing details, visit my Online Dating Coach site today at http://www.online-dating-coach.com/here_is_a_special_introductory_offer.html
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Open Relationships: On Tyra
Dating is exciting for both singles. You're busy meeting new people and exploring a lot of new firsts together. Your relationship begins as a list of firsts; first trip to an amusement park together, first kiss, first hiking trip, first road trip, first overnight vacation, and the list grows. At some point the newness will begin to wear off...<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805558" height="1" width="1"/>
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Jessica Simpson’s Love Life
My friend, LP, and I have a list of movie star boyfriends. The list is fairly long and lengthy, we are always adding to it, because there are a whole lot of cute boys out there. Some of these guys are married, some are single, but that really doesn’t matter because neither us is single. We aren’t looking [
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October 2, 2008
How to Find Reliable Christian Dating
<span class="cap">I</span>t can be frustrating finding a partner who has similar Christian values to yourself. Are you finding this too? Some single Christians find that they often have to break up an existing relationship due to premarital sex values not being accepted or understood by their partner. Is this you too? Do you sometimes feel that all the other people who share your views are taken or not in your age bracket? Do you feel as if you are going it alone in a singles land filled with nonbelievers with less then honorable motives? Perhaps it is time to think about Christian dating sites. Christian dating sites have been created solely to cater for single people like you who have firm religious values and beliefs. Not only do these sites provide Christian online dating services, but they offer all sorts of practical advice and solutions to problems associated with Christian dating. If you feel you are being coerced into physical activities you are uncomfortable with, or are feeling tempted, you can receive advice and teachings to keep you on your chosen path. Christian dating services provide invaluable communication with others who are feeling just as misunderstood or as lonely as you. Being able to chat with other single Christians experiencing exactly the same problems that you do can be hugely reassuring and great for keeping your strong beliefs in place. There are numerous Christian dating services for you to choose from. It is probably a great idea to check out a few first before you join one. After looking at a few you may well discover that there is one site that has more members and better services where you live, or is better suited to your particular denomination. Superior Christian dating websites will provide plenty of support and services for Christian dating. We both know that we feel better about online dating if there's support for your own values and beliefs. Does the website allow you to ask questions anonymously that you may be too embarrassed to ask members of your own Church community or peers? Never underestimate the reassurance that you can get from being able to receive answers to your dating questions and communicating with others who have empathy for your dating problems. You don't have to be young to be using the Christian dating networks, just sincere. Life circumstances may have you outside the usual single age group and this can make it even more difficult to find a husband or wife. However with Christian dating sites it will be easier for you to find someone in the appropriate age group for yourself. Christian dating services are also beneficial for those who may have relocated to a new town and don't know anyone. Or perhaps your particular place of worship is a little short on singles? It could be that where you liver there are just aren't any available Christians who interest you? Specialized online Christian dating is available. You just need to know which ones to identify as being valuable and reliable. Many people now work from home and this can also make it increasingly difficult to socialize and to meet potential spouses. If you work with other, you can also feel a little separated because your work colleague don't feel the same about Christianity as you. Many Christian dating networks are also great for meeting other like minded individuals who share your outlooks on life. You may just be wanting to increase your circle of friends and acquaintances who have similar beliefs as yourself. In today's world it can be difficult to meet other people who stand by their religious values. Christian dating sites allow you to meet more Christian singles than you are going to meet in day to day life yourself. Using these dating sites sensibly can allow you to meet your husband or wife in ages and regions that you prefer. Online Christian dating can be the perfect solution for many lonely singles who are isolated socially or regionally, or who perhaps are looking for a husband or wife later in life. Both the Internet and Christianity are universal, why not combine two powerful forces? Provided by Billy Baker who has a long history of writing and advising on relationships and dating techniques and has supplied some reviewed Christian dating sites at this link. Look for the category entitled Christian sites at http://datingxlence.com/christian.php
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October 1, 2008
Memories Come From Perfect Moments
In Britain the dating game is not for the faint hearted, and those who dip their toes into these uncertain waters do so because they are sure the quest for the perfect moment is a worthwhile one. Manchester represents all that people love about city life; lots of people, cool bars, hectic nightlife and the possibilities that these combinations can bring. Another weekend brings with it the tantalising prospect of a chance encounter or a social connection to remember. The dating scene is varied and complex, as people try to match their date’s personality against their own personal expectations and see how they measure up. A tad shallow perhaps, but a sin common to us all no doubt. Emails or texts earlier in the week lead inevitably to the main event on the weekend - all that ensues on the date will be considered in detail during the proceeding week, before committing to a follow up encounter. It’s a process that can be sweet or sour, but you can only truly appreciate the sweet when you have tasted the sour. Many will also give a decent amount of thought to the politics of the dating game: what to say, when to say it, what to wear or not wear, how much information to offer and how much to withhold for later, the list goes on. You play by the rules until you are comfortable enough with that person to discard those rules. You know it’s never like it is in the movies but you want it to be all the same; there’s a bit of romance in everybody and what a dull world it would be without a little romance. As the weekend approaches, your thoughts drift towards the things that could make this the perfect date. The venue, the movie, the club, the actions and conversation all have to be just right for things to fall nicely into place. When they do fall into place, the occasion will be etched in the memory forever. Dating in Manchester, as it is anywhere, is all about chasing a moment instead of simply waiting for it to magically appear. You make your own luck and perfect dates are experienced by those willing to take a risk every now and then. You know you have been on a perfect date when you catch yourself smiling out the window during the Monday morning commute to work. The cramped carriage and thoughts of work are less troubling and, as you slip on your ipod, you find yourself irresistibly drawn to the section containing the romantic songs! This time you actually understand the lyrics and a previously annoying love song now broadens your smile. Only the perfect date has the power to do this. <h1> </h1> Isla Campbell writes on a number of topics on behalf of a digital marketing agency and a variety of clients. As such, this article is to be considered a professional piece with business interests in mind.
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