How to Get Social, Anytime, Anywhere

This is a problem that every person has at one time or another. Every person has experienced the funk before. When you are working on developing your social skills, you go out every night to improve. Unfortunately, some nights you will find yourself lost in the funk. What is the funk? Well we're not talking about the fun kind of funk. There's no parliament funkadelic here. We're talking about that horrible kind of funk, the funk you feel when you are standing on the side of a club or bar and not talking to anyone. You went out that night to get social, meet new people, get a girl, have a blast. Instead, your standing there like a loser and even worse, you're standing there thinking "Why am i just standing here like a loser?!" which only makes it WORSE. This is why the funk can be so deadly. It creates a self perpetuating cycle, where by contemplating the funk you are only increasing it. So how can you escape the dreaded funk?? It can be easier then you think. First you have to stop caring about the funk or you will never escape it. This is a key factor that's SO important. Just accept that you're within the funk, which will allow you to move passed it. So once you're done freaking out, and then accepting the funk, whats next? A simple visualization process is a great way to bust out of the dreaded funk. Remember that night that you were SO ON? EVERYTHING you said was funny, EVERYONE you met liked you, you had so much FUN, and then you went home with the girl you wanted. Those are the kinda nights we LOVE, and don't soon forget. You can utilize this past memory to make yourself feel great inside. While you're standin in the club, stuck in the dreaded funk, do this visualization process with your eyes open or shut (who care's if anyone looks, break out of the funk!!!). Visualize that guy standing right in front of you. That guy who was so awesome and fun, from that night when you were ON. See the energy radiating from him. See that energy as it hits everyone else in the room and they enjoy it, and in turn enjoy his presence. Create the full image of you, as this person who ROCKS, and really feel those feelings that you were feeling that night. Recall every bit of this awesome experience. When you have fully imagined the you who is ON, allow yourself to merge this projection with yourself. Take a deep breath as you do so and make it all a part of you. FEEL the empowerment of these FUN emotions. NOW GO. GO TALK TO SOME PEOPLE. Go and just enjoy the moment. Even after the visualization, you might not be fully ON yet. Don't worry about it, just go and talk to some people and before you realize it, you will be! Till next time Mad Dawg <h1> </h1> Mad Dawg is a seductionist who specializes in teaching men how to meet, attract, and seduce beautiful women. Learn more at: http://www.LearnHowToSeduceWomen.com

Romantic Body Language Which Attracts Women

Body language is something that everyone uses, both purposefully and inadvertently, to gauge how much someone is interested in them. Many people fail to realize what they are doing themselves, however, when it comes to romantic body language. Being able to control your romantic body language and making sure that your body language is perfect can help you to make a great first impression on someone that you like. By following these simple romantic body language tips, you will be able to control your body language to give you the best results possible; in the process, you may also understand the body language of the person that you are talking to. #1- Stand Close, but not too Close Body language is important, and romantic body language relies heavily on how close you are too someone. It is possible, however, to get too close to someone, and ruin the romantic body language chemistry altogether. By checking yourself to make sure you are the right distance apart, you can make sure that you are giving off the correct romantic body language. There is a certain rule that is easy to follow; if you are more than an arm’s length apart, you are too far from someone. Being too far from someone gives off the vibe that you are uninterested. In that same light, know when you are too close. Personal space is important, so be sure to find the comfortable balance between too far and too close. Finding somewhere halfway between is always a good call when trying to give off romantic body language. #2- Copy Their Body Language to a Point Unconsciously, someone who is interested in another will copy their body language. By copying someone’s body language to a point, you can be sure to send signals of romantic body language without being rude. This does not mean that you should recreate every single gesture they make; this will be seen as rude. If you mimic small body language cues, however, such as an open body, the closeness, or smiling, you can show that you are as interested as they are. #3- Position your Body Toward Them There is nothing worse than trying to talk to the side of someone. By opening your body up to the person you are talking to, you are giving off romantic body language that can help the person to know that you are indeed interested in them. #4- Make Eye Contact, and Blink Often Making eye contact is easily one of the most romantic body language signals that exist. By making eye contact, you are making sure that they realize that you are into them, and that you are listening. By blinking often, you are giving off what is considered an unconscious romantic body language signal. If you want someone to know that you are into them without being blunt, romantic body language is the way to go. While many romantic body language signals are unconscious, you can use them, and be aware of them, to use them to your advantage. <h1> </h1> Want to learn 50 PROVEN WAYS for approaching, attracting and seducing women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson's 50 PROVEN WAYS which provides 50 tips for instant dating success.

How To Heal A Broken Heart

A friend of mine found herself at the end of a relationship this week. She suspected that things were off and that a break-up was possibly in the near future, but when it happened, well her suspicions brought no comfort. This woman, she is really the total package, bright, funny, successful, creative, honorable, lovely, and a good friend [

“Other” Announcements

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Help: He’s a Bad Kisser

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Let the Music Move You

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7 Amazing Tips on How to Maintain a Healthy and Happy Interracial Relationship

Relationships are hard. Each and every single one of them, everywhere, and with everybody. Inter-racial relationships are even harder. This is mainly because of the values and cultural differences as well as stereotypes. However, that does not mean that these relationships never work. In fact, many people have made their inter-racial relationships work, and have lasted quite happily. Often, we find ourselves not knowing what to do when it comes to relationships. In these instances, we need a good sign or road map to help us on our way better. If you are indeed feeling lost, and you are engaged in an inter-racial relationship, then you might find the following information helpful. These are a few tips on how to maintain a healthy inter-racial relationship. 1.Remember the basics Remember that you want the relationship, and that you want it to work. Sometimes problems and obstacles can cause the person to forget why he or she is in the relationship. Re-affirming to yourself that this is the person you want to be with allows you to remember the many reasons why you are in the relationship with the person. 2.Accept your differences in religion More often than not, religion between two races is different. When people of different faiths enter a relationship, the main key for a relationship to survive is to respect each other's religion and perhaps tread a bit lightly as there might be some topics that could hit raw nerves without you meaning to. 3.Stand up for you and your partner Sometimes, situations arise wherein some people feel uncomfortable with interracial relationships. These are people who cannot help but stare at you on the street. Obviously, these people should know better, but nobody is perfect. When these instances come up, stand up for yourself, your partner, and your relationship. Do not be ashamed to love each other openly and proudly. 4.Talk about your expectations As the general rule in any relationship, communication is the key. In this case, you should be open to your partner as to what you expect from the relationship and from your partner. People often differ with regards to their expectations and getting things out would clear out any details that might cause conflict between the two of you in the future. 5.Open your mind A different race means a whole new culture. A different culture means new language, new music, new food, and as mentioned previously, new religion. Perhaps the worst thing you can do is to insult your partner's culture just because it is not the same as what you are accustomed to. Still, nobody is forcing you to do things you do not want to. However, if you find yourself wanting to please him or her, try to be a bit open minded and try out some things. Chances are your partner will not push you to do things that are too extremely different. Go slowly and ease into things. 6.Strive to understand Different races are often faced with different issues and problems that sometimes you might not be able to comprehend. That is completely okay. However, it is not okay or advisable to disregard your partner's problems. Having him or her open up and talk about the things that are bothering him or her would help you see his or her point of view. Who knows? You might be able to pitch in and help solve the problem. 7.Let your instincts lead the way This might sound a bit simple, but there is much truth to this as, more often than not, your gut instinct is correct. If you sense something wrong about your relationship and you think that it does not feel right, then it may be best to end it. And if your instincts tell you that you should make the next step, then chances are that you have found a genuine relationship. Unfortunately, society does not yet accept interracial relationships fully, and this is one of the major things that can affect a relationship. Although interracial couples face a multitude of obstacles, their love for one another will help them survive condemnation by some members of society. By taking note of the tips mentioned above, partners in an interracial relationship should be able to create a stable core in their togetherness that would take even the strongest of winds to knock down. Being solid and prepared for certain scenarios will help the couple deal with unpleasant and potentially harmful situations when they happen. <h1> </h1> Clarence Lee has been providing online dating services to the public for years. His Dating Legend website offers free singles personals and free adult dating services to its USA, European and Asian members. Visit TODAY => http://www.datinglegend.com

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Do Men Worry About What They See When They Look In the Mirror?

