How To Have Your Ex Miss You Like Crazy and Want You Back

While your heart is hurting for your ex and missing them badly they can seem unresponsive and resistant to you. So how do you make them miss you so they'll want you back? One of the best and first things you should do is put yourself in the right mindset. You KNOW they miss you. They DO want you back. They're testing you to see if you really do care. Putting yourself in the right mindset is very important to do before they will miss you. Here are some steps to follow to help you once you get past this first mindset step. 1. Sudden disappearance. This can depend on the circumstances of the break up but it's not that hard to make them miss you. The say "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." has some truth in it. If you disappear suddenly your ex will definitely miss you, even if they're just curious where you suddenly disappeared to. 2. Sometimes disappearing just isn't an option. If this is not possible you can make yourself scarce. Your ex will be expecting you to be depressed over them, so the solution is to become hard to find and elusive. Go out with some friends. Try to be seen all around town having a great time or at least to give the perception that you're fine with the break up. You are not required to date other people, and you probably shouldn't right now. Making your ex jealous may not be the magic bullet that makes them want to come back to you. 3. Inaccessible. The purpose of these previous actions is to appear inaccessible to your ex. Since you broke up with them they are no longer the focus of your attention and energy. Be careful never to appear rude, spiteful, or vindictive in anyway. These are negative perceptions that will not help you get them back. You want to show your ex that you still care about them and your actions are showing that the goal is not to get them back or attempting to make them jealous. Being inaccessible will also give the perception that now you're something they can't have, which will get their brain turning as well as they see and hear about how well you've taken the break up. 4. A Slow Rebuild. The times you talk to your ex you should appear happy and upbeat, that despite how things turned out you're not going to let it affect you to the expected point of depression. Just remembering how much you miss them, being around them, and spending time with them should be easy enough to bring those feelings out. Your ex will see you still care and if your ex starts looking for you, then you know you've succeeded in making them want you back. Once they miss you it may not be enough to get them back. You don't want to say or do the wrong things that sends them away so what are you going to do once you get this far? <h1> </h1> Go to Get An Ex Back for more advice and tips on reuniting with your special someone.