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What is the answer to the question...How To Save My Relationship? Do you know what the key secret is to a happy and very fulfilling relationship? This secret is vital to understanding how to get a failed relationship moving in the right direction! "What is this secret"? It is knowing how the opposite sex is keeping score in the relationship... It's true! Both sexes do keep score on a subconscious level. They each have their own "point system". A mans point system is - she will get more points if the deed is BIG, and will be awarded fewer points if the deed is small. A woman, on the other hand, will typically give one point no matter the magnitude of the deed. Much harder on us guys to understand but this is HUGE! If you don't understand what you just read then please reread it and think about it for a moment. It is critical that you understand it. Why is this point so BIG? Because huge problems will arise when we are trying to win points using our own genders "mindset". Larry wants to score "points" with his woman. He is thinking like a man and just "knows" she will be so excited if he, (Larry), does something "REALLY BIG". "This will get me a "TON" of points with her," he says to himself... "This will be good for at least a month or more"! He then proceeds to buy her a very expensive jewelry piece. "Man, I am so smart to do it all at once and be off the hook for a whole month"! Great idea in theory but...MOST women...if they are given a choice between getting a stunning piece of jewelry once or something unexpected each day...like a love note...an "out of the blue" call just to tell her you love her...a flower, etc., each day...will opt for the "many small ways and things often" instead of the one COLOSSAL thing about 90% of the time. It just doesn't make sense, but it is a fact! Can you relate to this argument? Molly: "You don't bring me flowers anymore. You don't love me". Larry: "WHAT? Just last month I gave you that gold and diamond necklace"! Does this sound familiar? He thought he was good on the point scale for at least 2 months or maybe even 6 months because of the way MEN KEEP SCORE. Moving to the other side of the relationship. Molly wants to impress her man so she does lots of nice "little" things daily. She is thinking that this is "getting ahead" or at least "staying even" with Larry. She walks his dog...1 point Gives him a back rub...1 point Fixes his favorite dinner...1 point And on and on it goes...1 point here - 1 point there. Problem city -just around the corner. She believes that she has now all these points "in the bank" but he just never shows any kind of appreciation for all her "points". The problem is...Larry does appreciate all those little things, but he just doesn't keep score by adding up all those one pointers. His subconscious is holding out for the BIG event. Molly would have been much better off if she would have just bought tickets to the next BIG ballgame or Nascar event. She would have instantly earned at least 50 points all at once...and she would be "set" for weeks and weeks! Larry would be bragging to the guys what a "super woman" he has because she gave him tickets to the game! He would praise her "till the cows came home". This is one event that Larry would remember for the rest of his life. Why? Because that is just the way it works with men. Bigger is better. "How can I use this information to win back my ex's heart"? Just remember... Gals...find the ONE BIG thing he would really like. Guys...do a series of small things with a BIG thing thrown in, but count that big one as a small one. "My relationship is already on the rocks. What can I do?" Don't panic! There are ways to help you get your ex back. Remember the answer to the question...How To Save My Relationship?...is based on the point system. Learning how "the point system" works will go a long way to saving your relationship. It is also the first step to understanding your mate. <h1> </h1> I enjoy helping people get back their lost loves. What might seem an impossible situation can be turned around into a happy couple. Can you get your ex back? By following the strategies outlined it is possible to win back the love of your life. CLICK HERE and discover how you can get your ex back.