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How To Respond When Dating Disasters Strike

We would all like to have a perfect date, and we will do anything to make that moment special. We may even try to impress our dates with our confident look and our signature clothes. As a result of arduous preparation we have developed a plan. But in many cases we are dumbfounded when the moment of truth arrives. The date we were expecting to be perfect became disastrous. So where did things go wrong? As much as we prepared for that special moment, we may have missed out some important details somewhere along the line. And one of those questions we should have asked ourselves is what should we do when disaster strikes. The first obstacle to a successful date is the gadget. You have prepared your speeches. Yet all these words fall on deaf ears. Apparently your date has his or her mind fixed on the mobile phone or PDA. Now you are not sure whether your date is trying to impress you with his or her wielding power and influence back in the office or just simply waiting for an important call or e-mail. Either way, it really is annoying knowing that your date had the slightest idea of the things you are saying. So you better make a move or that PDA will ruin your night. You should ask your date if they are waiting for something important. Your date will get the hint. However, if at that point your date simply would not put the PDA away, then it's time for you to end the date. It's not worth continuing. Now here's a big disaster. You ordered a red wine. The waiter poured in some to your glass. Trying to impress your date, you try to lift your glass against the light and shake it a bit to oxidize the wine. But an ample amount spilled over your white shirt as you were about to take a sip. What a faux pas! All the previous hard work was destroyed by showing off. So how can you escape from that mishap? Are you going to rant about it all night and in the process start irritating your date? You can always put some humor into it. Lines such as "I did what I had to do because I didn't want to get too drunk on our first date," will put a smile on your date's face. Remember that everyone can make mistake, even your date knows that. Speaking of wines, there will come a point when you will feel very comfortable. You crack a joke, tell a good story and drink more wine. You and your date are having a good time so you totally forgot that you drank more than you can handle. You start to get tipsy, yet you don't want to spoil such a good night. You try to act normal but barely doing it. It may take you a few minutes to recover so you must stop drinking. It is also good to admit to your date that you had one too many glasses of wine. He or she would have noticed it anyway. <h1> </h1> Marvin Perry is the founder of Athletic-Dating.com, as an avid athlete Marvin decided to create a dating site for athletes you can join at: => http://www.athletic-dating.com/usa/new_jersey/new_jersey_online_dating.html

Chemistry and the Part It Plays In Attraction

Over at Chemistry.com, they have a number of interesting articles on the issues of dating, attraction, chemistry, ect. I’m working my way through them and I thought that an article, by Kimberly Dawn Neumann, entitled, Are Certain Types Destined To Date, was timely in light of Lara’s First Dates #374 post last week. The article explains that some [

How Men Should Approach First Online Dating

The new generation is certainly drawn to online dating. Women in general harbor a fear of meeting a man she has been contacting online. Women should not gamble her safety when dating someone she only talks with online. Could he be an escaped convict? The online date may just be a start to a good relationship between hopefuls. It would be in order for you to find out all you can about the strange woman you will be dating online. You will have to use subtle ways to find out all you can about the woman. If you wish to impress the lady, watch what you say and how you respond to her provocations or situations. Asking for opinions by putting forth leading questions is the best conversational trap to make people open up and reveal Even if your are in the habit of interrupting people speaking, hold tight to your tongue and exhibit a degree of decency to lend her your ears. If she is an egoistic woman you will have to spend the whole day to listen to all that she has to say; otherwise you will You must take care not to repeat the mistakes that made her feel uncomfortable on her previous online date. The answer to this all important question can be vital to determine if you can continue to build a relationship with her. If she blames the guy, you can conclude she is egoistic and self centered. You can move on to the next prospect rather than be conned by a schemer. She is not absorbing all the blame while at the same time she does not discount the part the other guy plays in the break up. In the initial stages of great uncertainties, always keep your guard up as you can never predict correctly when she might strike if you lower your guard. Once you know the woman, you will not be like a fish out of water when you meet her for the first time. If you are pushy and hasty, you will drive the woman far beyond your reach. Remember that the woman is seeking a partner to chit chat with and enjoy herself talking about the small things that will extract a few giggles or so. Do not rush the woman to meet you face to face. A solid foundation to a good lasting relationship is built on honesty and not on deceit. There is nothing to gain by lying about your appearance or job. You surely want the woman to accept you as you are and not as some touched up wretched monster of a mysterious lagoon; just sent the photo. Post pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities. Show pictures of yourself just as she would see you in the real world. It is the thought of meeting a strange man can be rather eerie for most women; don't add that to the phantom of the opera setting because that will leave you prancing alone at the appointed place and time for ages. Remove all insinuations of fear and trickery. In conclusion, any suspicious suggestions will drive her away from the date. <h1> </h1> Article By Suta At: http://datingpath.blogspot.com

Gator Officials No Fans Of Juicy Campus

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20 Ways To PLEASE Your Lover… Free and family friendly!

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Making Online Dating Safe

Today, more and more people are going into online dating. After all, it's not like you're in college anymore where you can easily meet people of your age group, and who share your interests. Online dating makes everything a lot easier, as you can easily meet up with anyone all over the world in just a matter of a few clicks. In fact, many couples who met at dating sites end up getting married! But although there are many honest people looking out for love in online dating sites, there are also those that are out there to deceive you or take advantage of you. Because of this, there are some things you have to remember to make sure that your online dating experience is safe. First, guard your anonymity. As much as possible, do not reveal any of your personal information too soon, especially if you do not know a person very well. Refrain from giving out your complete name or home phone number. Both forms of information are enough for someone to find out your income information, home address, and even the value of your home. Also, it might be a good idea to use a free email account. If you want to take your communication further than just using the anonymous email feature provided by most online dating services, then at least sign up for another free email account. Don't use your current email address. Rather, create a new one with just your first name in the "From" field, or another nickname. If you want to talk on the phone and get to know someone more, then don't ever give out your phone number. Either you give out a cell phone number, use Skype, or use an anonymous phone service. Again, this is just an added protection barrier until you get to know someone better. Ask for a photo and make sure it's recent. Appearance could help you determine whether or not you would like to correspond with someone. There's nothing wrong with asking for a recent photo. You should think twice before you join any of those free online dating services. Because the online dating service is free, then there is a greater opportunity for potentially dangerous individuals to lurk around. Absolutely free dating sites are easy targets for devious or insincere types of people because of the fact that it's free. Usually, those that choose to pay for online dating service are looking for quality both in the service and the people they meet. Beware of married people! It's sad to know that there are married people who use online dating services, even going as far as meeting people in person. Stand clear of married people - they will bring you pain and heartache. If you do decide to meet someone in person, then make sure you meet at a public place. You should provide your own means of transportation so you can escape at any time if you need to. Use this time to see whether the person is honest and truthful in their profiles. Do not allow the person to pick you up at your home. And, always make sure that a friend knows where you are and who you're with. Lastly, always trust your instinct! This is a very powerful tool in determining whether something is "off" with a person. A word of advice, remember not to be discouraged with all these safety tips. Your soul mate is probably one click away - just make sure that you do it safely. <h1> </h1> Marvin Perry is the founder of Athletic-Dating.com, Marvin is an avid athlete and he has always had a passion for physical fitness. It was Marvin's passion for physical fitness which motivated him to create the web site => http://www.athletic-dating.com/usa/new_jersey/edison_online_dating.html

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When is it okay to start looking again?

Okay, so my ex and I had a horrible breakup after a horrible 6 month relationship. I loved him and his family and he responded by cheating on me with his ex several times, lying to me, talking trash about my family and friends, and calling me a “fat bitch” 40 times a day. I [

Answering everyone’s favorite question: “When are you going to settle down and make some babies?”

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The Many Benefits of Running

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5 Pointers On How To Get Ex Back

What happens if the relationship suddenly ended? The result would be endless tearful nights and the mind lingering question of how to get your ex back. You can start helping yourself get your ex back with the following 5 pointers. 1) First, ask yourself this question… Probably the harder question isn’t “Can I get back together with my ex?” but rather, “Should I get back with my ex?” This will help to start align your thoughts on what you really want to do rationally and not emotionally. 2) Your feelings right now! You feel as if life will never be the same. The love of your life has left you and you don't know where to go or what to do. What can you do because you love her and you can't let her go… If you feel that you want to get back together with your ex, you shouldn't rush things. Be sure to take enough time to yourself to ensure that this is what you truly want. You feel as though you are totally losing it. There is nothing that will bring you two back together and you feel hopeless. Well, just know that what you are feeling know is normal simply because you loved your ex and she meant so much to you. You can talk to her about your feelings and why you think things would be different between you now. Perhaps your ex will want to try being friends again to start with. You will be sending the message that you respect your ex 's feelings enough to give her some breathing room. Doing so will benefit you, too, because you will have a chance to evaluate the situation and make a plan for what comes next. 3) Should you call your ex? Perhaps both of you have just broken up, so even if she answers your call, she does not know what she is gong to say to you. So she wants to avoid this kind of situation. At first all you’re going to want to do is call her, text her, IM her or send her emails. But, in doing so, you’re actually pushing her further away. Stop calling just to hear her voice on the answering machine and stop following her around. If you are engaging in any of this type of behavior, you are doing nothing more than pushing your ex away. Perhaps, out of desperation, you’ve begged or pleaded or left tons of text messages or phone calls - all of which haven’t worked and have just pushed your ex further away. 4) What was wrong with my relationship with my ex? Learn to accept disappointments and failures in your relationship. In every relationship, every couple argues sometimes. And sometimes those arguments can lead of ending the relationship. In fact, sometimes relationship ended simply because one party needed a break. 5) How was the love between you and your ex? There is a very fine line between love and hate and they are both very emotional states. We only "hate" someone we "used" to love because we still have a heart full of feelings for them. Did you both love or hate each other more in the past? Well, making up and getting your ex back depends on how much you value the relationship �" and it is obvious you will want to get your ex back only if you feel she has become a significant part of your life, and you cannot do without her. Problem is, you don’t have an organized strategy to get your ex back and you should start to have one! It is absolutely possible to get your ex girlfriend back once you put in place an organized strategy. For resources on your strategy visit http://www.bestmagicofmakingup.info <h1> </h1> If you are concerned about how to get your ex back, then watch this free video at http://www.bestmagicofmakinguo.info that explains the very first steps you should take immediately after a break up.

