Do I Want My Ex Back?

If you've just gone through a difficult breakup you can easily get overwhelmed with the conflicting emotions. Usually disbelief comes first followed by shock, anger and pain. At some point though many people ask themselves the question: "Do I want my ex back?" While it might seem like that would be an easy question to answer, it usually isn't. If your ex was verbally or physically abusive than, yes, it probably is easy to answer that question. But relationships often have shades of gray. Most relationships have good and bad and it isn't always easy to think clearly and make a good decision about whether or not to get back with your ex. As a rule of thumb you should take some time, clear your head and then try to be as objective as possible. Ask your friends and family for their honest opinion about your ex and how they perceived your relationship. They can often see things that you don't want to see when you are in the middle of the relationship. If the general consensus is that the relationship is worth salvaging and you decide that you do want your ex back, there is a new book on the market that may be able to help you get them back. "The Magic Of Making Up" is a book written by T.W. Jackson. This admittedly unconventional book can provide you with a road map of exactly what to do, say and what not to do to get back in your exes heart. Jackson gives you tools to deal with such concerns as depression, what to do when you find yourself going a little 'crazy', how to judge if your ex really wants you back, and lots of other valuable tools. In the book Jackson explains that 90% of rebound relationships don't last, so you don't have to panic or give up if your ex is seeing someone else. He points out what men and women really want when it comes to a relationship and it's probably not what you think. Jackson helps you understand when is the right time and the wrong time to have sex after a reconciliation. This is very much a gender issue but often both genders get it wrong. Jackson is not a counselor or psychologist. His techniques are a bit counterintuitive, but according to the testimonials he has received he has helped over six thousand people all over the world. Jackson says that most relationships can be saved. If your relationship can't be saved he gives you valuable tools to help you move on with your life. The bottom line is this: you have to ask yourself do I want my ex back? If the answer to that question is yes than you might want to consider reading "The Magic Of Making Up". This unique book can give you the tools you need to stop a breakup or divorce. You have nothing to lose and hopefully a wonderful, fulfilling relationship to gain. <h1> </h1> Lisa, a former restaurateur,has been working from home online for over 5 years. For more valuable information please visit: www.LiveSmartResources.com