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July 23, 2008

How to Get Girls or The Top 3 Behavior Patterns that Attract All Women

Starting a conversation with a beautiful woman scares most of the guys, although no one would admit it. But everyone knows the process: You get nervous, get sweaty palms and start stuttering - if you decide to approach her at all. As a result you scare her off and label her a *itch. Later, you start thinking she didn’t like you as a person, get frustrated and decide to never approach a beautiful woman again… This happens to millions of guys every day. It seems to be a normal process… But there is something wrong: You have to realize that it’s not you as a person what scares a girl off (because she doesn’t know you at all), but your approach! If you understand that it’s all about your presentation in the first minutes (your body language, tone and your message), you will never have a hard time again speaking to beautiful women. So, what are the things you have to pay attention to starting a conversation with a beautiful woman? What are the Top 3 Behavior Patterns that Attract All Women? 1) Be Confident. You have to demonstrate that you have confidence in yourself. The problem here is that it’s not easy to fake confidence if don’t have any. That means you have to approach again and again. The more you approach and the more success you get, the more confident you get. 2) Be Friendly. No matter how she reacts, try to stay relaxed and positive. Keep in mind: Beautiful women often behave harsh at the beginning of an interaction with a guy they don’t know in order to test how he reacts, to see if he’s strong and confident enough. So don’t fail a “shit test” like “You do this to girls all the time?” Simply ignore it or make fun of it (“Yeah, you’re the 9th today.”). This leads to Point #3: 3) Be Strong. That means you have to act like you have already beautiful women in your life and it’s not a big deal to you to talk to a beautiful woman you have just met on the street. Try to behave like she’s not attractive at all. If she’s very beautiful, never make compliments on her looks! She hears it all the time and to her you’re just the next guy who wants in her pants. Instead you can use a “neg” like “That’s a nice hair color! Is it real?” to show her that you’re not impressed by her looks and thus disqualify yourself as a suitor. Remember: The more experience you get in interacting with women, the BETTER you will get (provided that you don’t make the same mistakes again and again). This means you have to practice a lot. Go out and approach, don’t put it off, start practicing today! P.S. You will find excellent conversation starters, special techniques to overcome shyness, tips how to read women’s body language and much more here. Did you know that if she touches (or plays with) her hair or her neck/ ears she’s probably interested in you? That if she puts on her lipstick right in front of you it doesn’t mean she wants you to kiss her?

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