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How to Talk to Women or the Top 10 Conversation Openers

In order to approach a woman you need to know what to say. Most men are so dazzled by the beauty of a hot chick that they simply don’t know how to start a conversation with her. They start thinking what to say and moments later the girl is gone. If this happens again and again, it can be very frustrating…But there is a solution to this problem: Use openers. Openers are conversation starters which you memorize before the approach. That way you don’t have to deal with the common problem of not knowing what to say in such a situation. Forget about pickup lines. They are funny but not really appropriate to start a conversation with a woman. So, without further chitchat, here are the Top 10 Conversation Openers: 1) Hey guys, I have a quick question for you - who lies more, men or women? Me and my buddy are arguing about it all day… 2) Hey guys, let me get your take on this - is kissing cheating? My buddy says it’s not… 3) …My friend has this cute little Labrador puppy…and he’s searching for a name. Do you have an idea? 4) …My sister wants a tattoo…But she’s only 17. Is it ok, what do you think? 5) Hey guys, let me get your take on this. What’s Brad Pitt’s best movie? Me and my buddy are arguing about it all day… 6) …I'm searching for a birthday present for a friend. She's the same age as you. Do you have an idea? I was thinking about a perfume… 7) Hey, I need a quick opinion on something… I want to have my hair dyed blond (/black). Do you think it fits me? 8) Hey, I need a quick opinion on something…It’s really important…Do you floss before or after you brush? 9) Hey guys, help me settle a quick debate. If you were Brad Pitt who would you choose: Jennifer Aniston or Angelina Jolie? Me and my buddy… 10) Hey guys, let me get your take on this. Me and my buddy are not sure - why do so many girls kiss each other in the club? Of course you can develop your own opener. Just think of things you are curious about and are also interesting to other people. Never open with “excuse me” or “I’m sorry” as it makes you sound insecure and lowers your status. As a self-confident man you don’t need to apologize for a question or statement. Confidence is a key factor in a conversation with a woman as all women are attracted to confident guys. The reason is that it demonstrates a high status. If you need more good openers, I can recommend this e-Book (the cool thing about it: there is a 60 day money back guarantee). P.S. If you approach a group of people, make sure you engage all the members - even the guys. Otherwise they will haul off their friend from you.

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Does Online Dating Have to be Boring?

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What are the Main Reasons that There is Still a Stigma About Online Dating?

What did your friends and family first say when you told them that you put up a profile on a dating website? Did your mom say that you were going to meet a serial killer who would stab you to death on your first date? Did your friends tell you that the only people you'll meet on the site will be horribly desperate? Did you think any of these things before you signed on? The internet has long been a misunderstood tool. There are no headlines in the newspapers that read "Local woman meets polite friend over the internet." Instead they all read "Another victim savagely murdered by an online predator." But what's wrong with meeting new friends and potential significant others via the net? Nothing. Some of the other avenues of meeting people, include having your friends set you up on blind dates, the bar scene, or hanging out at Starbucks for days on end hoping that you'll catch the eye of an attractive latté drinker typing on their laptop, won't work for everyone. 1. Will it work for you? One of the advantages of meeting someone over the internet is that you have a chance to get to know them before you meet them in person. Through a profile, you can find out their vital statistics and interests. When you communicate via e-mail you can take your time responding to their messages and don't have to worry about saying something stupid. 2. No pressure It's also easier because of the nature of the site where you don't have to communicate with all members that communicate with you. You're not obligated to talk to a member if you don't like their profile or the message that they sent you. If you do decide to communicate with them, but don't want to meet them it's also easier to let them down. With so many other members on the site, it shouldn't be a crushing blow to someone that they lost one potential match out of many. 3. Does online work better than offline? In many ways online dating works much better than real life dating. Although some think that meeting someone online takes away the human element in relationships, it actually helps to build a stronger relationship. If you just start talking to someone in real life you have to find out everything about them through conversation and you might only later find out that their goals or lifestyles conflict with yours. 4. You know more about them If you access a profile you know whether they have children, you know what interests they have, you know the area that they live in, etc. Reading over someone's profile can help you decide whether you want to contact someone or not and if you do, you can ask any additional questions that you want without having to find out all of the basic information that is already on their profile. 5. It's not as dangerous as you think While some are convinced that people on the internet are going to be criminals who are looking for innocent victims to prey on, the fact of the matter is that there are plenty of criminals (all looking for innocent victims to prey on) that you can meet in the offline world. Being on the internet doesn't raise the odds of meeting a felon. This is not "To Catch a Predator." 6. Lonely and desperate? So your friends tell you that the only people you're going to meet online are going to be sad, lonely losers who have to turn to the internet because they can't get a date in real life. People use internet dating sites for plenty of reason, not because they're hopeless. If you're in a small town it can be difficult to meet new people so using a dating site helps you to find someone in your area. 7. Military advantage Lots of people in the military also use dating sites because once they move to a new area it's difficult to find new friends and especially difficult to find dates. Using the an internet dating site can introduce them to lots of people in a short amount of time. This is especially helpful and even if they move to a different base, they can still keep in contact with the people that they met as well as find new potential matches in their area. Dating websites have gradually gained respect in society. Through the advertising campaigns of several high profile dating sites, people have become used to the idea and have even recognized that there are advantages to online dating. The stigma against these websites is fading fast. <h1> </h1> Clarence Lee has been providing online dating services to the public for years. His Dating Legend website offers singles personals and adult dating personals to its USA, European and Asian members. Visit => http://www.datinglegend.com

Online Dating Part Two - Privacy and Security

Today I want to talk about safety and privacy. This is a concern of many single women. My mom used the Plenty of Fish service - 2 good prospects and only 1 oddball - and I advised her to set up a separate free email address if she wanted to take the conversation away from the [

First Dates #374

He was very nice, this guy I met on eHarmony for the first time about a week or so ago. My life is pretty crazy sometimes, and he was sweet, and patient, and had no trouble being the one to “chase” me a little, which is something I’ve secretly wanted to experience more of in [

Stop using PUA routines to seduce women

One of things that really enhance my game and made me a much more successful PUA was when I stopped using canned material and routines, and started to try and be natural in my pick up. I can honestly say that it was one of the best decisions that I've made on my quest to seduce women. When I started to learn about how to get hot women into my life I was studying a lot of canned material, including openers and routines, which are widely taught in the PUA community. Like a lot of people learning this stuff I found that I didn't have a lot to say after I'd run out of routines, and I struggled to compete with better looking people. This was what motivated me to depart from routines, and to try and become a more natural pick up artist. Any pick up artist whose game is based solely around rehearsed material is going to be limited in his abilities to seduce women. You're not going to be the real you, and you'll loose attraction as soon as she gets to know you better. However, if you work on improving yourself, and being more fun, interesting, confident and humorous, all of which can be learned, then you will be able to neutralize other people's good looks, and you'll stand just as much chance of being able to get hot women as any good looking guy. When trying to seduce women, you're going to be much more successful if you don't rely on traditional PUA routines, as you'll be talking about a lot of things which didn't actually happen to you and don't relate to you, making it much harder to make a connection with a girl. If you try and become an interesting pick up artist, and be more interesting and fun, you'll start getting invited out to parties by both girls and guys, as you'll be a fun person with good energy, who people want around. Remember that looks get old. Imagine if you were with a hot girl who had no personality, and you found her to be really boring. You probably wouldn't want to be with her for that long as she would bore you and her looks can only attract you for so long. After a while you need to be able to be attracted to someone's personality, and to want to be around them all the time, because of how they make you feel about yourself. It's what's known as 'emotional attraction'. A really good PUA doesn't seduce women by using canned routines and material. A really good pick up artist has such a positive energy around him, which makes people attracted to him. If you want to get hot women, and hold on to them, then start improving yourself with improvisation classes, stand up comedy etc. There are many things that you can do to actually make yourself more attractive and therefore more like to get hot women! <h1> </h1> Jamie Meeka is a key player in the Bristol pick up community. Once unsuccessful with women, Jamie discovered the game and decided that he wanted to dedicate his life to seducing women, and is now rated as one of the premier pick up artists in the UK.

Hi everyone! Just a little introduction…

Kelly, over at Thrifty Mommy, is doing a post on embarrassing stories. I have a bunch of them, but in honor of The First Day of School tomorrow, I am sharing a school story. I am a noonaide at our local elementary school. I walk around and say, “inside voices, please,” I open milk and string cheese, [

US Census: More women than ever are childless.

Cheating, trendy? I promise, I’m not being sarcastic or snarky here. Infidelity has been on my mind lately. No, I’m not contemplating stepping out on my boyfriend, but with the news that John Edwards has admitted to an affair and the renewed interest in John McCain’s past infidelities, cheating does seem to be a topic of public interest. Theories [

Dating Tips: Top 10 Worst Traits in a Man

Unlike in years before, today's women have a very visual and detailed idea of what they want in a man. Thanks to television, movies and the like, we all can grasp an image of the stereotype ideal - smooth, smiling, confident men who always seem to be wearing and saying the right things. Yes, we understand that women want a man who cares a little about their appearance and health; yes, we understand that women need more than just the knowledge you love them; yes, we definitely understand that your needs are as important as our own. It's easy to come up with a list of the most desirable or ideal traits for the perfect man, however knowing what women DO NOT want is also key. Surprising to some, most men do try to act and dress in a way that they think will attract women at least in some form; unfortunately, sometimes guys try so hard with the big picture, they do not realize when they are letting the little things go. Recently, the world's largest speed dating and singles event company ran a survey asking women to name what they would consider the least desirable trait for a man to have. Many of the responses were obvious, and don't need listing: body odour, bad teeth, bad breath...big surprise. Others however, were much more unique and interesting. Women will be women, and love it or hate it, they are extremely observant, often with things that the average male would never notice. The unique 'pet peeve' traits exposed by the study are so fascinating because many of them fall under that category - most guys don't even realize they are issues, let alone deal breakers for many girls. The most intriguing responses from the results are: 1) Pants that are not long enough - For some reason, pants that <i>just slightly</i> too short <i>really</i> annoy girls. One woman wrote "If they're drastically short, I just feel bad and turn away. If they're just and inch or less too short, it's even worse. I can't turn away. I am annoyed and disgusted." 2) Not washing your hands (both after going to the washroom, and before eating) - This one shouldn't have to be explained. Please, gentlemen, wash your hands; women notice when you don't. 3) Dry lips - Chapped lips translate to a chafing, sand-papery kiss, and can turn a cute face into a disappointment. 4) Talking about any other girls (<i>any</i>!) - That means your mom, sisters, friends, and of course, the ex. This only applies to early on, in the first date or meetings. 5) Flexing, and talking about your muscles - It's cheesy, lame and a certain turn-off. 6) Popping your collar - or any other trend that was cool two years ago, especially if it was <i>the</i>trend at the time. Anything noticeably hot from the past becomes noticeably <i>not</i> once the fad has ended. FYI - trends don't last longer than a year usually, if that. 7) Name dropping - If it legitimately comes into the conversation or story it's no problem. But constantly dropping names, trying to impress, and talking about how many famous or powerful people you know is an instant turn off. Not only is it annoying, it may lead her to believe that she isn't good enough for you if she also is not powerful or rich as your 'friends.' 8) Wearing shorts in the winter - It's cold out, get over it. You're no less a man for wearing pants when it's cold out, but you <i>are</i> less a man if you show you're too stubborn to change with the season. In the worst cases, men do it to show how 'manly' they are, somehow thinking it is manly if they convince you they cannot feel the cold. Women know you can feel the cold. Remember, women have a distinction between manly and stupid. Shorts in the winter falls under 'stupid.' 9) Refusal to accept baldness - This includes everything from the half-cut to the comb-over and everything in between. Balding is a part of life. Accept it; women do. Embrace it and move on, as they do with sagging breasts and bottoms. Such is life. 10) Carrying a XXL condom around, and letting everyone know it - Not only is this a turnoff, it's obnoxious and sends the message that you just want to get laid, which is probably not the best tactic to take, even if that is your only goal. It doesn't make you look like a big man (in both senses of the term,) it only serves to degrade both you and her. Don't feel bad or embarrassed if you are guilty of employing one or more from the list; just learn from it and move on. You can always turn the offense into a joke later...remember, ladies love laughter! <h1> </h1> FastLife is the world's largest speed dating company, hosting over 150 events monthly in forty-seven cities across 6 countries. Known for their premium service, FastLife offers such events as Washington DC Speed Dating and Washington DC Speed Dating.

Does Online Dating Really Work?

You might be surprised to learn that online dating is catching up with the "traditional" way to meet singles. Remember when the only way you met other singles was a blind date or being "set up" by a friend or relative. With so many busy lifestyles online dating and speed dating are helping singles get together.<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805575" height="1" width="1"/>

Club 555 - Is Marriage the "Greener" on the Other Side of the Fence?

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How to Make Your First Contact to Become Your First Date ?

Getting to know someone through a dating website can be a very delicate process. You can narrow down your matches to someone that you want to meet in person. The human element cannot be conveyed though a computer screen so no matter how compatible or incompatible you may seem on paper, things will change once go on your first date. So how do you get to the first date? How do you get from point A (contacting someone) to point B (meeting them)? While this process varies for everyone, here are some basic tips for successfully landing a first date. Tip 1: You will not get to meet everyone that you want to While you can follow all of these steps and the advice of countless other sources on the internet, you can't be guaranteed a date. Don't be overly confident. You'll get the opportunity to meet lots of people and get to a first date with several of them, if one gets away, don't let it be a blow to your ego. Tip 2: Establishing contact Your first e-mail is going to make a powerful impression on your potential match. You want to intrigue them to take a better look at what you've written and who you are. Just like writing you bio, you need to make it concise, well-written, and interesting. Keep your message light and short. Mention an interest that you might have in common with them or let them know if you find them attractive without emphasizing that too much. Asking them a question about themselves or their hobbies is another good way to get a response. Tip 3: Phone call/webcam Some online daters are very shy and/or very cautious and might not be comfortable speaking to you on the phone right away. Make sure that both you and your match are ready for this kind of contact. Almost everyone gets nervous while talking on the phone or via webcam to someone for the first time. Make sure that you stay calm, speak clearly, and if you find yourself stumbling over your words or stuttering you can make a joke about your nerves. The other person will probably be just as anxious, so they'll laugh it off too. Tip 4: Asking your match out on a date How do you know that you are ready to meet your match to meet in person? This depends on your comfort level with each other. Try to gauge whether the time is right. This is going to be different for each couple and there is no guarantee for success. If you feel that you are ready and that your date seems comfortable enough with you, then go a head and ask. If you casually mention that you'd like to see a movie that's coming out this weekend and want to know if your potential match would be available, it makes it easy for your date to agree, or, if they feel that they are not ready, they will feel comfortable enough to let you know that they're not. If you get turned down for one date, don't immediately ask for another. If your future partner feels like they're being pressured that will make them even less likely to go out with you. Tip 5: What do you do? Choosing where to go can be troublesome. If you and your match have an interest in common it will be very easy to suggest to participate in this activity together. However, if your interest involves something where this isn't a lot of communication, it might not feel like a date at all. For example, if you both like to go to the movies then you'll be together, but you'll be sitting in a dark room not talking to each other. This can be a benefit for nervous daters because by the time the credits roll your jitters will be gone and you'll feel more comfortable. Also, you have something to discuss afterwards. However, if you go to the movie then go your separate ways, there has been no communication between you two besides whether or not to get butter on the popcorn. If you want a chance to get to talk to your date there is always the option of going out to a restaurant. It will give you a chance to get to know each other. Just make sure that you choose a restaurant that serves the kind of food that both you and your partner like. Tip 6: Who pays for the date? This has become a big burning question. When the check comes, who picks it up? This again, will have to be something that you both figure out on your own. If both of you are on a tight budget then it can be acceptable for both parties to pay for their own portions of the bill. If you're better off financially then your date, it would be courteous to take care of the whole thing. As a general rule, you should not expect your date to pay for you. If your date offers and you feel comfortable letting them pay, then go ahead, but in any other situation, expect to pay for yourself. <h1> </h1> Clarence Lee has been the dating coach since the early decade.Get interest to get more FREE dating tips and EXPLORE different kind of dating relationship on his site?Feel free to visit=> http://www.datinglegend.com

For the List-maker: Setting Dating Or Relationship Goals

Yesterday, I read about a controversy concerning some of the fireworks displayed during the Opening Ceremonies for the 2008 Olympics in Beijing. A portion of the fireworks were added in digitally. Personally, I don’t have a problem with that. It was simply special effects for the television audience members who were unable to attend. This morning, I read about another one [

Club 555 - Ok So You're Going to Try Dating Online Here's Some Safety Tips

So you've decided to give online dating a try but you shouldn't go online without being prepared. This may sound a little unnecessary but take a look at these common sense safety tips anyway.<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805573" height="1" width="1"/>

Five Tips to Becoming a Better Listener

5 Tips For an Amazing Relationship

Women are unpredictable by nature. Let's say that you meet a girl that always smiles at you, always seems happy to see you, has told all her friends about you, but for some reason beyond your power of understanding she just won't go out with you on a date. If this scenario sounds familiar then you may feel this woman is giving you mixed signals. The problem is: how do you manage the situation? Believe it or not, women know what they want most of the time. You all just have never been taught the mind reading techniques that we expect you to have. Here are some possible reasons she won't go out with you: 1) You are her best friend and she doesn't want to ruin the friendship with a relationship that may not work out. Women analyze relationships to death. A good male friend is worth his weight in gold. We don't want to lose a fantastic friendship for just another possible relationship. 2) She may think you are the greatest thing since sliced bread but you are not her usual type of guy. Some women love hanging out with nice guys but for some indefinable reason she prefers bad boys when they date. 3) A friend of hers really likes you so you are therefore off limits. 4) Many women today have other priorities that are taking first place before relationships. If she is working her way to the top she may not have the time to devote to a relationship. 5) She may really like you but really needs you to make the first move. Therefore her unique conservation instinct will tell her NOT to date you, while her heart will make her still show interest towards you. What should you do when something like this happens? 1. Forget all about her for a while and start dating other girls. You will suddenly become a lot more interesting in her eyes because you will appear less available and therefore she will begin to wonder about what she might be missing out on. 2. Try to find out more about her feelings towards you from her friends, while talking about her at the same time. This way there will be an exchange of information and she will learn what you really feel from people she can trust. Yes, it sounds very high school but if you do it in a subtle way it can be effective. 3. By this time it would be a good idea to try asking her out again. Before doing this plan everything in such a way that it will surprise her and pull her out of her routines. If you suffer another rejection... it's time to move on and forget all about her. <h1> </h1> Did you find this article useful? For more useful tips and hints, points to ponder and keep in mind, techniques, and insights pertaining to relationships, do please browse for more information at our websites. http://www.infozabout.com http://www.infozabout.com

Club 555 - Most Popular Services Offered By Online Dating Websites

Do your research when choosing an Onine Dating Service. Make sure that they offer the best tools available to contact other members.<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805572" height="1" width="1"/>

Do You Believe In Good Enough?

Yesterday, I read about a controversy concerning some of the fireworks displayed during the Opening Ceremonies for the 2008 Olympics in Beijing. A portion of the fireworks were added in digitally. Personally, I don’t have a problem with that. It was simply special effects for the television audience members who were unable to attend. This morning, I read about another one [

Surviving A Break Up: Why Are You Still Moping Around?

Some of your friends are not happy with you. They tried to do you a favor and hook you up with someone they thought you'd really hit it off with. You went out on the date filled with enthusiasm and ready to make a new start. But let's face it you blew it. The other person tried to get some conversation going. Not much success. When you did talk it was usually about your previous relationship. Your date didn't mind it for the first hour or so. They understood and welcomed your venting. Too bad you couldn't let it go right there. In fact, you carried the torch for the whole evening. That is when you were not sitting melancholy gazing into space. Your date was not happy and let your friends know it who are now letting you know it. You tell them it was all a misunderstanding and that the other person bears part of the blame. Deep down you know that's not true. The trouble is you are not over your ex. Finding that special someone can feel like heaven on earth. Every thing clicks. A casual stroll down a crowded street turns into a great time and exciting adventure. The phone conversations can go on for hours and when the two of you finally hang up you feel it was way too short. Being in each other's company just gets better and better. And then reality knocks on the door. Issues that the two of you once scoffed at as trivial have become major roadblocks. All that wonderful chemistry has given way to character traits that drive the both of you nuts. The criticisms once gentle and playful turned harsh if not downright brutal. The reasons are endless but the bottom line is you and your significant other decided to call it quits. Okay. That's how it goes sometimes. But when you continue to play the role of the sad sack, then you are threatening any dating relationships you may have in the near future. Sure you need time to get over a break up. It's only normal that you lament the lost of something special but all too often people use this mourning period to do themselves more harm than good. They tell themselves they will never find anything that wonderful again or that it was their fault therefore they can't be any good. Stop. Unless your actions severe (in which case you don't need to be in any relationship) always remember it takes two to tango. Everything that happened was not your fault. Accept the fact that maybe time did you a favor. It's so easy to get swept up with emotions during the early stages of a relationship especially when you discover how much the two of you have in common. But time is a great leveler. It has a way of forcing us to remove the rose colored glasses and dig a little bit deeper into the reality of the other person. Do what you need to do to get over the other person. Have a quiet toast, call them up and wish them well (be very brief and don't keep calling back), travel or stay home and listen to blues songs if it will make you feel better. But once that period is over, be thankful, look in the mirror and tell yourself you are a great catch and then come back strong. No, you won't have the same relationship as before but you will meet someone that will make you feel just as vibrant and alive as your ex. Only it will be in a totally different way. Look forward to it. <h1> </h1> Article written by Daryl Campbell - The Relationship Tip - You are over your ex, right? Well maybe not. Truth to tell you really do want them back. The Relationship Tip

Club 555 - Does Personality Profile Matching Really Work?

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Is John Mayer A Cad?

By now, the headlines announcing that John Mayer and Jennifer Aniston have broken up is probably old news to you. I’m a fan of both Aniston and Mayer. Okay, to be honest, I’m a big John Mayer fan. I think he’s talented and attractive and funny and smart. I love his music. ”Dreaming With A Broken Heart” is one of [

The Onion Pokes Fun at Women and Online Dating

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Techniques to Attract a Girl or the Top 10 Ways to Get a Girl Interested in You

The best way to make an impression is to teach the girl something about herself. The following techniques are best suited to attract a girl: 1) “The Cube”. Women love all kinds of tests. This personality test invented by the master pick up artist and author Neil Strauss aka Style works like a charm. Read on it on the internet or Strauss’ book called “The Game”. 2) “The 3 Questions Game to Define Your Goal in Life”. This routine invented by Style is about asking the girl what she likes doing most and what kind of feeling she has doing it. The ultimate goal in life is to experience that feeling again and again. 3) Palm reading. This is an instant classic and gets every girl interested in a second. Don’t forget to tell her that has a difficult relationship to her father and an excellent one to her mother ;-) 4) “The Ring Routine”. This routine is about telling her that wearing ring on particular fingers says something about her personality. 5) Cold Reading. This technique is extremely powerful, but you need some experience with people to be successful with it. Cold reading is about guessing what kind of person the girl is and telling her what she wants to hear. 6) Storytelling. In order to attract a girl you need to be able to tell an interesting story. Keep in mind: Telling a story is not about getting to the end, but to demonstrate your charming personality. 7) NLP-Techniques. Neuro-linguistic programming is about playing with thoughts, images and feelings and can be very powerful. Again, you need a lot of experience in this area to be really successful. 8) Dream interpretation. Quite popular. The problem here: a lot of people don’t remember their dreams and if they do there are way too much possibilities they can come up with that you can assign to a special interpretational pattern. 9) Handwriting analysis. A bit long winded, but nonetheless effective. 10) Number guessing game. Tell her to pick a number between 1 and 4 (guess that it’s the 3). Then tell her to pick a number between 1 and 10 (take the 7, because most people choose this number). Finally let her pick a number between 1 and 10. This time tell her to multiply the number by 9. Then, she has to add the digits of the outcome and subtract 5. The outcome is always 4. You will find more details in this e-Book I can recommend.
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Embarrassing Behavior - Who Me?

This evening, I wasn’t feeling very good about my relationship. Everybody has fears, everyone has their “thing” and my thing is worrying that I’m unnecessary. I want to matter to S. I want to be on his mind, in his plans, a part of his every day. I don’t feel that I am any of those things right now. I’ve tried [

Club 555 - Why Online Relationships Work

We all know someone who knows someone who met their spouse or significant other online and they are still together after all these years...ever wonder how that could be possible?<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805567" height="1" width="1"/>

Mindfulness Meditation Creates Powerful Self Therapy

Relationship Dating: Leave Them Wanting More

In his autobiography, Tony Curtis recalled some valuable advice given to him by one of the icons of film Cary Grant. He told Curtis the best way to make the public want to see more of him was by making sure they didn't see too much of him. Grant was of course relaying a message that many a producer and press agent before him tried to tell certain Hollywood movie stars. Some listened many didn't. The ones who did not, soon found that a public which had once adored them had now grown tired of seeing them. One too many bad movies and overexposure has ended many a career. In relationship dating, the same rule applies. Sparks fly in the beginning as you and your date can't seem to get enough of each other. You spend everyday together including weekends. Multiple phone calls per day that last for hours. Meeting each other on your lunch break and hanging out after work. Let's not forget the internet where you constantly email and instant message each other. And then it's over. Neither of you can figure out why you suddenly cannot stand the sight of each other. No doubt it can be any number of reasons but if familiarity can breed contempt then overexposure can make you downright hostile. No matter how good things are going, try to keep a few things in mind: 1. Talk To You Later Unless you are in a space capsule orbiting the earth, you do not have to be in constant contact with mission control also known as your significant other. Calling or emailing once a day is enough (every other day is even better). People need time to digest information they receive and that includes being in a relationship. Contacting someone more than once a day may be cute in the beginning but after awhile it can lead to The Sigh. That's the one where your significant other takes a deep breath and asks themselves, "Now what do they want?" 2. Days Off For many couples who are dating this is inconceivable. They feel it is vital to stay in each other's space so they can get to know each other better. The problem is getting to know each other better can quickly feel like smothering. You can't make a move without them breathing down your neck and vice versa. At first the two of you chalked it up to love. Time has a way of turning it into resentment. 3. Your Own Circle The mistake many couples make is believing in the myth of one hundred percent compatibility and in the beginning of a dating relationship it may seem like just that. But it does not exist. There are going to be tastes and interests you have that your dating partner does not share. That's fine. It leaves the both of you more time to spend in your own social circles. That does not mean that you shouldn't take an interest in some things your significant other likes. It does mean that you do not have to share everything to have a successful relationship. Dating relationships can be very deceptive. The tidal wave of wonderful emotions you both feel can pull you together; yet at the same time it can lead you down the path of breaking up. Enjoy each other's company but go slow and be sure to give each other plenty of breathing room. Getting too much of a good thing too fast only increases the chances of both of you growing tired of the relationship very quickly. <h1> </h1> Article written by Daryl Campbell - The Relationship Tip - There are a lot of do's and don't when it comes to the dating relationship. But it really comes down to finding the answer to just one simple question.

Personality Quizzes - Another Tool For the Pursuit of Love?

Friday, 08/08/08, John Edwards admitted to what many had suspected for a long time - he cheated on his wife, Elizabeth. He previously denied stories about the affair, using what he considered a loop hole - the stories printed where filled with errors. This enabled him to feel justified in denying the story. Whatever. He lied. [

Not Just Friends - Was John Edwards Involved In the “New” Trend of Cheating?

Cheating, trendy? I promise, I’m not being sarcastic or snarky here. Infidelity has been on my mind lately. No, I’m not contemplating stepping out on my boyfriend, but with the news that John Edwards has admitted to an affair and the renewed interest in John McCain’s past infidelities, cheating does seem to be a topic of public interest. Theories [

New Dating Articles by Jennifer Brown Banks

There are so many free dating sites to choose from - but which are really the best? Over the past several years, the online dating landscape has changed dramatically, and in a Read Me Free online dating in the UK including search, mingle, live chat, forums and messaging. [

5 Ways to Scare Your Ex Off for Good!

The worst thing in the world has happened. You''ve been dumped. Maybe you had a fight and you've tried everything to fix it, but it's not working. What can you do? Well first of all, take heart. There are ways to get your ex back. But there are also things that most people do which are sure to drive your ex away for good! Here's five of the biggest mistakes that people make in this situation and these are things you should never do. 1. Do something spiteful. It's tempting to try to get back at the person who hurt us. My daughter's boyfriend bought her an engagement ring and when she said she wasn't ready yet to get married, he immediately took it back to the store and made sure he told her. She was so hurt that he made such a snap decision, that she became even more resistant to giving him another chance. 2. Sit around the house and wait for that call. How can that possibly help? It's so important to keep busy and that doesn't mean constantly talking to your friends about the breakup or watching TV all day. It means find engrossing things to make use of your time. Read a book that you can't put down, go out with friends, join a club, take up a new hobby, or my favorite, go on a trip. Nothing will perk up your spirits faster than a new environment, even if it's a weekend away. 3. Write a long, morose letter to him. It doesn't matter if you're apologizing, trying to show your ex why it's such a mistake to leave you, trying to make him feel guilty for hurting you or whatever. This will only evoke negative feelings about you. Guilt drives a person away more quickly than anything else. No one has ever rescued a relationship by making the other person feel guilty. You're better off giving the person a little time and space and let them come to the conclusion on their own that they miss you and want you back. 4. Be mean if he calls. Don't place blame, or make him feel guilty for hurting you, You want your ex to be glad to hear your voice. Keep it light, friendly and breezy. It's okay to let your ex know you've been busy, but try to stay away from the jealousy game. "Oh, did I tell you, I just met the most fantastic guy!" This never works. Just keep a casual attitude. You can be a little flirty and cute, and it's okay to let give the impression that you're glad he called. Make sure the conversation ends on a positive note..."It was great to hear from you. Sorry I have to go, but I was just on my way out." This shows your ex that you're keeping busy but you're still happy to hear his voice. 5. Patronize his favorite hangouts hoping to run into him. This is a pathetic ploy and an obvious one. He'll see right through you and it won't bring him back. He'll just think you're a desperate stalker. You want him to miss you and think of the good times you had together! You should also avoid calling him, texting him, sending him emails, or any other of these ploys. Don't be a stalker. Your ex will start to think of you as desperate and this will drive him away further. So these are the biggest things to avoid doing. What should you do to instead? Go out and meet people. When the word gets out that you're out and about, it will make you seem more attractive. Take care of yourself. Get some new clothes, a new makeover or whatever will make you feel better about yourself. Don't ever leave the house without looking your best. You never know when you'll bump into him or into someone new! Let him come to you. And when he does, don't make it difficult for him. It's easy to start the argument all over again by placing blame. On the other hand, don't make it too easy either. You want to make him realize that you are a prize that he has lost. So just leave the door open, be friendly and pleasant and see what happens! There are no impossible situations, but it's easy to do the wrong thing and lose your ex forever. For some surefire ways to get your ex back, visit: http://fix-any-relationship.com

Club 555 - Speed Dating on "Growing Up Gotti"

You know how the "grass" sometimes looks greener on the other side of the fence? Well hold on just a minute there fellow singles...we might not have it so bad after all!<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805574" height="1" width="1"/>

Intimacy Promotes Good Health

So you've decided to give online dating a try but you shouldn't go online without being prepared. This may sound a little unnecessary but take a look at these common sense safety tips anyway.<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805573" height="1" width="1"/>

St. Dwynwen and Saint Dwynwen’s Day

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Do I Want My Ex Back?

If you've just gone through a difficult breakup you can easily get overwhelmed with the conflicting emotions. Usually disbelief comes first followed by shock, anger and pain. At some point though many people ask themselves the question: "Do I want my ex back?" While it might seem like that would be an easy question to answer, it usually isn't. If your ex was verbally or physically abusive than, yes, it probably is easy to answer that question. But relationships often have shades of gray. Most relationships have good and bad and it isn't always easy to think clearly and make a good decision about whether or not to get back with your ex. As a rule of thumb you should take some time, clear your head and then try to be as objective as possible. Ask your friends and family for their honest opinion about your ex and how they perceived your relationship. They can often see things that you don't want to see when you are in the middle of the relationship. If the general consensus is that the relationship is worth salvaging and you decide that you do want your ex back, there is a new book on the market that may be able to help you get them back. "The Magic Of Making Up" is a book written by T.W. Jackson. This admittedly unconventional book can provide you with a road map of exactly what to do, say and what not to do to get back in your exes heart. Jackson gives you tools to deal with such concerns as depression, what to do when you find yourself going a little 'crazy', how to judge if your ex really wants you back, and lots of other valuable tools. In the book Jackson explains that 90% of rebound relationships don't last, so you don't have to panic or give up if your ex is seeing someone else. He points out what men and women really want when it comes to a relationship and it's probably not what you think. Jackson helps you understand when is the right time and the wrong time to have sex after a reconciliation. This is very much a gender issue but often both genders get it wrong. Jackson is not a counselor or psychologist. His techniques are a bit counterintuitive, but according to the testimonials he has received he has helped over six thousand people all over the world. Jackson says that most relationships can be saved. If your relationship can't be saved he gives you valuable tools to help you move on with your life. The bottom line is this: you have to ask yourself do I want my ex back? If the answer to that question is yes than you might want to consider reading "The Magic Of Making Up". This unique book can give you the tools you need to stop a breakup or divorce. You have nothing to lose and hopefully a wonderful, fulfilling relationship to gain. <h1> </h1> Lisa, a former restaurateur,has been working from home online for over 5 years. For more valuable information please visit: www.LiveSmartResources.com

Club 555 Online Video Dating

Do your research when choosing an Onine Dating Service. Make sure that they offer the best tools available to contact other members.<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805572" height="1" width="1"/>

Update - Big Day For Weddings In China

Here is an update on the 08/08/08 wedding story; more than 300,000 couples were married in China. According to National Nine News at http://news.ninemsn.com. The actual total was 314, 224. Wow. I bet a lot of the day was spent waiting in line. We’ve got a touch of Olympic fever, here at my house. We’ve stayed up late [

Microsoft Eyeing Online Dating Marketplace

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5 Signs of a Cheating Girlfriend

5 Signs of a Cheating Girlfriend In relationships, cheating is a no-no. Nowadays, more people are becoming unfaithful. If I ask you now: “Is she faithful?” Will you be able to answer with a definite YES? Lucky are the people who can be truly positive about their girlfriends’ fidelity. However if I ask questions such as: “Is she suddenly not able to meet up with you as often?” ”Does it feel like she’s hiding something?” …and then you suddenly answered YES, then this might be the best time for you to learn about the signs of a cheating girlfriend. Though this is not easy to accept and I understand how depressing it is, knowing a few tips would help you avoid being in a doomed relationship: 1. Little or almost always no time for you In the past, you spend a lot of time with her. Now you see less and less of each other, with her saying how she is always busy or how tired she always is, etc. Though they may be valid reasons, there is a big possibility that those are only excuses for her to spend time with the “other guy”. 2. Is secrecy becoming a frequent thing? Check whether she is being too secretive. Does she often take phone calls out of the house? Does she keep on sending messages with her mobile phone and then suddenly shifts to another activity when you’re near? Know that frequent secrecy is definitely one of the signs of a cheating girlfriend. 3. Too Many Inconsistencies If the relationship is running smoothly, I know for a fact that there is always the presence of consistency, especially when it comes to the things you both talk about. I know how hard it is when you suddenly realize that she keeps on telling you stories that are all of different versions. This is in fact one of the most important signs of a cheating girlfriend that you should be aware of. Know that cheaters, because of their mixed emotions, are usually inconsistent. 4. Does she suddenly delete computer files or messages on her mobile phone especially when you’re over her shoulder looking? If you see that she is suddenly doing this when she doesn’t in the past and when she suddenly doesn’t want you browsing through her mobile phone, then, it is normal for you to feel hurt and become suspicious. Sad to say, you are seeing one of the signs of a cheating girlfriend; the more you ignore the warnings, the more your bad feelings will intensify. 5. Does your intuition screams at you that something is wrong? Are there times when you feel that something is amiss but you just cannot place your finger on it? If this happens, observe first and gather enough evidence. There are a lot more signs of a cheating girlfriend and the above are just a few of them. Note that you cannot just accuse her of being unfaithful right away. Research more and gather proof before acting. Remember that a happy relationship is one of the factors of having happy in life. <h1> </h1> Want More Tips? Visit http://www.MyRelationshipDoctor.com to download Christian's free report where you will be exposed to the latest signs of a cheating girlfriend that will help you win the fight against infidelity!

Tips for Kindling Romance

Remember when you first met, how just being near him gave you butterflies in your stomach and each time he dropped you off at home you couldn't wait until you could hear his voice again? You'd wait for 10 minutes, 15minutes, or maybe 20 then call him to make sure he got home safely. Then over the next couple of hours you would talk about nothing and everything. It didn't really matter what was said it was just comforting to hear each other's voice- the sound of his voice to carry you into the next day where you would make plans to see each other again.<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805563" height="1" width="1"/>

Online Dating Personal Ads That Get Attention

Most the Online Dating and Personals industry sites provide a space for their members to post a photo and write a little narrative about their likes and dislikes. It is a fact that single ads with a picture command a 70 percent response over singles who don't post a photograph. A relatively new feature is to allow single daters to upload an audio clip along with their photo. This gives other members the added ability to hear what the person behind the photo and written profile sounds like.<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805562" height="1" width="1"/>

Discover the Compacted Facts about Oily Skin Care

You've probably heard it a hundred times. Good oily skin care has one overriding focus--the maintenance of keeping it clean. Clean skin contains less oil. It facilitates development of a clear complexion. Some oily skin care products offer those with this dilemma an effective way to cleanse the pores. Such products gently lift the oil from the pores. They give the skin a chance to "breathe." Other oily skin care products remove dead cells from the surface of the face. If allowed to stay, those dead cells could work their way into the pores. Bacteria could then feed themselves from those dead skin cells. No article about oily skin care would be complete without mention of the word "bacteria." The oil and dead cells in pores can create an inviting home for bacteria. When bacteria begin to grow on the skin, it becomes red and infected. Those two features have come to represent two of the best-known characteristics of being acne-prone. Why do some people have such oiliness? Some people have been blessed with especially active sebaceous glands. The nose has some of the largest and most active sebaceous glands on the body. The neck, chest and back also contain areas with large and active sebaceous glands. The amount of oil produced by a person's sebaceous glands is determined by his or her DNA. Our genes direct the production of our hormones. The chemicals in hormones stimulate oil production in the sebaceous glands. Our genes also influence the speed and the extent to which each sebaceous gland responds to the body's hormones. In other words, genetics determines who will need to pay closest attention to the available information about oily skin care. Those who take the time to read such information will get some good news. This type of skin does not mature as rapidly as other types. People with skin that is oily seem able to hold-off the appearance of wrinkles. Of course that does not mean that those with this type of skin will never age. People with these problems, however, do need to use anti-aging products on their skin. Therefore, their chosen oily skin care products should include products that can also help to retard its aging as well. Such products should contain collagen. As found in nature, the protein called collagen has a fiber-like quality. That protein gives the skin an added amount of strength. It causes it to feel firmer. Good anti-aging products also contain elastin. Elastin is a protein that gives the skin flexibility. By learning about the function of collagen and elastin, an older adult can better appreciate the extent to which both proteins prevent the appearance of aging. Firm skin does not wrinkle and sag. When flexible, it has the ability to return to its original position, even after is has been pulled and stretched. Firm and flexible skin contains an adequate amount of collagen and elastin. When adults purchase for oily skin care, they need to look for products that can stimulate the production of collagen and elastin. Older adults do not benefit from using a product that can only fill-in the spaces between any wrinkle lines that have developed. By using the proper oily skin care products, adults can have a healthier glow. They can enjoy looking in the mirror. They can expect to see in the mirror a face with a more youthful visage. <h1> </h1> Laurel is a dedicated researcher of skin care health and products. She shares her research on her website. If you have unwanted wrinkles, fine lines and damaged skin, visit http://www.beautiful-skin-site.com now to learn about the skin care line Laurel personally recommends.

Finding a Date at Work

Making the Date is the hard part...So you were successful in getting her to say, "yes" but now the challenge becomes finding a fun activity for your first date. You don't want her to be bored so we have put together some suggestions of things you may consider for your first dating adventure together.<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805561" height="1" width="1"/>

John Edwards Admits To Affair

Friday, 08/08/08, John Edwards admitted to what many had suspected for a long time - he cheated on his wife, Elizabeth. He previously denied stories about the affair, using what he considered a loop hole - the stories printed where filled with errors. This enabled him to feel justified in denying the story. Whatever. He lied. [

Adult dating sites - Offer - Adult Dating - Adult Personals - Online Dating - Single Dating

(Online Dating News Blog) A patent filed by Microsoft shows that the company is interested in getting into the online dating service industry. The patent outlines plans for a photo-based online dating services where matches are created by looks. The way it works is that a person uploads a picture of a man or woman [ <img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/OnlineDatingNewsBlog/~4/245234045" height="1" width="1"/>

Teen Abusive Relationships - How To Understand and Solve This Huge Problem In Our Communities

Teen abusive relationships is another one of the areas of abusive relationships that is part of the huge issue of relationship problems. There are so many overall aspects of this issue to take into consideration. To get some idea of what I am referring to it may be helpful to touch on some of the statistics that are available to us. Many of them are not up to date, however they give us some indication of the scale of the problem. Also these figures are not comprehensive as the extent of the problem is not really known because of the under reporting that occurs. This happens for various reasons, usually because of the fear and intimidation that is such an integral part of abusive relationships, including teen abusive relationships. Other aspects of this lack of reporting is the embarrassment experienced and many victims have been conditioned to believe they are responsible for the abuse in some way. Many abusers present as shining knights to others, even victim's own families, and those being abused think they will not be believed, because of how others experience the abuser. Given the fact none of the figures known are really accurate, those we come across give some indication of the extent of the problem. One set of statistics indicated that domestic violence is the leading cause of injury to women between the ages of 15 and 44 in the United States - more than rapes, muggings, and automobile accidents combined. As indicated by the age range, this includes teen abusive relationships. Another statistic indicated a woman is beaten every 9 seconds in the United States. Yet another showed a woman is in nine times more danger of violent attack in her home than on the streets. Women and teenage girls are more likely to be victims of homicide when they decide to separate from husbands or boyfriends. There are 3 killed on average every week in the United States. The risk is highest in the first two months after separation. Women and teenage girls are often severely injured - 22 to 35% of of those who visit medical emergency rooms are there for injuries related to ongoing abuse. Surveys show that abuse in dating relationships is prevalent. Some suggest the incidence is on the increase. About one in three females will experience violence at the hands of their boyfriends before they reach adulthood, so this also relates to teen abusive relationships. Sometimes teenage girls do not recognize they are involved in abusive relationships, as they are unaware of, or misunderstand, some of the signs. Such things as being overly attentive and seemingly protective. It is likely these things happen in the early stages of the relationship and can be interpreted initially as healthy jealousy or caring. Before long it will be experienced as possessiveness, or acting like they own you, and wanting to control you in every way. Putting you down and undermining you in a whole range of ways, classic parts of teen abusive relationships as well as all other abusive relationships. This will involve telling you what to do and not to do. It will include extremes of mood and temperament. There will be the apologies and promises of it never happening again. You want to believe him as he seems so sincere and genuine, only you find before long he resorts to the same tactics, often with the addition of placing the responsibility onto you. I met someone recently who was pushed over by her ex partner and she broke her arm. He told her it was her own fault. He accepted no responsibility. Other aspects of abusive relationships, including teen abusive relationships, is being subjected to false accusations, suggesting you have been unfaithful and the like. You can be prevented from doing things you want to do, including being isolated from friends and family. This is not an exhaustive list as there are many other things that could be mentioned. The big question is - why do so many men carry on like this? Most explanations, such as being insecure, having low self esteem, problems with anger, or drugs and alcohol etc., are simply excuses in my view, and are not helpful at all. The only way I can make sense of it is, that as males we are encouraged to think we are superior to women. Consequently, those who allow themselves to be influenced by this programming, tend to adopt the role of master and believe they have every right to hold power over and dominate those inferior lot, namely women and children. This is the modeling that is rife in society and it is no surprise it is manifested in teen abusive relationships. The only way relationships can work is for us to agree that men and women are equal, no one is superior or inferior to the other, and this is shown by the way we relate to each other. It follows we acknowledge and respect each other, and have relationships many people have no idea is possible, and as a result, have richer, fuller and more satisfying lives. <h1> </h1> Leo Ryan is a counselor with over twenty years experience in the field dealing primarily with relationships and particularly abusive relationships. He has given many talks, seminars and workshops on the subject, as well as being interviewed by all sectors of the media about his work. He is the author of the ebook "How to Have An Extraordinary Relationship". http://www.relationship-tips-for-you.com

Dating at College

First impressions are important make them count...Ladies this is where a lot of men fail the test. Men pay close attention to what we are about to say here. Do not let your eyes wander around the room as your date is spilling her heart out to you. This is a definite way to not get a second date. You have asked for her time and she generously agreed to share her time with you so do not waste her time. Spend the time with her and do not shop for a better model while your out.<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805560" height="1" width="1"/>

Fling Dating Pays Off!

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Are You Crazy Enough for Online Blind Dates?

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What is the answer to the question...How To Save My Relationship? Do you know what the key secret is to a happy and very fulfilling relationship? This secret is vital to understanding how to get a failed relationship moving in the right direction! "What is this secret"? It is knowing how the opposite sex is keeping score in the relationship... It's true! Both sexes do keep score on a subconscious level. They each have their own "point system". A mans point system is - she will get more points if the deed is BIG, and will be awarded fewer points if the deed is small. A woman, on the other hand, will typically give one point no matter the magnitude of the deed. Much harder on us guys to understand but this is HUGE! If you don't understand what you just read then please reread it and think about it for a moment. It is critical that you understand it. Why is this point so BIG? Because huge problems will arise when we are trying to win points using our own genders "mindset". Larry wants to score "points" with his woman. He is thinking like a man and just "knows" she will be so excited if he, (Larry), does something "REALLY BIG". "This will get me a "TON" of points with her," he says to himself... "This will be good for at least a month or more"! He then proceeds to buy her a very expensive jewelry piece. "Man, I am so smart to do it all at once and be off the hook for a whole month"! Great idea in theory but...MOST women...if they are given a choice between getting a stunning piece of jewelry once or something unexpected each day...like a love note...an "out of the blue" call just to tell her you love her...a flower, etc., each day...will opt for the "many small ways and things often" instead of the one COLOSSAL thing about 90% of the time. It just doesn't make sense, but it is a fact! Can you relate to this argument? Molly: "You don't bring me flowers anymore. You don't love me". Larry: "WHAT? Just last month I gave you that gold and diamond necklace"! Does this sound familiar? He thought he was good on the point scale for at least 2 months or maybe even 6 months because of the way MEN KEEP SCORE. Moving to the other side of the relationship. Molly wants to impress her man so she does lots of nice "little" things daily. She is thinking that this is "getting ahead" or at least "staying even" with Larry. She walks his dog...1 point Gives him a back rub...1 point Fixes his favorite dinner...1 point And on and on it goes...1 point here - 1 point there. Problem city -just around the corner. She believes that she has now all these points "in the bank" but he just never shows any kind of appreciation for all her "points". The problem is...Larry does appreciate all those little things, but he just doesn't keep score by adding up all those one pointers. His subconscious is holding out for the BIG event. Molly would have been much better off if she would have just bought tickets to the next BIG ballgame or Nascar event. She would have instantly earned at least 50 points all at once...and she would be "set" for weeks and weeks! Larry would be bragging to the guys what a "super woman" he has because she gave him tickets to the game! He would praise her "till the cows came home". This is one event that Larry would remember for the rest of his life. Why? Because that is just the way it works with men. Bigger is better. "How can I use this information to win back my ex's heart"? Just remember... Gals...find the ONE BIG thing he would really like. Guys...do a series of small things with a BIG thing thrown in, but count that big one as a small one. "My relationship is already on the rocks. What can I do?" Don't panic! There are ways to help you get your ex back. Remember the answer to the question...How To Save My Relationship?...is based on the point system. Learning how "the point system" works will go a long way to saving your relationship. It is also the first step to understanding your mate. <h1> </h1> I enjoy helping people get back their lost loves. What might seem an impossible situation can be turned around into a happy couple. Can you get your ex back? By following the strategies outlined it is possible to win back the love of your life. CLICK HERE and discover how you can get your ex back.

Great First Date Ideas

Making the Date is the hard part...So you were successful in getting her to say, "yes" but now the challenge becomes finding a fun activity for your first date. You don't want her to be bored so we have put together some suggestions of things you may consider for your first dating adventure together.<img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/club-555/azPU/~4/198805561" height="1" width="1"/>

08/08/08 Big Day For Weddings in Beijing, China

Calum MacLeod, of the USA Today, reports that some 9000 Chinese couples are set to be married on August 8th, 2008, in Beijing, China. The push for so many to marry on that date comes in two parts. One, because 8 is a lucky number in China and they want to take advantage of the [

Online dating - How a SHI Symbol Helps Fashion Conscious SIngles Worldwide Find Dates and Love

(Online Dating News Blog) The creators of free online dating service OKcupid have created a new concept on online dating - blind dates. Last November the team launched a new service called Crazy Blind Date that allows people in select cities to meet up with others without seeing a picture or ever communicating with [ <img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/OnlineDatingNewsBlog/~4/245234044" height="1" width="1"/>

If You Are Born With Poor Romance Luck,How You Can Improve It

In the previous article,you have learnt about the causes of good and bad romance luck.To summarize,to have good romance luck,your romance stars must represent your favorable elements.If your romance stars represent your unfavorable elements,then you are going to have trouble in your romance. In this article,you are going to learn how to overcome this problem,if you happen to be born with poor romance luck. To determine your romance stars,you need to know about your chinese zodiac sign.With your chinese zodiac sign,you will be able to know your 3 romance stars.Due to space constrain,I will only touch on the most important romance star,which is the marriage star.If you are single,I believe the marriage star is the most important to you,unless you are looking for flings. If you are looking for flings,I will share with you more about how to have more flings in another article.Meanwhile,I will show you how you can make your marriage star favorable.Let's look at the marriage stars for each of the 12 animals... Rat's marriage star is Rabbit,which represents Wood. Ox's marriage star is Tiger,which also represents Wood. Tiger's marriage star is Ox,which represents Wet Earth. Rabbit's marriage star is Rat,which represents Water. Dragon's marriage star is Pig,which also represents Water. Snake's marriage star is at Dog,which represents Hot Earth. Horse's marriage star is at Rooster,which represents Metal. Sheep's marriage star is at Monkey,which represents Metal. Monkey's marriage star is at Sheep,which represents Hot Earth. Rooster's marriage star is at Horse,which represents Fire. Dog's marriage star is at Snake,which also represents Fire. Pig's marriage star is at Dragon,which represents Wet Earth. Now,let's look at an example of how to use the above information.Using the Rat as an example.If you are sign is Rat,but you are born in Spring (a lot of Wood),your marriage star is unfavorable to you,as it represents rabbit (wood).On the other hand,if you are born in Autumn (a lot of Metal),your marriage star is favorable to you,as wood is your favorable element. Question now is if you are a Rat born in Spring,how can you change your marriage luck from bad to good?Since you already have a lot of Wood in your 8 characters,and your marriage star is also Wood,you need to increase the effect of Metal to counter the effects of the surplus Wood.You can increase the effect of Metal by wearing more jewellery. Right now,you must be wondering how to counter the effects of the elements of the marriage stars,if they are unfavorable to you.Don't worry,I will list everything out for you below. To counter Wood,increase the effect of Metal by wearing more jewellery and chain watches. To counter Water,increase the effect of Fire by wearing more red,purple,orange as well as carrying chilies or batteries with you. To counter Fire,increase the effect of Water by wearing more blue,black and carrying a water bottle with you. To counter Metal,increase the effect of Wood by wearing more green as well as carrying books or paper with you. To counter Hot Earth,increase the effect of Water and Metal as mentioned above. To counter Wet Earth,increase the effect of Wood and Metal as mentioned above. The next question you have is under what circumstances is the marriage star unfavorable to you? If you are born in the same month represented by the marriage star,it is unfavorable to you.Let me give you another example,if you are born in Ox year,Tiger month,your marriage star is unfavorable to you. Next,I will list out for you the periods of the different months.Then you can easily determine which month you are born in. Tiger month,3rd February to 5th March Rabbit month,6th March to 4th April Dragon month,5th April to 5th May Snake month,6th May to 6th June Horse month,7th June to 6th July Sheep month,7th July to 7th August Monkey month,8th August to 7th September Rooster month,8th September to 7th October Dog month,8th October to 7th November Pig month,8th November to 7th December Rat month,8th December to 5th January of the following year Ox month,6th January to 3rd February With this information in your hands,you can easily change bad romance luck into good romance luck.All the best in your romance.Next article,I shall share with you about one night stands and flings. <h1> </h1> Marco Chong is an expert in Feng Shui, Chinese Astrology and Indian Numerology. He specializes in using the different types of astrology to analyze love compatibility.His recent project aims to help individuals who are seeking romance create their own romance luck. Visit his website at http://www.createyourownromanceluck.com